丈夫明确提出离异，愿意挽回老公的你该如何做

如何 挽回丈夫的心 ？不知当妻子听见了丈夫明确提出离异的那一刻，会是哪些的体会。将会都早已踏入到老年夫妻的环节，小朋友也听话了，此刻他为何也要明确提出离异，难道说就沒有在意过小孩子的体会吗?

hunyindepobaibingbushimashangbaofade，jianghuifuqijianzaoyiyongyouxuduodenanti，zaojiuzhongxialehuohuan。suihoutajuedeneishihoulaidaojiutiaoxuanleyuqizihepingfenshou。keshi，dangnibingbuyuanyutaguanlianpolie，yingruhewanhuilingyifangni?ruhewanhuinanrenxin?zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?

一、当婚姻出現了危机，怎样把风险化作机遇

weijishuobaileyoufengxianyouhaiyoujihui，dandangyiduanhunyinzhongchuxianleguanlianliekai，xuduorenpangguanzheqingzhijiandaolefengxian，quebumingbaibawojihuibangzheiyiduanguanlianzhuanweiweian。suyushuo“bingdongsanchifeiyirizhihan”，ruguonidezhangfuyaoyunimingquetichuliyideneishihou，dajiadehunyinzaojiuchuxianlenanti，yizaoyizhongxialehenduodeanquanyinhuan，nilejienikeyiruhezuocaikeyibawoweiji，bafengxianhuazuojiyuma?

lejieliekaideqingkuang，zhaodaotamingquetichulihunyuanyin。yaowanhuihunyinyiqian，nizuixianyaojienatayaoyuniliyidekeguanshishi，dangnimeifalejiedajiarujinliekaideqingkuang，nijiangshenxianshifentongchudehuanjie，erqieduiwanhuichedimeiyouyidiandexiezhu，fandaobianchengwanhuideqiaomenzhuan。

lirunimeifajienatajiangyaoyaofangqinideyishizhuxing，nibuganzheiyiduanhunyinjiucijieshu，nideyaoqiuhuibuduantisheng，buduanzuoyixiebulixingdegerenxingweiyuanyilingyifangjininhaodehuifu。ershijishang，gaoyaoqiugandegerenxingweizongshibadajiadeguanlianfazhanqushidaogengjiang，batabazerentuixiedehenyuan。

ruguonizhengquerenshixiankuangyihou，nibixuzuodeshierjiushishuozhaodaotaxiangnimingquetichulihunyuanyin。pubiandelihunliyouyou：qizizhujiagongzuonenglibugou，bumingbaijiejuejiawuhuojiatinggongzuogongzuorenyuandeguanlian;qianghan，bumingbaiweihubaoyangnanshengdexurongxin;manbujiangli，changchangjihuamaodun;heyixingpengyouchupengguoduo，youwaiyudefengxianxingzheixie。

nikeyizhaodaozaochengdajiaguanlianliekaideyuangu，tazenmehuiganjueyunideshirihuodehaolei，jinishenmegerenxingweizuodebugou?bubizuochufuwuchengnuo，jingjingdigenggai，gaizhengcuowudegerenxingwei。

zongtiguihua，tishengziji。ruguonizhaodaoletaxiangnimingquetichulihunyuanyin，nizaicisikaorujindeguanlianyunizishendenantiyihou，ninengchuxianyizhong“neiwaijiaokun”dejuede。huikanqingdajiarujindejiatinghunyinshifencaogaodelingwai，fajueyouxuduodequexian，zaochengzhangfucongduinixinhandaoshiluo，duinidezijintouruyuelaiyuedi，yizhiyuchuxianlezhongzhizijintouru，conghentianmeideguanlianyanhuadaofuqitongchuangyimengdechengdu。

yinciwanhuiyiqian，nikeyigaohaozongtiguihua，liru：badajiadeguanlianjiangxueya——helixingnibuzhengquedegerenxingwei——jiejuemaodun——jiejuekunnan——zaixianchuangjianjiaowangfangshi。suoyourenderenzhuangkuangdoubuyiyang，wanhuidezongtiguihuadoubuyiyangde，wanhuidefangshi congbuhuiqianpianyilv。

