怎么挽回幸福的婚姻男人

　　zenmewanhuixingfudehunyinnanren，fenshouzhihou，nanrenhenvrendefanyingtongchangjiongranbutong。nanrenyibanhuijingliyige“xiantianhouku”derenshengjingli，nvxingzewangwangshi“kujinganlai”。

　　nanxingzaiganggangfenshoushi，tongchanghuijuedeyizhongjietuoheqingsong，haoxiangzongsuantuolilejushu，keyisuixinsuoyudihuozhe。xiangduilaishuo，nvxingyouyuyushengjulailixing，hennancongnanwangdehuiyizhongjietuochulai，fenkaiduitameneryanwuyishiyicichenzhongdaji。

　　danshi，jingmingdenvshilejiebunengyiweidichenjinyutongkudangzhong。tamenhuitongguoyixiehelidefangfalaiwanhuiaiqing，bingzaizheiguochengzhongbuduantishengziwo。

　　zixiguanchazheixiequdechenggongwanhuiaiqingdenvxingpengyou，womenbunanfaxiantamenyibanhuicaiyongsangebuzhoulaidadaomubiao。zheixiebuzhoubujinshitamenzaicihuodeleganqing，haiyaotamenzaizheiguochengzhongyuelaiyuegengchuse。

　　1、早期：面对现实、保持理性

　　fenshouzhihou，henduonvxingpengyoujiuhuimashangshenxianqingxuhuaqingkuang，henyoukenengtixianweichouqi、qiqiu、manmahuoshinanyigeshedejiuchan。

　　keshishishang，zheizhongzuofatongchangzhihuishinanshigengjiandingfenshoudejuexin，bingchanshengfanganxintai。

　　yiner，mingzhidexuanzenvrenzaizheishixuyaocaiquwanquanbutongduice。

　　zaifenshouqianqi，zuishouyaodeshidandingdijienamianqiandekeguanshishi，bingweichineixinshenchudelizhi。nixuyaoyishidaofenkaishiyigeyijingfashengle、bukecuangaizheiyishishi，wulunniduomedebuyuanyingduihuoqituduobi，douwufagaibianzheiyixianzhuang。

　　bingqie，ruguoniyizhichenjinyufumiandeqingxuzhong，henkenenghuidaozhishiqingdefazhandeyuelaiyuebikainideqiwang。

　　womenxuyaoshenkediyishidaole，nimenzhijiandeganqingyijingjieshu，ernixuyaozuode，shijieshouzheiyishijibingbuduanshiyingxindeshenghuofangshi。

　　yucitongshi，kongzhihaozijideqingxu，yufangzuochuchongdonggerenxingweiyeshihenzhongyaode。yekeyichangshiyixieyouliyushifangyalihuodong。(lirulvyou、quwan、guangjiegouwu、yujiajianshen、mingxiangxunlianhuoshijiandansansanbu，laifuzhuxiufulengjinghelixing。)

　　2、中后期：改变现状、提升魅力

　　jiranyiduanganqingyifenshougaozhong，neimewulunyiwuzaishei，shuangfangbixujinxingxiangyingdegenggai。

　　duiyunvxingeryan，ruoyaowanliuzheifenganqingranhourangnanxinggenggaiqingyi，zhongdianzaiyuziwogaibianheyunweidetigao。

　　zuixian，shencengcisikaofenshouyuanyin，bingzhenduiyishangwentixunqiujiejuefangan。nulizuoyigegengchusedezishen，neiyangcainengzhongxinxiyinzhutadeyanshen，jiqiduifangduinidexingquaihao。

　　nvshiwulunshenmeshihoudoubuyinghulvezishenxingxiang。zaijilizijiweichizhengtixingxiangdeqiantixia，shizhezuochuyixiejijizhudongdegenggai。

　　biru，keyijiajianshenhuisuojinxingtiyuduanlian，yingzaoshenxinjiankangxianxideshencaiheyouyaqizhi。chucizhiwai，tongguoshidangdehuazhuanghemeifasheji，haikeyitigaozijidewaizaimeifengcai。

　　guanzhuzhezishenxingxiangdeqiantixia，benzhipinzhidetishengyiyangzhongyao。nulizuoyigegengjiazixin、danduhefuyouyunweidenvshi。

　　tongguoxuexi、lvxinghexuexijinengdengqudao，buduanwanshanzishendeneixinshijie。yucitongshi，xuehuijiaoliuhechuliyixierenjijiaowangyeshifeichangzhongyaode。

　　3、中后期：得出阶梯、正确引导沟通交流

　　zenmewanhuixingfudehunyinnanren，ruguonizaoyilianglierxing，danshiduifangbingweihehaoruchushi，yexukeyikaolvdaoweibicijiyuyigetaijie，shiqihaiyoujihuizaicipeizainishenbian。

　　ninengcaiyongyixiexiweidefangshiqujiduifangtaojinhu。biru，xunwenduifangyixieyiqiandeshier，ruwangdiaonadaoleshenme、mouyidongxizhaobudaodeng，huoshitanjiyiqianquguodedifangyigehenhaochidedifangzixixunwenxiangxidizhi，biaomingnixiangyaozaiciqianwang。

　　tuisongyitiaoduanxinhuodayigedianhua，wenhaotadexiankuangyeshiyizhongbucuodefangshi。danwubizhuyi，zheizhongxingweiyaobaochidangran，fangzhixiandebijiaoxianzhuhuoyouyi。

　　zaihelingyifanggoutongdeshihou，ninengyindaoxueshengguanzhunidezhuanbianyuchengzhang，rangtamenqinyankandaonizhengzaixianggengjiahaodefangxiangmaijin。

　　gongxiangnideshenghuojingli、lvxingjianwenyijizuijindesuoxiangsuogan，doushifeichanghaodegoutongjiaoliujutineirong。danzaizheigeguochengzhong，jinliangbaozhenggoutongjiaoliuqingsongyukuai，bubijibicidaozhibushiganhuochenzhongfudan。

　　zuizhong，qingjiduifangchongyukongjianheshijian，qusikaoyuchulizijideqingxunanti。zunzhongtamendequedinghekanfa，bubiqiangpotamenzuorenhetiaoxuan。