化解矛盾挽回老公的心，才可以让婚姻长期幸福快乐

如何 挽回老公的心 ？在夫妇彼此运营一段婚姻时，因为彼此的生长发育自然环境和本人性情的不一样，在所难免产生一些矛盾和争吵。假如在婚姻经营时，彼此不可以恰当合理地解决这种矛盾，那麼这对夫妻间的矛盾点就会愈来愈高，也就非常容易造成这一段婚姻的裂开。那麼，夫妇彼此应当怎样解决婚姻中碰到的各种矛盾呢?

第一、要减少矛盾点，最先得允许另一方的观点

 wangwanghuiyoumaodundezaocheng，tongchangjiushishuoyouyufuqixiangchushiguandianhejianyibukeyidachengxieyi，suihouzaigoutongjiaoliushibicidougezhijijian，buzaihulingyifangdexiangfa。yinci，jianshaomaodundianzuidebanfajiushishuorangdajiadejianyiyizhi，rangdajiadexiangfanengzaitongyigefangweishang。ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?xiangbananrenwanhuixuyaozenmezuo?

 rutongzhengjiuqinggangaoshoukangnachangshuo：“xiangjiejuemaodundian，qiadangdezuofashi：shizhongyunxulingyifang!”jiaruzaichanshengmaodunshi，nizongshigenlingyifangzhenglun，neimalingyifangjiuhuiganjuenimeifazhangwota，ganjueniyeshizaimanbujiangli。

 zaichanshengmaodunshi，bubijinjindianjizheranglingyifangjienazishendexiangfa，nidedongdexianjienatadeguandian。liru：niyingdangjijidigentashuo：womingbaizishennaerzuobudui，jiushiwokaolvdaoshierbuquanmian，tashuodeyeshiyidingdedadaoli。

 neiyangzuohuitahuiganjuenijienaletadexiangfa，danglingyifangganjuedajiadejianyiyizhishi，tacaiburongyiganjueniyizhizaimanbujiangli，caihuixiangfansisuozishenyounaxiefancuodediqu，maoduncaihuimanmanbeihuanjie。

第二、立在另一方的视角，找到矛盾的根源

 ruguoniyunxulingyifangdeguandianzhihou，maodundianjiuhuiyouyidingshuipingdejianshao。keshi，bubirenweineiyangdajiazhongjiandemaodunjiuzaoyichedijiejue。weilefangzhiyiyangdemaodunfasheng，niyaoyingdanglizailingyifangdeshijiaosikaozheizhongshiqing，suihouzhaodaonantidegenyuan。

 lizailingyifangdeshijiaodulisikao，xiangyixianglingyifanghuiyouruhedexiangfa，jiarunishitanihuizenmezuo;lingwai，xixinsousuozishenyoumuyouzuodebukexuedediqu，yingdangruhegaidiao。zhinengneiyangzuo，nicaihuifajuezheizhongnantidegenyuansuoshu。xunzhaogenyuansuihouqujiejueta，neiyang，hunyincaiburongyibeiyiciyouyiciyiyangdemaodunsuokunhuo。

 hunyinzhongfashengzhengzhihenyiqiezhengchang，bubirenweimaodunjiuyidinghuiweixiedaohunyindexingfukuaile。ruguoniyingyongyouxiaodefangfa，zhaodaonantidegenyuanerqiehuajiemaodun，tabudanburongyisunhuaiqinggan，yizhiyuhaihuirangqinggantiwen，ranghunyinzhangqixingfukuaile。xiangbananrenwanhuixuyaozenmezuo?