zaishixingwanhuidequanguochengzhong，yeyouzhangqixingguanlianjiaowangzhong，tishengzijijiushiniyishengbixuzuodekecheng。fuqiguanxiliekaideyuangulaizinidebugou，bulunshinidewaizaihebenzhi，bixuduofangweitigaozishen。baohanwaiguanshejigengxingaizao、benzhigengxingaizaoshenghuojiegou。lirubazishenchuanzhedabandegengnianqingmaomei、yundongjianshen、yuedushu、kuozhangzishendeyishizhuxingshejiaoquan、bajiazhuangshidegengweiwennuanzheixie。

二、感情专家谈产生离异危机咋办

hunyinzaishijiandedajiangzhong，yidinghuijianjiandixiaoqiandiaoliangrendereqinghelianai。danghunyinchuxianweijideneishihou，nishibushifeijinxinjiyuanyiwanhuilaogong?bubixianggewutouwenchongluancuan，laiyongxintinglianaizhuanjiadeyijianyujianyi：

bubiguoduqingxubuwending。ganqingzhuanjiakangnashuo，danghunyinchuxianweijideneishihou，zuixianyidingyaocaozonghaozishendexintai，renqingweijizaochengdedajili，fangzhijiduanhuaxintaihepianjigerenxingweidezaocheng。

 richangshenghuozhong，xuduoderendaohunyinchuxianweijideneishihou，buqingchuzishengairuheban，zhixiangbamanhuaiyuanqixuanxiechuqu，yinciquchuxianghudepenyoubaoyuansuku，qulingyifangqiyemanhengwulizheixie。zheizhongzuofaquanshibukeyongde，budanbulinantidechulide，fandaohuibalingyibanyuetuiyuelaiyueyuan。yinci，jinji，fangzhiqingxubuwending，buxubicifenqijinyibuehua!

fangzhilengbaoli。xuduofuqirenweihunyinchuxiannantideneishihou，dahuoerxianfenlilizhiyixiahuigengqiang，keyixiangqingxixianghudenantichuxianzainaer，younengfanyingzishenbaorongdaqi。shijishangtashiyizhongfumianqingxudefangshi ，suyushuo“fuqiwoshichuangdajiadououchuangjiaohe”，fuqizhijiandeqinmiwujianshizuifeichangdejiaowangfangfa，jiarudajiacaiyonglengbaoli，zongshijiajuweiji，suozaochengdepohuailitongchangbizhengzhihaida

duiqizieryan，guoshanghaorizilemeiyouzhangfudeshiri，fangfomeiyouzhangfubiyouzhangfuzaishenpanggengqingqingsongsong，neixinhuiyouyizhongshiluoxiaoji，shijishangshijianyizhangtahaihuiyuanyiwanhuizhangfu，keshiduanqineineitabeizheileijuedesuomihuo。erzhangfuneiyibianyefeichangrongyijibierenkechengzhiji，yincihuanshiyaoqinfenkaizhanlianggerendegoutongjiaoliuhuihua，fangzhilengbaoli。

kaizhanhunyinpingding。kangnajiaoshishuo，hunyinpoliezaochenghou，pingjingxialai，lixingduicicideweijizuochupingding，bubiyouyuyiciweijijiusuibiandefoudingdiaozishendehunyin。niqidaihunyinlaidaonaxiedechengdu?zheiyinantihenguanjian，bujinjinjianyidewenyiwen，zhishifuqibicidouyingdangyaoyoutongyangdezongtimubiao。dangweijichuxianshi，nizishenyaolejiedajiarujindehunyinqingkuangdenaxiemoyangde，duihunyinkaizhanpingding，xiangzhexianghudeshenghuofangshi，gerenaihao，xingqingqiehedu，xiaohaizheixie，zaikaolvdaoshibushizuigailiyi。

xianghulijie。kangnajiaoshishuo，zaiyiduanhunyinzhong，fuqilianggerendesisuofangfa，yishizhuxingshengzhangxixing，baohanjiazhiguannianyinweifenbiedeliangxingrenwujiaosedexianzhihechengcaibeijingtuqinshenjinglibuyiyang，shimeibanfazuodaoyizhide，zheiyejiushishuohunyinzhongyixienantifeichangrongyichanshengmaodun，jiuzhibianweiweijideyuangu。yinci，shizhelizailingyifangdeshijiaoqukankannanti，xiangzhehuanweiniyizhizaineileibiaozhunxia，nihuizenmezuo，youmuyougengqiangdejiejuefangan。dongdeqianjiulejie，wanhuilaogongyefeichangrongyideduole。

