老公与女性朋友经常闲聊，语调暖味，我该怎么挽回感情?

如何挽回丈夫 ？佳欣是一名早已踏入婚姻生活圣殿的女性，在跟男朋友完婚之后，感情生活算是开朗，两人都归属于自身企业中的技术骨干，做事工作能力强，收益高。

 laogongtiexinzixi，xingqingguishuyuleguandaqizhonglei，henzhaogongxiai，zaiqiyerenyuanrenpinfeichanghao，youyuliangrenyiqizouguolehenduodefengchuiyudacailingjiehunzhengwanhun，jiaxinjiyulelaogongshizudexinren，feichangshaoqufanlaogongdeshoujishang，yixiepengyoupengyoudejuhui，tadouburongyijizhecuizhelaogonghuijiale，tongdianhuachagangjiugengzhaobudaole。ruhewanhuilaogong?ruhewanhuizhangfu?

 keshijinjitian，shierchanshenglezhuanzhedian。youyitianyeli，laogongquxianzaole，shoujishangfangdaowudoujushang，jiaxinbujiuxihaozuozhewoshichuangshangwanzheshoujishang，huranlaogongdeshoujipinghuiliang，taqingqingdidepieleyiyan，jiandaoleyitiaoshoujiweixinxinxi，shiyiquanmingshihuihuidenvxingweizijilaogongfade，zaixixinyikan，zheiyihuihuishuohuadeyudiaohaidaidianfadiazhuangmeng，jiaxindeneixinyixiazijiubudejingle。

 qiuzhiyuposhitajihuolelaogongdeshoujishang，tadianjinlaogonghehuihuidexianliaokuang，fajueliangrenjibenshangmeiridouliao，bingqieyuyanzhongjianquanshiguanzhu，yizhiyuxiawuyongcanquanshiyuezheyiqide，kandechu，henshixingyingbuli。natiaogangfalaidexinxineirongdagaineirongshineiyangde：“jinridemeirirenwuqueshiyoudianerduoai，haihaoyounibangzhu，yaoburanrujindoubukeyixiexile，niyezaozaoxiuxileba，haowuyiwenyejiangnileikuale。”

 kanjianqianbianfanbuwandeweixinliaotianjilu，jiaxinxiangxiangxiang，jiaruzishenmeifajueneitiaoshoujiweixinxinxineirong，laogongyingdanghuihenguanzhudehuiyingba，yishijian，taxinlidexinrentianranpingzhangbeibaituole，zaochengleyidaoliefeng，tahenbushufu，nandaoshuoxiangzhixiangxideyishizhuxing，buruyigeganglejiebujiudenvyouguimima，tabuzhidaozenyangzhangkoulejiecaihao。

老师评价

lijingjiaxindezisu，shierdeqianyinhouguozaoyishifenqingchu，zaizheigejichushang，xuduoyonghuxiangwen：

全是信任惹得祸?

 changyixiejihunhenduoniandedajiejie、sishenniangjiaojigongzuojingyan，shuoduinanshengguoduoxinrenjiuxiangdangyufangrenchuguinanren，jiuxiangdangyunanshengnenggoumukongyiqie;

keshigenglaoyibeidemuqinlaolaozegaosudajia，duinanshengqianquexinren，jiuhuimeitianzhengchao，jiawuningri。

那该怎样?

jiaxindeshier，haoxiangjiushishuoyinweiguoduoxinrenlaogongzaochengde，danqueshishineiyangma?

 youaihaonenggoukanyixia《lianqingwuniannanpengyouquecongmeitanjiwanhun，wogaihequhecong?》，youfensizaihoutaiguanliliuyanbanliuyanshuo，

 “zheinvhaihaowuyiwenshidianxingxingde，xiguanxingzaiganqingshenghuozhongshiyanliangmuderen，xuduoneishihoudegoutong，doumeifazhenshifangkongzijidexintai，ranglaogongganjueqiancuowancuotadounengrenshou，congerzaochenglebuzhengquedechansheng，yaolejie，meikubunaomeiyoutangchi，youyueganjiangdile，laogongdexinyefeizoule。”

neima，jiaxinheyuanyuandezhuangkuangshiyiyangdema?

 youyidiantamenshileiside，jiushishuolianqingjibiejiaodi。jinguantongguishuyuzhichangnvxing，gongzuozhonggongzuonenglihenqiang，keshizaiqingganzhong，yuanyuanshitixindiaodan，bumingbaibiaoshuzishen;jiaxinqueshiwuyuwuqiu，qianquehunyinjingyingdezhudong，xiguanxing“sanyang”。lianzishenlaogongheshiheyigexiaonvhailiaodaohuobaodoubuqingchu，kandejiantazaoyixiayishihushilaogonghaozhangshijianle。

 chuduixiangderendoulejie，jiusuannizaixinren，yaoshishienai，zaihulingyifang，neima，lingyifangxuduoxiweidefanying，tebieshizaishiyuguoqubutongdian，quanshimeibanfamanzhushenpangrende，tebieshizaishixinsizhenmidenvhaimen。neima，jiaxinnenggouneimajiucaifajuelaogongzheileijijinlaogongjingshenchuguidegerenxingwei，kandejianjiaxindewuyuwuqiu，fangdaolaogongshoushangdeguanxinhaowuyiwenyuelaiyueshaole。

