挽回丈夫：手把手教你防止老公出轨

如何 挽回丈夫的心 ？许多人憧憬着婚姻，感觉婚姻可以降临到身旁就会获得幸福的衣食住行。只不过是在真实与另一半过着夫妻性生活的那时候，将会会由于一些小事儿、小问题而刚开始争吵;又或是在一些事儿上做得不稳妥、不科学造成恋人的抵触而产生矛盾。

gezhongzhinengzaijiazhongganqingjulichuxiandejuqingdoushichuxianzaidajiadejiazhongzhizhong，rangdajiagangkaishizaiweiganqingshenghuojuedeyihuobujie，weiheyebukeyibianweiyiduimeijiameihudouxianmujidudeenaifuqini?shishenmegerenxingweizaochengledajiadeqinggangangkaishiyibuyoushanle?ruhewanhuinanrenxin?zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?

一、妻子在日常生活中不应当做另一方的差评师

youxuduofufubansuizhehunlingdetigao，balingyifangdequedianhebukanrumudeyimiansuoyoudouyilanwuyi，changchangwuyuanwugudijiunachuqucijixinglingyifang，ranglingyifanggangazuoweiyizhongjiaowangfangfa。youhuoshibushizhongshita，zaitarenyanqianyechangchangsunta、mata，zaitarendeyanlilaikantazainixinzhongzhonghaowuyongchu。neiyangdehunyinhuixingfukuailema?

budongdelejienanren。qiziwangwanghuizuonanrendechapingshi，youyunvxingbudongdelejienanren。lirubulejienanrenyibianchengdanqijiazhongdeyiwu，xiangzaigongzuofangmiantishengchukaoshichengjierbudeyiqujieyixiejiaoji。nvrendouhuikanbushangtayishenjiuweihuijiale，matameibenshi，matameibenshizheixiede。rangnanrenganjuetingleihenbubeilejie，leisileihuohuandedejinjinhuodeqizideeyichaping，zaochengdajiazhongjiandeqingganyulaiyulengmo，yizhiyushimeiyicijiaojiwandoubuxianghuijiajiandaoni。

budongdezhongshinanren。nanrenzuiguanjiandejiushishuozizun，keshiwobudongdezenyangweihubaoyang，fandaocaitatadezizun，chuyudaotadedaodedixian，zhiyinqiqichixudezhengzhi。lirudajiazaipengyoujucanshang，nidepenyoudaqutabuzutiexin，budongdebangnishengfan。nibujinbudongdezenyangweihubaoyangtadeqingmian，haiyaotamenyanqianlengchaorefengtapingchangzaijiazhongzenyangbuguanzhuni，budongdezhaoliaoni，shangzhetadezizun，zaochengtanaopiqibicizaitarenyanqiannaodeeyuxiangxiang。ruguonichuyudaotadedaodedixiandeneishihou，tajiuhuiduinizhongzhizijintouru，mengfaleliyideniantou。

dangtazhangqixingchuzaibubeinirentongdeqingkuangxia，tahuiduiniyulaiyudichu，manmandizaochengtadepannixintaizhuangtai。jiuhuixiangyaozaiwaibianyaoqiukuanwei，xiangganyixiegerenxingweiquduifuni，dangwaibianyouyigenvrendongderenketa，zhongshitadeneishihou，tajiuhenrongwaiyu。jiuyouyujinidangchapingshidexiguanxing，batatuilaidaoqitanvrenshenpang。buguannigentachaogentanao，zongshitishengtaduinifourenxintaizhuangtai，tajiuhuifanxianghelixinggentashuozheiyiqiedoushinibitadedaozhide，gengweijiandingbuyiletalihundexiangfa。

