老公对婚姻的满意度低，想挽回老公老婆该如何做

怎么挽回婚姻? 为何当今的婚姻满意度急剧下降?这难题也许是导致成千上万人身患恐婚症较大的缘故了。为何她们恐惧完婚，只不过就是说2个缘故，一是恐惧此后没了随意;二是担忧另一方外遇。

 danwulunshinazhongyuangu，zheidouyouyunvrenxinliguishuganbugouyinfa。yaoxiangtishenghunyindemanyidu，bingbushizhikaoyifangqinfenjiujiuxingle，tadebaochibixuliangrenxianghuqinfen，xianghuyunying。zenmewanhuihunyin?laogonghunyinchuguizenmeban?

一、婚姻满意度下跌的缘故

 fufuzaiyiqiyishizhuxingdeshijianjiule，jiuhaoxiangliangbujiuxingdeshebeifeichangrongyichansheng“sunhuai”。yinci，ruguonisixiangyishidaozishendehunyinchuxiannantishi，bubiyiweidiqucaijilingyifanghuoshizhizelingyifang，zuixianyaozuodeshizhaodaohunyinmaodunzaochengdeyuangu。

 gexinghuazhizhe。bushanyutingquyijiantarenjianyi，xiaoxiaoshierjiujiaozhenerjiujingdenvrenfeichangrongyichanshengzhenchao，bingqieyichujifa，yifabukeshoushi，rangnanrenganjuemanbujiangli。yongyougexinghuazhizhe，ji“buyuangenggai”dequexianderen，rangnanrenganjuenanyixiangchu，meibanfabianchengyigeshihedeairenfuqixiangchu，yingdanghuiweilingyifangzuochuyixiegenggai，huoshixuduogenggai，yeyoutuoxie，neiyanghunyincaijianghuizoudegengzhangqi。zheierdegenggai，dagaibaohanjiazhiguannian、xingqing、shenghuofangshizheixie，tuiyibuhaikuotiankong。

 taiguoqianghan。taiqiangshidenvrenhuirangnanrenbieryuanzhi。shuobaileqianghan，jiushizhizaiqingganhuorichangshenghuoshishichuchuzhengxiang，yizhixiangyibigaoai，conglaiburangbu，gezhonggeyangjiansuankebo。neiyangdenvrendaziranhuirangnanrenbieryuanzhi。taiguoqiangshidenvrenhuirangnanrenganjuemeiyouzizun，duihunyinzaochengshiluo。ganqingzhuanjiakangnalaoxianshengshuoguo，zailianqingzhong，nvrenshibixubeizhengqueyindaode，nanrenyingdangzaihunyinzhongyejuyouyigelingzhelingyifangdegongxiao。nvrenyingdangxuehuizuoyigezhixingyouyadenvren，jiqinanrenweihunideshiminggan，kaolvnanrendexuronggan。

 xingqinglengdan。 yinweiyixiejiatingqingkuanghechengzhanglicheng，xingqinglengdandenvrenduirenlengmo、buwenbuwen。nanrenjiqingditiejinquerengranbulengbure，beiqingshidenanrenjiuhuiwangershengwei。beiaideshi，xingqinglengdandenvrenhuizigaozida，zhixinziji。weizijidexinlisheshangyidaomen，suozhuyibasuo，buxurenaijin。fuqixiangchu，yuanyigailengdan，haiyaoyichengxiangdaixiangduixing，xianghuzunzhong，yongjiqingheguanzhuquwennuanhunyin。

 xingchengfa。dabufennvrenzaihelaogongchanshengzhengzhizongshidouhuijuelaogongpapa，yongxingchengfakandaizishendelaogong。zaitamenyanzhong，tamenqidaiyongxingbangzhulaogongdexin，jianglingyifangdechongdongheyaoqiuzuoweiyijiadezhulizijin，laikaolvzishendexinyuan。keshi，xingchengfajihumeiyoudayingjia。zheizhongzuofashoudaopohuaihunyindehemu，jinerniangchulaogongchuguidebuxing。

二、婚姻出現矛盾如何处理

 fufumaoduntashipubiandeshi，danmaodunbuyidinghuidaozhihunyinpolie，youshihouyoushihoudemaodun，xiaozhengzhihaihuirangqinggangengweinonghou，danzhongjiumaodundechuliguochengyousuobutong，jieguoyehuibuyiyang，neima，dangfuqijianchuxianhunyinmaodunshigairuhezuo?

