结婚十年，我觉得自己很可怜，一般女人出轨都不承认吗

 zidajielehunjiulizhizaijiali，kaishizuoqilejiatingzhufu。yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？jiehunshinian，laogongshiyechenggong，xiongdiliangconghuitaorenxihuan，lejietaderendourenweitashixingfude：youwoderichangshenghuo、pingwendehunyinshenghuo、keaidehaizi，zuizhongyaowuxuchutoulumianchulaidishengxiaqihunfanchi，zhenshishiyishengdedayingjia。nvpengyouchuguihoudexinlixueyounaxie？

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 waiyumubiaobiaozhunbingmeiyoulaogonghao，jinjinyigexiangmaohegezidouhenyibandegongxinzu，meiyigeyuenazhewendingxinshui，bizhao.dezhangfu，shiyijiachangzidelaozong，bingqierongmaohegeziquanshihenchusede。yibanrenwaiyudeyuanyintongchangyaobushitulingyifangdejinqian、yaobushijianseqizhitulingyifangderongmao，keshi.tiaoxuanwaiyudeyuanyouzeshixianrulingyifangdeshouhou。

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 yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？zhihoujiagongchangzuoqilaile，maimaiyuebianyuehao，laogongyeyuefamang，yizhouyehuibudaojihuijia。zaizhihoudezheijinian，.yigerenqianchelianggehaizi，liliwaiwaiyigeren，meirideshenghuojiushizhufan、xiyifu、jiawulaodong、daiwa，naizhijiazhongdediandengpaohuaidiao、dixiashuiguanloushuizheizhongcuhuoyelaobudaozhangfubangzhu，zhinengzishenqinzirumen。

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 laogongxiguanjiazhongdeyiqiedouwolaizhanhuo，yincijibiannannengkeguihaiyoujihuixiexi，laogongyequanshiduozaixiaoshufang，shuayixiashoujishangshenmeyangde。nannengkeguixiexitaxiangfangsongyixia，buyuanbeixiaopengyoumendajiao，yinweiwonenglejie，yincijinkenengbuxuxiaopengyoumenchaonao。

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 jiehunshinian，woshineimehuilaide，congmeiyouyijuguanzhu，shuodejiaoduodebianshi“yitiandaowanzaijializheigeneigedouzuobutaihao……"。zaibierenlaikan，woguozheyouwodefutaitairichangshenghuo，shijishangshiyigeweitarenshengxiaohaiquemeiyougongzidemianfeijiatingbaomu。

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 tashigewenrunruyudenansheng，huixixinlingtingwodefannao，huijiliduozuoyixieshizhegenggairujinyitansishuideshenghuozhuangtai，erqieconglaibuzhizewozuodebutaihao，fandaohenzhongshiwodemeiyigejuece。

 zaitazheier，woganjuedaoshiwuqianlidesuiyi，wuxuzuiqiuzhushijizhibucuowu，hainengkuanrongwodeyixiexiaojiaozong，gengnenglejiexianzaiworichangshenghuodefanmen，tanbaishuo，wogenxiangyouhetazaiyiqiderizi。

 nvxingzaihuiganshiyexiangzhaorenjiezhu，yexiangyouyigerennengshouhouheguanzhuzishen，keshilaogongqueyitiandaowanfanmanggongzuozhong，jidequzhikeshu。zheizhongbenyingshilaogongjiyudenuanyiheguanhuai，rujinqueyoulingyigenanrentidai，zheidayuejiuzhenzhuoleyiduanhunyinshenghuodebuxing。

 jialiyoulaogonggongfeng、zaiwaimianxiangaiderenshouhou，neiyangderichangshenghuotingqilaiyinggaishishifenfuhele，keshi.dexinlingquehuanghuangbukezhongri。

 zaijiali，meilianyingduiairendexiangxinhexinlai，zaiwaimian，tameifahuifulianrenjiyudenuanyihezhenxinshiyi。zai.xinli，jibuyuanyisangshixiaohaisangshijiazhongquzhuiqiuwanmeisuiyi，keshiyixiangqiyiyanjiunengkantoudehunhoushenghuo，.jiujuedezishenwanrukunshou，shishikekedouxiangchongchulaolong。nvpengyouchuguihoudexinlixueyounaxie？

 zuihou，helaogonghaowubaoliudechuanjijiamengshang，jiaodailewaiyudeshier，zuihoulianggerentiaoxuanleliyi。zailihunzhiqian，laogongzhiyi.weiheyaowaiyu，zishennaerbaoqiantale。yingduizhiyi，.jiushuoleju，zheishinianwohaokule，jiaruhaoguo，sheihuixiangyaowaiyua？

 duia，hunyinshenghuozhong，daduoshuchuguiderendoushihuikonggaohunyinshenghuodejianxin，“kuzhong，shenbuyouyi“bianchengwaiyudeguanfangwangshuoci。hunyinshenghuohetanlianaizuigaodechayijiuqujueyu，tanlianainenggoufenbugushen，youtaqu，erhunyinshenghuozedaliangshibiciyaosheqiyibufensuiyi，yongyiwuquguanshuzishen。

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 weitabianjiedezheiyijujingdiantaicishenhouyanwaizhiyishi：woyoubingbushizhenxinshiyixiangchugui，jinjinwuyizhicuo，zuoweilaogong，yingdangtiaoxuankuanrong，bukuanrong，bianshinidecuo。

shuodeduomedetangerhuangzhi，fangfofancuowubuyongdanfubuliangyingxiangyiyang。nvpengyouchuguihoudexinlixueyounaxie？

 yikaishitajiuwangtuyong“quanshijienanshengdoushifandecuo”laidedaoxuayideyuanliang，quebuzhidao，jinguanquanshijienanshenghenyoukenengdoushifanzheiyicuo，keshizheibijingshicuode，zhongguiyaochengdangbuliangyingxiangde。

 dangreqingtunqu，richangshenghuobeichaimiyouyanjiangcuchachongyideqingkuangxia，richangshenghuodefanmenbidinghuizishenghunhouchuguideqianyishi，keshizuoweihunyinshenghuolidebici，yingdangbaozhengbaochiqingxing，wulunshireqingerzhi、huoshizhenzhengdeaiqingxunmi，dougenggaibushangduiairenpanbiandekeguanshishi，naxieyuanyindouwufaweicibianjie。

 yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？zhenzhengdeaiqingziyouzizaide，ruguobuailenenggousuishisuidihuan，keshihunyinshenghuozeshixiandingsuiyide，hunyinshenghuolidenanhaihenvhaizuihoudouxuyaoguiruningjing，xuehuishenghuo。yuhexiongzhangbunengjiangu，jindaohunyinshenghuohou，jiuxuyaoduihunyinshenghuoweichijingweizhixin，danfuyiwu。