二、男人的这种缺陷会让妻子想要离去

hunyinyuanbenshixingfude，yuanbenshiqidaifufulianggerennenggouxianghuzouwanzheiyouzhangdeyisheng。danshi，youyunanrenshoushangcunyoucunzaidebuzu，qizizaochenglexiangyaoliqudeniantou，rangnanrenshiliaobuji。shijishang，yixienanrenzaihunhouhuipulutianxing，chanshengyulianqingneishihoubuyiyangdewaimao，guodushifangyaliduizishendeguiding，bajiazhongdequanbuyiwudoutuijianjileqizi，guaibudeqizimeifazaizaiciyingduizhelaogong。jiexiaqujiulejieyixiahuizaochengnvrenliqunanrendesangeyuangu：

meiyoubenshenqianghandandudeyimian。zhiminghunyinzhuanjiakangnashuoguo：“nvrenbixubeinanrenlingzhe，jiusuanshiqiangshidenvren，xinlingshenchuyeqidaiyouyigebitaqianghandenanrenzhengfu2talingzheta!”nvrenxiantianxingjiuduinanrenyouyidingdeyilaigan，sheibuyuanxunzhaoyigeqianghanyouyougongzuonenglidenanrenzuoweizishendejiezhu，rangzishenwanquanshuxin。

huanyigeshijiaoxiangzhe，youyunanrencunyouruanruohaochilanzuodeyimian，yinerbianweilenvrenbinanrenyaoqianghan，yincijiazhongyingxianglihuikanqilainvrenbinanrenyaogao。lizaidiwei，tahuigengweiqiaobuqitadenanren，lianxiaoshierdoumeifachuli，genzheiyinanrenzaiyiqiqihuijuededaoxingfukuailekexun。jiranzheiyang，bibushangfangkaishouhuijiaoweihao。

meiyouchuangjianshidudekuangjiajiegou。kuangjiajiegoudeyingyongxing，qujueyuniyoumuyouxiangyaoweizheiyiduanhunyinchuangjianqizhangqixingdeguizhangzhiduxieyishu。jiazhongdeshenghuoxiguanyingdangshiruhede，duijianglaidefenpeiyouyoumuyouguishuyuzishendeniantou，yipiankongbai，neizhibuguozaidanchunxingdesuibianguoshenghuobale。

youyuwanhunjiuyiweizheleduilianggerenyishizhuxingdechengdanyupanwang，qizixiangyaoyouyigefangweiquzoudong，burantazairichangshenghuozhongfeichangrongyizhaobudaofangxiang，jilingyifangdaozhiyidingdeweihai。jiaruyoukuangjiajiegou，jiunenggourangqizilejieshenmeshiershiyingdangzuo，shenmeshiershiyanjinzuo，nenggouyouyigequelidegousi。meiyoukuangjiajiegoudenanren，jianjiandide，nideshenfenhuijijuxiajiang，yulaiyushiquzhongshi。

meiyoujiaogaodelianqingjibie。meiyoujiaogaodelianqingjibie，bujuyouxinidesixu。neimaqizidaodiyongyounaxiedeyaoqiudouburongyinengkandong，shibushinengtaohaoqizibianweileyigeweizhishu，zhangqixingguanliandebaochiyeshiyigedanandianle。qiziyouyunaxieshiererkaixinhuofahuo，tajinqideqingxuweishenmezheimebuduan，gezhongdebiaozhun，nanrenyaoshimeiyoujiaogaodelianqingjibie，shiwufafajuechuqude。bujuyoulingzhenvrendegongzuonengli，qiziweiheyaoyunixiangchuzaiyiqi，weihebuguoduanxuehuifangxiazheiyiduanguanlianxunzhaoxindeqidian?liqudeniantoucihouzaochengle。

三、夫妇的这种个人行为会危害交往品质

suyushuodehao：“fufubenshitonglinniao，dananlintoufenbiefei”，danglianrenguanlianbianhuanweihunyinguanxishi，yiweizhedajiadeganqinghuimanmanbianhuanweimeiyouqinshuguanxidejiaren，zairichangshenghuozhonghaikuotiankongderichangshenghuoninengdaliangkaolvdaolingyifangdetihui，danghunyinguanxizhongchuxiannantishi，ninengshiruhetiaoxuanni?

