挽回老公实例：我不会强势，为何他還是要跟我离异

如何 挽回丈夫的心 ？三年前，小雅在亲人的详细介绍下了解了阿亮。在一开始的那时候，小雅觉得阿亮相貌平淡无奇，并且不明白烂漫，因此常常都对阿亮欲情故纵。可是阿亮却并不在意小雅的心态，持续保持着激情对小雅进行要求。

 jianjiandi，xiaoyayebeialiangdezhenxinshiyisuochudong，bingqiezishendenianjiyehendale，jiashangjiazhongyebihuncuidejin。yincixiaoyayejiuxuehuifangxiadigenaliangbianchengleqinglv，zaiyinianhou，tamenjiulingjiehunzhengjielehun。ruhewanhuinanrenxin?zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?

 zaijiehunhou，xiaoyagenaliangdejiaowangfangshihuanshigenguoquchuduixiangshiyiyang。youyualiangzailianqingdeneishihouduixiaoyashiguanhuaibeizhidezhaoliao，yincixiaoyahuixiayishididuialiangminglingshidehulaihequ：

“nijinriqujiwobanagehuafeijiaole，wojinritaimangqubushang”

“woyaochinagetesexiaochi，nilaibangwomaihuilaiba”

aliangjinguanjuededaobeihulaihequtinglei，keshixiangzhetashizishendelaopo，tayejiuduizhelaopodehuaquganle。

zaizhihoudeshiri，aliangdegongzuozhonggangkaishijianjiandimangliuleqilai，erxiaoyahuanshixiangzhiqianyiyangrangaliangbangtabanshi，

 zaiqizhongyouyici，aliangyouyugongzuozhongguanlian，meiyoubaxiaoyajiaodaideshierbanwan，suihouxiaoyajiuduialianghuomaosanzhang，aliangdaziranshigezhonggeyangpeixiaoquyuecaibaxiaoyahonghao。

 keshi，aliangxinliqueshishifenbugaoxing，bansuizheshijiandebianhua，aliangguijiadeshijianyulaiyuduan，tazishenyeshuobuqingchuweihetaningkejiabanjiadiangongzuozhong，doubuxiangyaohuijiale。

zongsuan，youyitianaliangfanhuilejiali，haimeihuanxuezizuozhe，xiaoyapitoujiuwen：

“nilainaerle，ruhehenwancaihuijia!”

aliangzongsuanbaofale，talenglengdikanguoxiaoyayiyan，bufayiyandiwaichuqu，renyouxiaoyazenyangjiaohuan，aliangrengranbuzaihuitou。

ertianyihou，xiaoyajiedaolealianglingrensongshangdelihunxieyi。

xiaoyazaixunzhaopojingzhongyuangongsideailisidaoshixiezhutawanhuilaogongdeneishihou，tatichuleyigetayizhiyilvdenanti：

“bingbushishuoqiangshinvxingdehunyinshenghuocaifeichangrongyibuchenggongma，weishabuqiangshi，tahuanshiyaogenwoliyi?”

yibianrangxiaoyakeyijinkuaizhangwotamenhunyinshenghuochuxiannantideyuangu，ailisidaoshiduixiaoyadezhuangkuangkaizhanlepouxi：

yi、xiaoyadezuofashijishangdoushihunyinshenghuozhongdeyizhongqiangshi

xiaoyadoubuzhidaozishendejiaowangzhongdezuofashiyizhongqiangshidezhuyaobiaoxian。

 qiangshibingfeidanshishuoniqiangzhiyazailingyifang，ranglingyifangweizhunizhuanjiushishuoqiangshi，zhishiniyizhiweichizhuminglingshi，wenzeshidegoutongjiaoliufangfadeneishihou，ranglingyifangjuededaogongzuoyalideneishihou，zheiyezaoyishiyizhongqiangshile。

