教你完全把握男人心，从根本原因上击败第三者

如何 挽回老公的心 ？如今的社会，出轨男人司空见惯，基本上每日都能听见“今日XXX出轨了”，“XXX的第三者被打了”类似的事。应对这种情况，许多人担忧自身的感情也会遭受第三者插足。那麼，在感情中怎样才能从根本原因上避免第三者，断掉另一方的出轨之途呢?参考答案就是说运用男人心态。

 chuguinanrenzhibuguoyouyusangeyuangu：bufuhedeshenglixuyao，beihulvedexintaizhuangtaiyaoqiuhebianyidechuguichengben。niyuanyiheliyunyongnanrenxintai，wanquanbawonanren，jiubixucongsangecengmianshangyongxinle，xiabianrenmenjiujinxingshuoyishuo：ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?xiangbananrenwanhuixuyaozenmezuo?

一、生理学上不羞耻感于抢鲜

 yaofenbianshenglixueshangdekaolvshifou，zuixingxianghuadeguifanjiushishuofuqishenghuodepinzhi。youxuduopenyoudeganqingzaijindaofaweiqiyihou，qianquereqing，yizhiyuxuduoneishihouquanshihuaizheyizhong“lixinggongshi”dexintai，zuizhongbubishuojiezhufuqishenghuolaitigaoganqingnongduzhile，keyibaochiganqingbuhuigaibianjibianfeichanghao，hekuang，jiarufuqishenghuozheixingbukaixindehua，zhenduizhangqixingguanlianeryanshihenzhongtedadeyanlidaji。zainibukeyikaolvtadezhuangkuangxia，tadaziranshicongbiedefangshilaihuodeshenglixuedekaolv。

weihedajiadefuqishenghuohuibiandegengjiachani?zongshangsuoshujiushishuo2geyuangu：benshendeyouhuolijiangdihefourenyuce。

 benshenyouhuolijiangdifeichanghaolejie，shinidewaiguanrangtajuedetibuqilaiaihao，neiyangtadaziranburongyiduinitouruguoduodeganqing。ershuobailedefourenyuce，shijishangjiushishuoyizhongziwoanshi。tazaigennikaizhanfuqishenghuoyiqian，tajiuduicicidefuqishenghuomeiyouxiwang，yizhiyuhuiganjueganshouhuihencaogao，zaizheileiziwoanshizhizhong，tadaziranganjuebenshendeshenglixuqiuwufakaolv。

 eryingdangbaituozheiyijiongjingyebuhuitainan，zhibixubaozhengyijianshi：rangtachixuqiangxian。liruninengmeiyiguoyiduanshijianjiuyongbuyiyangdedanxiangshui，chuanbuyiyangdeshuipao，yingyongbuyiyangdiaoqingjiqiao，jihuoxindezishizheixie。huanjuhuashuo，jiushishuorangtabuduanfajuetaduinidewajuehaibugou，tajiuhuiduinixinggaocailiedizaiciduinitourushijianhehuoli，zheiyangdeshiqingxia，jiusuantayousixuchugui，yekanqilailibucongxinle。

二、心态状态上让他如痴如醉

nanrendezuibenzhidexintaizhuangtaiyaoqiushisha?shibeibixuhebeiqinpei。

 dantongchangzaireqingbeidanhuayihou，dajiazhongjianjiumeibanfahaiyouxindereqingle，jiuhaoxianglaidaoyigeganqingdepingding，nishizhebaituo，keshiqueshijianbukecui，zuizhongganqingjiubeishijianjianjiandixiaoqian，jinshengfaweile。suihoufaweizhizhong，daziranjiuburongyiyouguoduodeganqingqifu，nanrendexintaiyaoqiudaziranyejiumeibanfabeikaolv。

 yaoniuquzheileijushi，nizhibixuzuoyijianshi：jiqinanrendeweihuyu。youchengqianshangwandelizhengzhengmingcailiao，dangnanrenbeinvxingjifaweihuyudeneishihou，zaiweihunvxingdequanguochengzhong，nanrendexintaiyaoqiuhuidedaojudadekaolv。erjifananrendeweihuyubingbushishuonisafadia，shuoliangjuhuajiujiuxingle，yeyaozaijiayidianxiaoqiaomen。

 zuixian，yongwenroudeyudiaobiaoshuyuyanshangderenrang。wojulishuoming，dangnizaishenghuozhong，jiarutazaijiejuekunnandeneishihouganleyixieyuniniantouxiangzuodeshi，niyexuhuiduitashuo：“niyingdang……”，“nibukeyi……zuo”leisicululijidehua，nihebubatamenhuanweilingyizhongwanzhuandefangshibiaoshu：“niganjue……neiyangzuoxingma?”，“nibubizuo……，wokeyiganjueshangxinyujue”。

