无休止争吵的婚姻，是否应当舍弃不挽回男人心？

如何 挽回丈夫的心 ？两人从恋情到完婚，伴随着衣食住行、工作中、家中工作压力的持续提升，相互出現的分歧就会很多，接踵而来就是说无休止的争吵，许多人在这一那时候要是没有立即处理争吵难题，心态和分歧就会沉甸多，以前的朋友关系将会也会遭遇裂开。

 keshi，shibushiniqueshiyaolaidaoguanlianwanquanliekaile，zaishuosisuozenyangchulihunyinzhongdezhengchao，zaishuosisuozenyangxiufuhunyindeliefengni?ruhewanhuinanrenxin?zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?

 renmenchangchanghuitingjianyijuhua：hunyinbixubiciqubaochi。zheiyijuhuazaoyishichencilandiaole，keshiyouyoujigenengbaozhengni?qingxingqushixingderenjiuhenshao，lejiezenyangquzuoderenjiuyuelaiyueshaole。

 xuduorenzaihunyinzhongchanshengzhengchao，kanshangquyouyupoxizhijian、shijiyuanguhuoshishixiaohaiyuanguzheixie，keshishishishang，hunyinzhongchanshengzhengchaodezhijieyuanyinqujueyu——tamendejiaowangfangfachuxianlenanti。

zhengchaojiushishuojiaowangfangfachuxiannantideyizhongjinggao，pubiandeyinqizhengchaodejiaowangfangshiyouerzhong：

yizhongjiushishuokekehechize。zheileifangshishifenpubian，bingqiexuduoquanshirenzaibuyouzizhubaozhengdegerenxingwei。

niyoumuyouzaihunyinjiaowangzhongyiqiantingguoyejiushishuoguoneiyangdehua：

“都是你的错……”

“weihejiubukeyi……”

“niyoumeiyouxiangguo……”

“nidangshibenlaitongyiguowo……”

 xiangxinzheizhongyujuxuduoneishihouquanshiniqizaitoudingdeneishihoushuochuqude，yejianxintashuozheizhonghuameiyoudihuilingyifanghanyi，daliangdeshiyizhong“lannifubushangqiang”deyudiao。

 keshi，yanzhewuxintingzheyouxin，suoshudezheixieyujushijishangquanshihanyouzhiyidetexing，qibenzhijiushishuozaifourenlingyifangsuozuodeyiqie，yizhiyushifourenlingyifangzheiyiren。

 zheileifangshishirongyiyinqizhengchaode，tebieshizaishibicimeifabazhengchaozhongdejiejuewenti，dajiajiuhuishenxianchizelingyifang——babuzhengquezongzhidaolingyifangshoushang——yinqizhengchaozheileiliangjihuazhong，yejiujianjiandizhuanbianchenglewuxiuzhidezhengchao。

 zuizhongdejieguojiushishuo，fuqijiandeqingganyulaiyudan，nanshengganjuemeizizunbuxianghuijia，nvrenganjuebubeiaiquefaanquanganganjuegudu，suihouqingganjiumaixiangleliekai。bingqiezheileifangshixia，hunwailiandegailvyaobiyibanzhuangkuangyaogaoxuduo。

jiexiaqu，renmeneryanlingyizhongfangshi，jiushishuohushiyuduobi。

 xuduorenzaichanshengzhengchaodeneishihou，doushizaibuyouzizhuquweihuzishen，zhuyaobiaoxianchuqudejiushishuohushiyuduobilingyifangdenanti，zheileifangshibujinhuichuxianzaihunyinzhong，zailianqingzhongyebingbushishaojian。

 lirunidenvrenjiandaolenigenyigeyixingpengyouyiqiyongcan，suihouqizibiwenzheigenvrendaodishishei，zheiyinvrenjianghuijiushiniqianrennvyou，jianghuijiushinidetongxuemen，huoshijianghuijiushinideyigeguke，keshiniyingduiqizidebiwen，nidediyifanyingdequemanbaoyuduobi。

 jieguo，jianghuiyuanbendeyijianxiaoshi，queyueyanyuelie，nidenvrengengshibiwen，nideyanxuexintaiyueduoqiang，yuebuyuanhuiyingqizidenanti。zheileitichuzhiyiyuzaodongbuanzongshibahunyintuidongsilu，suihoujiushishuowuxiuzhidezhengchaole。

 yeyouyizhongzhuangkuangjiushishuo，nijianghuimeiyouganshenme，keshiairenjinjinyouyumeiyouanquangan，erwenleniyigenanti，suihouniyaoyewusuoweilejiujiangchuyiju“shaoxiangzheizhongyoudemeide，wuqu”。

jianghuinideyongyijinjinrangairenbubizhixiang，keshizheizaiairenlaikan，jiushishuozhuandayizhongxinxineirong：wobuzaihuni。

zheileibeikanzhongderensuohulvedejuede，ruhebuxurenwohuoni?zhengchaodoushicongererqi。

hunyinbingbushiguojiajiayouxi，butaikenenghuizhengpianguanliandouyizhaonideniantouqujiaowang。

 jiaowangzaochengnantitongchangyouyuliangrendezaiqianyishizhongmeifalianjie。dajiadouxiguanxingyongzishendefangfaquailingyifang，keshiquehushilezheiaishifoulingyifangyuanyide。jieguoshiniganjuezishennulile，keshilingyifangqueganjuezishenshiquaiyuguanai，

 yeyouyizhongzhuangkuangjiushishuodajiazhongjiandeshiyongjiazhichabietaida，nimeiyoufangfajingenlingyifangchengcaidejiaobu。nijiuhuifaxiandajiazhongjiandehuatitaolunyuelaiyuedi，yincinizhiyouyongdajiadeyiwanglaikunzhulingyifang。dangdajiaxirilianrenzaoyihaofeiwandeneishihou，lingyifangjiusuanmeiyoufangqini，keshiqingganyeyuelaiyueshifendanle。

 meiyiduanqingganquanshilaizhibuyi，hunyinzhongzuikongbudebingbushichuxianleliefeng，zhishichuxianleliefeng，niquemeiquxiufu，renpingtakuozhang。zainihaiyaokaolvdaoyingduiwuxiuzhizhengchaodehunyin，shifouyingdangsheqideneishihou，bibushangxianxiangzhedajiadejiaowangguanlianshifouzaoyichuxianleliefeng，zenyangquxiufuliefeng。

zhongjiu，nizheiyibeizi，jianghuihennanpengdaoyigexiangtaneiyangzhenzhengainiderenle。

导师寄语：

 hunyinjingyingcongbushiyijianfeichangrongyideshier，quanshijieyemeiyouyiduifuqishichedishihede。shuobailedejizhiguanlianshijishangbingquehan，quanshiyouwentideliangrenzuizhongmoheqidaozhishengxianghudounengjienade、juedaduoshudexiaonanti，zuizhongcaizaiyiqide。zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?