lingyigenanti，shijiaxinlaogongzhenduiganqingjiexiangandemohubuqing。

 hunyinshenghuozhonghunyinguanxideweihubaoyang，jindaolehunyinshenghuobianyongyouyifenyiwu，liangrendouhenchuse，daziranhaihuixiyinnvshengdeyanguang，shijishangzheibingfeicuoshi，zhongyaohuanshikanruhejiejuezheizhongnanti。zuoweiyimingchusedegangweiren，juedaduoshudoulejie，hunyinshenghuochukaishiganqingdejieguo，yeshiyizhongyiwuhekefu。

 nannvguanxishibunengrongrendisanzhede。keshi，zhangqixingguanliandefawei，jiqisuoyourenzhenduiganqingjiexianganderenzhinenglibuyiyang，jiufeichangrongyiyinyouwujiehefenqibaofa。

 zaishihougoutonghuozhi，jiaxingennanpengyouquanshixianghudechuliannvyou。lianggerentanle8nian，congdaxueshengtidaolegongzuozhongpingwenhoucaibujindaohunyinshenghuode，qineiyeqinshenjingliguowaidi、diaozhideng，chadianerjiufenle。

 keshilaogongyizhijianchibuxie，caizoudaozuihou。laogongpingchangyehenguanzhujiaxin，zaizheizhongshiqingchanshengyiqian，tasuanshishangshiyimingdabiaodelaogong，rangjiaxinhenyouguishugan，nenggoushuo，lianggerenfenbieshiyanganqingshenghuozhongbibukeshaoderenwujiaose，zhenduixianghushibushihuiliqu，zaozaoyiqueshiledingyi。

 shijishang，jiaxindelaogongyuhuihuidoumeiyoubenzhikuayuerenjiguanxidegerenxingwei，keshi，jingchanghudongjiaoliurangjiaxinhenbudejing。zhenduizenyangyuyixingpengyouweichishidudejianju，jiaxindelaogongqianqueqingchudedingyi。

 zaifajuelaogongdenantiyihou，jiaxinmeiyoulikequtichuzhiyilaogong，tazhaodaorenmenpojing，qidairenmenkeyixiezhutaxiubuzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，balaogongcongwaiyudebianyanlashanglai。neishihoushihedunjiaoshijielejiaxindeanjian。

 hedunjiaoshibiaoda，zheiyianjianshijicaozuoqilainanduxishubusuanshida，guanjianshijicaozuofangweijiushishuo1 nongqingchuzhuangkuang 2 mudexingchuli

 yibianmotoulaogongdezhuangkuang，helaoshitizaoyujiaxingoutonghao，yulaogonggoutongzheiyidian，bingbushiyibian“wenze”he“jizoulingyifang”，zhishiyibianmoqingchuzhuangkuang，yizhidingmudexingdexiubujihuafangan。

 zaijiaxinquelilezheiyidianhou，helaoshishejifanganleteshudeqingjing、goutongxiaoshouhuashu、goutongshijianjiqibuyiyanggoutongjieguodejiejuejiejuefangshi 。

 erjieguoshijiaoweihaode，jiaxinquelibiaoshulezishenjiandaodekeguanshishi，talaogongrulaoshisuoyucede，kaizhanlebiaoshu，bingqiexintaishifenchengzhi。

 cike，jiaxinyizhaolaoshiyiqianjiaode，yeqingshenyiqiedequeligaozhilingyifang，zishenshizaiyizheizhongzuofade，shihuinanguohexinfanyiluande，youyuzishenfeichangailingyifang，keshiyeqingxilejiehaowuyiwenshizishennaerzuodebuzuhao，lingyifangcaihuilingzhaoqingtuduihuakuang，gengshiyouyukanzhong，yincicaixianggoutong。tankaihou，lianggerendeguanlianyongyouyidingzhuanhao。

 suihou，helaoshidechudeshijicaozuofangweiyouerdian，yishitishengfuqizhijiandexiangtongdian;ershizhidingmudexingkechengneirong，bangjiaxintigaolianqingjibie，tebieshizaishikandaiyuanzexingwentidechuliguocheng，fanghuanyuweiran。

 youyuxianghuxiangzhixiangshishijianzhangshijian，gerenaihaomeiyouhuodekuozhan，lianggerenzhongjiandelianaideganjuezaoyixiaotuile，zaijianlijiazhonghou，jiaxinfeichangshaoyulaogongyouchumenquwandejiyu，liangrenquanshigongzuozhong-jiazhongliangdianyixiandeyishizhuxing，kuzaokechen，meiyouyisihuomiao。

 duiyu，helaoshichukairangjiaxinfenpeiyulaogongzaiyouxiaoneiwai，haifenpeilelibaitianchuidiao(jingfufugoutonghou，douhenganxingqudezuixinxiangmu)，qulaogongqiyezuqiusaidangguanzhongmen，jiqizhengtiguihuashengxiaohai。

zaijiaxinyulaogongguanlianpingwen，tingzhifuwuxiangmuyiqian，helaoshijiangguoneiyangyiduanhua，

 “zhangqixingguanlianzaiqizhong2geguanjiandianshifenguanjian：diyi、fangbeibukeyizaifanguoqudenanti，yebubizaochengyixiexindenanti。bubiciciwanjiuqudechenggongle，zhiqiandenantiyoufanle，yixiafanhuijiefangchuqi，zongshizaoyuzaidutichufenshoudefengxianxing。

 dier、yaoxiguanxingdefenjieduansikaozishendezheiyiduanguanlian。youyurenquanshiyoukesuxingde，zaixiguanxingdeyishizhuxinglihuizishensongxie。”ruhewanhuizhangfu?