挽回老公秘笈：女人怎样保持长期的夫妻关系

怎么挽回婚姻? 伴随着90后离婚的提升，夫妻关系维护保养好像变成了时下俩性最最火的话题讨论之一了，的确，伴随着社会发展的发展趋势，大家的要求好像也越来越不一样。那麼当应对自身真实的应对婚姻的那时候，应当怎样去把之保持长期呢?

一、懂得认同与鼓励另一方

 yuanyihunyinpingwenbuduandefazhanqushi，neimajiyulingyifangchongzuderentongyugulishibukehuoquede，nanrenxiantianxingjiushishuoyaomianzidexiaodongwu，dangnilianyijuzanmeilingyifangdehuadouwufazhangkou，neimatarenruhetihuihuodetajiujingzainixinzhongzhongzhanyouzheruhedeyingxiangli?zenmewanhuihunyin?ruhejingyingaiqing?

 yinci，mingbaizailingyifangbixurentongdeneishihou，jiyutayigedadarentongyuguli，tahuijuedejiqidekaixin，jiusuanzhenduinieryanshiyijianbudadeshier，liru，zaitabajialibianhuaidedengpaoxiuwandeneishihou，shidudekuazanta，erbingbushiganjueniyehui，zheisuanbulenaxie;zaitagongzuofangmianhuodeyixiekaoshichengjideneishihou，zuoyidunfengshengdewancanfuwuta，tazaoyishengangaoxing。

 huoxu，zaitaliaodaodeneishihou，nihaiyaoduojiyulingyifangguli，gaozhilingyifangmeigerenyoubuchenggongdeneishihou，yaoshimingbaizaibuchenggongzhonghuodejingyanjiaoxunerqiepaqi，neimaxiayicijiushiqudechenggong。tayehuijuedezishenbeihouyouyigenvrendewennuan，gengweitigaoletadexinrengan，daziranjiubuyongquwaibianzhaotarengulile。

二、了解男人的真实要求

 hunyinzhongxubuxuyaozhangwodenanrendeyaoqiuni?shijishang，richangshenghuotongchangxuduoneishihou，yinweiyigerenqiangjiayudebazishendeniantoushifangzaitarendeshoushang，zaochengbiciyebukaixin，neimamaodunbianhuichendianduo，jiufangfo，minglejielingyifangtaoyannineimaxutao，niyingyaozaitayanqianshuogebuduan，lianyidiangerendeshineikongjianyemeiyou，neihaowuyiwenhuixinshengpijuanle。

 niyouhuiyouyulingyifangdexinbuzaiyanerzhuyaobiaoxianchuzishendexintai，neimaliangrendaziranfeichangrongyichuxianmaodun，maodunyueda，lingyifangyueduoxiangtaochuneiyangdejushile，neiliwaiyujiuyougengjinyibule。yinci，zuoweiyigelixingdenvren，dexianmingbaizheiyinanrenyaodeshisha，erbingbushinikeyideshisha，jiuwubiyaolingyifangquzuodao，yaojilaoxuduoshiercouhemeiyouxingfukuaile，liangrenbixuxianghudemoheqicaikeyizhangqibuduanfazhanqushixialai。

 zuixianzhudeyigeshili，jinqishimaodedianshilianxuju《wodeqianbansheng》libian，libianyouyiduixiangchu10nianshigedelianren，hehangentangjing，shijishangyaobushitangjingyiweibazishendeniantouqiangjiazaihehandeshoushang，yizhizaoshouyixiewaibudeweihaierqutichuzhiyilingyifang，ganjuelingyifangbuzuaitazheixie，yaoburantamenyewuxuzheimeduoniandoujiebujiehun。shijianyizhang，hehandoushichibuxiaoneiyangdeyigenvrende，jiusuantangjingzaiaihehan。

 hunyinweihubaoyangshiganqingshenghuodebixiukecheng，shijishangyaoweihubaoyanghaoyiduanhunyinbingbushijiannan，xuanzhunnidejingzhundingweihefangshi ，renzhenquweihubaoyang，nibirannenggouhuodeyifennikewangbukejidexingfukuaile。ruhejingyingaiqing?