挽回老公方法：互相包容，赏析彼此的优点和缺点

如何 挽回老公的心 ？许多人都会抱怨自身感情生活的悲剧，抱怨老公对自身不太好，拿自身老公和他人做较为，相信假如给你心情说说你老公的缺点，许多人会侃侃而谈：“丈夫越来越和当时了解的哪个不一样了。

 tajiyilicha，jingchangdiusanluosi;bujiangjiuweisheng、chouwazirenghuodechuquanshi;benzuibenshe，jihujiumeiyoushuoguolingtalianhongdehua;koumendehen，qixijie，qitananshengdousongmeiguihua、zuanshijiezhi，taquezhisongyixielianjiapin……”fangfozishendelaogongquanshenshangxiaquanshiquedian，meiyoududaozhichu。ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?ruhewanhuinanren?

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一、转换其他的心态状态，懂得将另一方的优势变大

 xiangxiangyixiazheiyiqingjing：nijiyashaoliangheimoshuidijinshuili，suihounachuyigenmukuaijiaoban，beididemoshuilikewangshangmianfangun，shuisuihoubianweiheise。

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二、给另一方多一些宽容

 shijishangnihuifaxianzairichangshenghuozhongxuduorenyizhikandaishuxiderenyaohenjimianzi，kandaipenyouhuiyoushan，jibianyounaxieweimande，youshihouyehuiyixiaozhizhi，danshizhenduiqinrenhuoshijiushinilingyibanjiubuyiyangle，wulundaxiaoshidoushichaonao，burongyizheyanxinlideyuanhen，yaoshixinlibuhaojiunuxingyuse，burongyigujilingyifangdedetihui。

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 “shinianxiuweitongchuandu，bainianlaoxiuweigongzhenmian”，renmenyaozhenxiyongyouyiqiburuhunyindeneiren，aiyigerenyaoailingyifangdeyoushi，haiyaoailingyifangdequedian，zhinenghuxiangrongru，huxiangqianrang，xianghulijie，caikeyizaishuobailedehunyinweichengliyoumeihaodeshenghuo。jiaruduiganqingduihunyinduishenghuoqidaizhixiaoyixie，zhizuchangleyixie，nihuifaxiannidehunyinshijueduixingfukuailede。ruhewanhuinanren?