三、探讨幸福婚姻的必需要素

zaidangdaihunlianjiaoyouzhong，jinguanyixiefuqikanshangqushifenbanpei，tamennancainvmao、jiatingqingkuanghewenpingdoufeichang，zhoubianderendoujuedetamendeganqingshenghuohaowuyiwenhuihemuxingfukuaile，keshishirenchengmujieshedeshitamenjuranlilehun，yuangushisanguanbuhe。shijishang，sanguanbuhejinjintamenliyideyuanyinbale，hunyinjingyingbixufuqibicixianghunuli，eryixieyaosushixingfuhunyinbukehuoquede，yuanyihunyinzhangjiuxingfukuaile，nibixumingbaizheizhong。

mingbaikaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu。weiheyixiefuqichangchangzhengchao，qizihuimaiyuanzhangfujihudoubuqingchutayuanyinaxie，erzhangfuhuichizeqiziyizhimanbujiangli、decunjinchi，shijishangdaozhineiyangdejushiyouyufuqijianmeiyoukaolvlingyifangdeyaoqiu，biruzaihunyinzhongnanshengdeyaoqiushixinlai、jiena、ganxie、zanyang、rentong，ernvxingdeyaoqiu：zhongshi、guanzhu、lejie、tiexin，fuqijianyaoduoguanzhulingyifang，zhangwolingyifangdeniantou，jiyulingyifangzhenshiyuanyide，hunyincaikeyigengpingwen。

xianghudounengchangsuoyuyan。zaihunyinzhong，yixiefuqidangyouniantoudeneishihouquelinyugenlingyifangshuo，palingyifangduizishenyouqitaguandianhuowuhui，jineryayiganzishendeqingtuyu，neiyangshibulihunyinweichide。youxierenguo：haodehunyinjiushishuoxianghudounengzailingyifangyanqianchangsuoyuyan，xianghudoulejiezishenshibeilingyifangsuojieshoude，erwuxudanyoulingyifanghuiwujiezishen。tashihunyinzhongzuihemudeqingkuang，fuqijiandoushilingyifangjizijihaopengyou，xianghujiaowangshishufuzidede。

xianghuxieshoubingjianyiqichengzhang。dangdaihunyinquanshichangkaishide，hunhoudeyouhuoyizhiyubijiehunqianyeyaoduo。erbuguannanrennvren，jiaruniyizhizaihunyinlimeiyouyouhuanyishi，shifangyaliduizishendeguanlifangfa，erlingyifangbansuizhenianjidetigao，yanjiehuihenduo，yehuiyulaiyuwanshanyoufengcai，shenpangdeyinyoujiuhuihenduo，ruguoniluowuairenguoduodeneishihou，nideairenjiuhuiganjuedajiazhongjianmeiyougongtonghuati，hunwailianyeruqierzhi。xingfuhunyinbixufuqixianghuxieshoubingjianyiqinulichengcai，yiqilizaitongyigaokuanbi，jiandaoyiyangdejingse。

congbierendeshijiaoshangkan，meiyounantidehunyindaziranburongyilaidaoliyidechujing，daziranshihunyinzhizhongdenantiweihailejiazhongdebuju，rangzhangfudexinligangkaishiduihunyinzaochengxinhandexintai。

guorantaqueshixiangheqiziliyi。zheishiqizideyijuyidongdoushiweihaizhezhangfuxinlidezhuanbian，sheqiqingxubuwendingdekangzheng，zhaodaodajiazhongjiandenanti，xianjieduanzuiyingdangchulideqingkuang，caikeshiniyuzhangfudeguanlianyouzaishengdezhuangkuang。zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?