怎样把握丈夫的心挽回婚姻：创建相互预期

怎么挽回婚姻? 对结婚后的生活创建相互预期，我觉得是每一恋情中的人，都会一不小心聊得的话题讨论。想象着之后生活里家中财政局要如何分派，生是多少个小孩，家中要如何布局这些幸福的期待。

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一、多一点了解另一方的观点

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二、寻找理想化的落地式点

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三、要有团队执行力和包容

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