bawolingyifangdeshouyizhibufangkuan，huanshidaliangdejizijizhihouweitarenzhexiang，zheiyiqiedoushihuxiangzaifuqixiangchuzhizhong，nishibushidangtajiushinixingmingzhongzuiguanjianderen，shikefangdaoxinfangshang，pingchangzhongdeyidianyididejiaowang，queshiweijiguantouxiangbandaolaoderen。

qingganhaosiqingmiyiluanyibanyikaishixinghuoliaoyuan，bansuizheqingganzijintouruyuedaganqingdehuoyanjiuhuiyulaiyuchongpei，yihoubianchengxiongxiongdelieyan，muchaijiuhaoxiangshijian，qiancai，huolidanghaoguangquanbuganqingzheihuoyanyehuimanmanxiaohaodaijin，daodishishenmegerenxingweihuiweihaidajiazhongjiandefuqixingshenghuopinzhi，baganqingmanmanhaofei?

yantanjuzhiculubumingbaizhongshilingyifang。zhimingganqingwanhuiquanweizhuanjiakangnalaoxianshengyiqianfabuguoguandian：“xiangyaobaochizhangqideguanlianbingbuyi，richangshenghuozongyoukekebanban，yaolianggerendoujiandingbuyixinlidexinxin，xianghuqinshenjingliduguonanguancaikeyiranglianggerendeqinggangenglaogu。”zaishehuifazhanzhongrenmenhuipengdaosuyanggaoderentamenyanxingjuzhi，yantanjuzhiyazhi，lingrenjinbuzhuxiangyaoduochupeng。

keshishehuifazhanzhongyouhenduosuyangbugaoderencunyou，tamenyishuohuamankoucuyanhuiyu，zhangfuheqizifayanwusuojihui，shuodanshiyizhiyujiuhuizheshou。guohoufajuedebuzhengquejiusuanshiguidiqiurao，neiyangjiduanhuadegerenxingweiyehuiranglingyifangdexintaizhuangtailiuyouhuizhibuqudesunhai。fuqijianliyingdongdezhongshilingyifang，shoulongneizaodongbuandeshouhejiao，dongdexianghulijielingyifangdetihui，tashiqizibingfeinichoudi。

lingyifangjingqishenhuoshiroushenwaiyu。zaidangdaishehuifazhanzhong，tidaowaiyuzheishierdajiadoubumosheng，keshiyouguanwaiyuhuanshiyouqubielaogongjingshenchuguihuanshiroushenwaiyuzheierzhong。dangjinshehuideyinyoushizaiguoduo，jingqishenyidanjichuboruojinbuzhuyinyoujiuhuitaruyitiaobuguidelumian，panbianlejiazhong，panbianleqizi，jiusuanshiqizitiaoxuankuanrong，keshizheimeiyoufangfamochuzheiheiying，qizixinlidetongku。

bulunshinayizhongwaiyu，duilingyifanghaowuyiwenshiyizhongzhimingxingdeyanlidaji，huitahuicihouduizheiyiduanqinggan，zheiyiduanhunyinsangshizixinxin，yizhiyuhaofeidajiazhongjiandexinlai，yiduifuqimeilexinlai，haosizaidahaidimeiyouduoshoudepihuating，shizhongqubushangxingfudezhongdian。

fufubicidouyaoyingduiyixieshijinanti，jianghuilianggerenhaibingbushizuijizhideqingkuang，shoushangyeyouyixiequexianhuishilingyifangbuken。jiranlejiebicichangyouquexian，xiangbaochihaozhangqixingguanlianshijishangnenggouquxianghugaidiaoxianghudequexian，zaigaidiaodequanguochengzhongcujinlianggerendeganqingjianjiandijiazhong。

meiyousheidehunyinyikaishijiukeyishunxinruyi，quanshigenjuganqingdeleijirangbicigengweizhangwoxianghu，lejierichangshenghuodebeixi，guanliandaziranbiannengfeichanghaodeweichixiaqule。hunyinbingbushiyigenandian，zhishiyizhonglaotianyeshangcinimendexingfu。zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?