 ruguoninongwansuoshudebianhuanyihou，nijiuhuifaxiansuiranshitongyijianshi，dantadexintaihuichedibuyiyang。youyuqianmianyizhongshiyizhongfourenlingyifangdejuxing，neiyangzongshijifatadeyanxuexintai，jinertazongshiyuanyigennikaizhandikang，erhoumianyizhongzeshibiaoshuchuniyaogentayiqiqujiejuekunnan，keshinibixutadexiezhu，neiyangtajiuhuifanshengzijidezuofashifousunhaidaoniba，suihouyuniyitongqujiejuekunnan。

 ciwai，zaishenghuozhongjiashangyidianyikao，tadeweihuyuhuigengduofangmiandejiqi。nvxingdeyikaoduinanreneryanshizuixingxianghuadebeibixudezhuyaobiaoxian，keshiyaoliuyizhangwozhangwofencun，jiaruyikaowududehuafeichangrongyihuibianweixinlaixintaizhuangtai。yikaodebiaozhunjiushishuo：“suoshizishenchuli，dashierrangtachuli”，neiyangjibusunhuainidezijuexing，tadexintaizhuangtaiyaoqiuyekeyibeijudakaolv。

三、衣食住行上提升出轨成本

 youjuhuashuodedui：“bingbushibutiaoxuanpanbian，jinjinbeipandedaijiataigao”，yuanyirangnanrenhaipachugui，zuigaoxiaolvdefangshi jiushishuotishengtadechuguichengben，rangtahaipasuibianchugui，eryingdangbaozhengzheiyidian，ninengcongxiabiandefangfaquxiashou。

与他约法三章，创建本身框架结构。

 meiyigerenzairichangshenghuozhongdoushizaiqianyishizhongdiqujiance、tiaozhanlingyifangdedaodedixian，erdangnimeiyoudaodedixian、meiyoubiaozhun，bumingbai(guoduan)huijuehebiaoshuzishenzhenzhengniantou，neimalingyifangbudanburongyiganjueni“tiexin、kuanrong”，haihuizhujianqingshinidetihuihejianyi，zuihounizhiyouzaitarendeweihaixiacunhuo，jiufangfoshuobailede“laoshiren”。zheiyangdeshiqingxia，nideairenchuguichengbenjibenshangweiling，youyutalejienizuihouhuiyuanliang，neimatashibupachuguihuisangshinaxie，tadaziranhuichixuchuguile。yinci，nikeyigentayuefasanzhang，rangtalejienidedaodedixian，zaitapengchunidedaodedixiandeneishihou，likeduitakaizhanbuyiyangshuipingdechufa，neiyangtajiuhaipasuibiantiaozhannidedaodedixianle。

把握一定的财政权

 zaizheigejichushang，jiarunikeyibawoyidingde“caizhengquan”，shijixiaoguohuigengqiang。zheierbingbushixiangyaonichedishouzoulingyifangdequanbu，zhishiconglingyifangdezhongqufangyibufen，yibanyi40%shangxiaweiyi，zheiyibufennenggoucundaojinrongjigouzhongzuoweixianghucaifu，erdenglumimayounizhizhang。danglingyifangyuanyichuguideneishihou，tayehuiyinerertoushujiqi，sisuochuguidechengbenle。

正确引导投入，但不可以提升维护保养婚姻生活的成本

 zhimingfuhedashikangnajiaoshibiaoda，“weihubaoyanghunyinshenghuodechengbenyueda，chuguidechengbenyueduodi。dangnidezhangfuyaozuochushifendadexunzhicaikeyiweihubaoyangdajiadehunyinshenghuo，neimaweihubaoyanghunyinshenghuodechengbenjiutingda，dantachuguidegailvjiuhengao(chuguidechengbenjiuhendi)。”

 zaihunyinjingyingzhong，renmenyaozhengqueyindaonanrenweijiazhongzuotouru，tourubaohanshijiantouru(rujiaoyuhaiziheqinren)、qiancaitouru(yangjiahukou)、ganqingtouru(liruduozaixiaohaiyanqianrenkelaogong，zailaogongyanqiantanjixiaohaiduibabadeqinpeiheyikao)，keshibukeyiyiweiranglaogongzuochujidadexunzhi。liruranglaogongsheqiyifenshichangqianjinghenhaodegongzuo，huoshitashifenxiaideyifengongzuozhong，huoshibizhetazainihemamazhongjianzuotiaoxuan……jiusuantazuihoudetiaoxuanquanshinisuoxiwangde。

 dantadexinlishiyouquehan、buxinganqingyuan、zhengtuohefenqide。zheizhongxiaojiqingxudekucunjiya，zaiganqingchuxianfenqishifeichangrongyijiuhuibafenqibianda，jihunyinshenghuochanshengjidadeanquanyinhuan;dangdisanzhechazushi，tafeichangrongyijiuhuichugui，youyutazaiqianyishizhonglidichuchuguideyixiangbingbushinongyu，yizhiyushiyouduifudejijixintaizhuangtai。xiangbananrenwanhuixuyaozenmezuo?