挽回老公功略：维护保养长期性关系两大方式

如何 挽回老公的心 ？俗语说:真心实意容易得到，终身难守。说得就是说保持长期性关系的艰难。一段感情也罢，一段婚姻也好，在历经长期的交往，彼此的缺陷就会在相互眼前暴露无遗，当这种缺陷愈来愈显著，越来越多的那时候，彼此就会刚开始去挑另一方的刺，厌烦另一方，渐渐地另一方造成否认内心，不认可另一方，那麼大家2个中间的分歧点就会越来越多，争执越来越多，到最终闹得没法开交，心累了离去。

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一、寻找有效沟通方法

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二、相互提高

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