 rutongxiaoyayiyang，tayizhiyongminglingshidefangfagenalianggoutongjiaoliu。zheizaixiaoyalaikan，rangaliangjizijibanshi，tashiyizhonglisuoyingdangdegerenxingwei。keshizhenduialiangeryan，yizhibeizishenzuiqinmijiechuderenhulaihequ，zheileijuedebingnanshou，bingqiejitamentingdadejingshenyali。

er、qingganguanlianzhongderenwujiaosebianhuanweichedi

 nengkanchuqudeshi，xiaoyagenaliangdejiaowangfangfayizhiquanshiweichizhelianqingshidejiaowangfangfa，haimeicongqinglvguanlianwanquanzhuanhuachenghunyinguanxi。

 zailianqingguanlianzhong，qingganbicishidandudegeren，zaizishengerenxingweishangnenggoujiaoweijiaozong，chucizhiwainenggoupiantanyuliji。danzaifuqiguanxizhong，qingganbicijiubianweiyigeoumengle，tamensuozuodeyiqiedouyingdangshipiantanyulijiade。

erdangzaiqizhongyifangnenggoumanzuzishendeyunianerweihailingyifangdeneishihou，tamendeqingganjiuhuichuxiannanti。

 xiaoyajiushishuonizaiyidianshangmeiyougaohao，tayizhibazishendangzuoshialiangdeqinglv，erbingbushialiangdelaopo，renweialianghaiyingdangxianglianqingdeneishihouneibankandaita，jieguojiuzaochenglejinridejushile。

一、塑造相互理解的能力

 xiaoyazaihunyinshenghuozhongyigejiaodadequexianjiushishuoquefaxianghulijiedenengli，jiarubugaidiaozheiyidian，xiaoyadehunyinshenghuojiusuanwanjiuhuijiale，yerengranhuichuxiangezhonggeyangdenanti。yinciyibianyilaoyongyidijiejuekunnan，ailisidaoshijiuyaoxiaoyasuzaoxianghulijiedenengli。

 ailisidaoshirangxiaoyazaimeiyicishuohuahetongyixingdongyiqian，douxianxiangzhezheiyigerenxingweihuizaochengnaxiebuliangyingxiang，huiduilingyifangzaochengnaxieweihai。xiaoyayezuncongdaoshidefenpei，gangkaishiqinfengaibianxianzhuang，zaiailisidaoshidejutizhidaoxia，aliangzaigenxiaoyadegoutongjiaoliuzhongyefajuelexiaoyashuohuafangfafashengbianhua，yegengxiangyaogenxiaoyagoutongjiaoliu。

二、更改交往方法

 xiaoyagenaliangdejiaowangfangfashijishangyizhicunyouzhenanti，tebieshizaishigoutongjiaoliufangfashang，yinciailisidaoshizhuyaozaijiaowangxiaoshouhuashushangjutizhidaoxiaoya。rangxiaoyaqingbiexiangguoquyiyangyongminglingshideyuqikaizhanhuihua，zhishikaizhangongpingdegoutongjiaoliu。liru：

“ninengjiwobanagehuafeijiaolemeiyou，wojinritaimangjiaobushang”

“jinrihenwanhuijiale，shigongzuozhongtaimanglemeiyou，zuozhexiexieba”

 aliangyexianzhutihuilaidaoxiaoyadegenggai，shijishangaliangxinliyebuxianglihun，erxiaoyadegenggaiyebatawangrideyixiegongzuoyalishifangchulailechuqu，yincialiangyexiangyaogenxiaoyazaidugoutongjiaoliu，balaohuakaiguo，tamenyexiangyaozaicihunyinjingying。

导师寄语：

 zaihunyinshenghuozhongxuduorenjianghuihuibuyouzizhudizuochuyixieqiangshidegerenxingweiermeiyoufajue，erhunyinshenghuobicizaijiaowangzhonggengbixudeshigongpingjiaowang，huxiangzhaogu，xianghulijielingyifangdeniantou，suanshiweichihunyindeguilv。zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?