 xuehuidiaojieqingxu。yuanyiyifenyouliangdehunyinguanxijiububibianchengxintaidenupu，shibushinizongganjuezishenshiyigedaozizuidoufuxinderen?shifoumeiyicizhengchaodeneishihouniyizhijiangchubingfeizishenzhenzhengniantoudehua?lirunigennanpengyouchanshengmaodun，tahuandiaoxiezhunbeichulai，nibenlaixinlixiangshuodeshi“laogong，buyaozou”keshikouzhongjiushuodeshi“nizoukai，chulailejiuqingbiehuijia!”jiarunishizheiyangderen，neimanijiushishuoxintaidenupu，yigewufaguanlizijixintaiderendouhuisunhaidaozishenshenpangderen，yinciniyidingyaogaibianxianzhuang，duokanyixiazenyangkongtigaoxiuyang、zhixintaideshujie。

 jinliangbuyaolengbaoli。jutongjixianshixinxi，baifenzhibashiderendoujuedejiatinglengbaoligengweizhisi。lengbaoliyici，fuqijiandeganqingnongduzhijiuhuijiangdibaifenzhiwu，dangnizhangqixingyingyonglengzhanlaihuajiemaodun，dajiafuqijiandenantijiuhuihenduo，maodunyulaiyunonghou。yinci，yidingyaofangzhilengbaoli，xuehuijijizhudonggoutongjiaoliu!

 lixingdezuoweijipingding。niyingdangnongqingcicidehunyinpoliesuofanyingdeshizhimaodunshisha，suihouduidajiadehunyinzuoyigekeguanxingdepingding，lejieyixiashibushihainengzaicizouxialai，neiyangjiuburongyisuibianchaozhelilehun。

 xuehuixianghulijie。hunyinjingying，xuehuixianghulijiehenguanjian，yaoduolizailingyifangdeshijiaoqudulisikao。suoyourendesisuofangfa、yishizhuxingshengzhangxixing、jiazhiguannianzheixiequanshixianzhizaixingbiehechengzhanglicheng、jiatingqingkuangzhongde。yincibutaikenenghuiwanquanyizhi，yuanyiyifenxingfudehunyinjiuyingdangkuanrongherongxuzheizhongbuyiyangdecunyou。xianghulijiekeyifeichanghaodexiezhurenmenlejielingyifangheqianjiulingyifang，zainiyingshuomouyijushangrendehuashi，xianzhongzhi3miaozuoyou，sisuoyixiajiaruzishenshilingyifangtingjianneiyangdehuayuhuiruhexiang，suihouzaijuecexubuxuyaoshuo。

三、防范老公出轨，为婚姻冷藏的作法

 nvrenzaijiehunhoujingchanghuiyibianzhaoliaoqinren、shoushijiawuhuoershuhuwanshanziji，zaiqianqilaogonghaihuiduiniweijiazhongdenulierganxie，danbansuizheshijiandexiaoqianyemanmanshiniduilaogongdeyouhuoliyuelaiyuedi，ruguonidelaogongduiwaibiandefanhuashijiexinyangnannai，cikeniyidingyaojingxingle，yuanyilijibalaogongdexinwanjiuzhenggui，nibixumingbaiweihunyinlengzang。

 duojianxianghushengchanzhizaoxiangchudesuiyue。dangwanhundeshijianjiule，xuduonvrenhuiyouyumangliuzhaoliaojiazhongerhushiduifuqiguanxideweichi，womingbailexuduonvrenzaishoushijiawuhuofuzadengshiershangzaoyihaoletajuedabufendehuoli，naliyoushijianqugennanpengyoutiaodou?dannibixuxiangyixiang，jibianbanimudibanshoushidemingliangruxin，nidelaogongxiangqujiewenmudibanma?nibixujinkenengbazishencongjiawuhuozhongjiefangchulai，nenggouqinggeayidailaohuoshigennanpengyouxianghufentan，suihoujishijianweixianghushengchanzhizaoyixiexiangchudeshijian，yiqizhuiyimeihaoshiguangheshuoxiehuayanqiaoyu，rangqingganweichiwendu。

 bianchenglaogongxiaidelaopodemoyang。yixienvrenyouyuxingqingwangdao、qiangda，changchangjialitiaosuozishendenanren，chuwaiyingduizishendenanrenhulaihuanqu，shinanrenjuedemianbuquanshi，gengweishinanrenxiangnianwaibiannvrendeshanjierenyi，jinerjiakuailechuguinanrendejiaobu。yuanyihunyinpingwen，nvrenyaomingbainanrendeyaoqiu，bianchengnanrenxiaidemoyang，biruwenrou、tiexin、jinanrenqingmiandeng，nanrenzhinengjialihuodelekaolv，rangnanrengengyouxiongxingzizun，hunyincaikeyijianbukecui。

 xuehuilangmanjingxiheyiwaijingxi。lianqinghehunyinbuyiyang，lianqingneishihoudenongqingmiyihewanhunyihoudeyouyanjiangcuchanshengdutedeqifu，cushiyixiefufujuededashisuowang，suihougangkaishipaijilingyifang，shijishanghunyinbutaikenengshizhongweichireqingdeqingkuang，danninengxuehuiyixieweihunyinlengzangdefangshi ，biruyoushihouhelingyifangquyijianyougediaodefandianyongcan、youshihousonglingyifangyifenyiwaijingxidelipin、jishijianweilingyifangzuoyidunzhuguangwancandeng，nengshixianghudoujuedeshifenxingfukuaile，hunyinyegenglengzang。

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