如何挽留一个人执意要走的人

　　ruhewanliuyigerenzhiyiyaozouderen，ganqingshiyigehenqimiaodedongxi，dangwomenzaiyiqishi，henbunengronghechengyigeren。

　　danshisuizheshijiantuiyi，dajiakenenghuizhengzhi、huichuxianjiedi、huilengbaoli、zuizhongshenzhihaihuifenlichulai。

　　yiqianaibuai，wanghoumianzhihuigengshang。

　　yingduimianlinhuimiedeaiqing，henduorenjinguanxiangquwanliu，danshiquebuzhidaocongherushou。

　　xuyaozhengjiudeyifang，yaobukuchan，yaobudiweikenqiu，yaobushizijibeiduishoukongzhi，zuihouquerengrankanbudaoyiqiexiwangdeshuguang。

　　kanjianlingyibandelengmojueran，nibuduanhuaiyiziji：“weihetahuizoudaozheiyibu?wogaizenmezuo?wonulile，tahuigenggaima?”

　　shijishang，nixiangyaowanhuiaiqing、baituokunjingdeneixinshineiyangjiqie、qinfen，keshizenmehuiyuelaiyueshiwangni?wojuede，wanliubukemangmukaizhan，erqiezaicizhiqianwomenxuyaozuohaoyixiajijianshiqing。

　　1、拾起相恋初衷

　　wanhunyiduanshirihou，fufufeichangrongyiwangdiaozijiweishenmehuixihuanlingyiban。zheiyangdeqingkuangxia，fufuhebuzhongxinzhengliyixia：xiangaizhichuliangrenshizenyangqinqinwowode?lingyifangnayifangmianzuirangzishenyijianzhongqing?diyiciyuehuidechangjingshizenmeyangde?shishenmerangzishenpingdingyaoyutagongduyisheng?yongbijiangzheidoujiluxialai，youliyufufujilaozhuguanyinsu、tishengxintai、gaibianxintai，baozhengjiandingxinnian、gengqiangxianglian。

　　2、再度聆听彼此之间

　　zairichangshenghuozhong，womenjingchangtingdaozheizhongfuqiduihua，

　　laogongshuo：nibulijiewo，nigenbenbuzhidaowozhenzhengxiangyaonaxie;

　　qiziyezheimeshuo：nigenbenbuzhidaowoxiangyaoshenme，niqueshuowobunenglijieni。

　　suihoufuqilianggerenzongshichaojia，bicizhijianjuedebicizhijianbudongziji，suihoufufujiediyeyuelaiyueda，fuqiganqingyuelaiyueyuan。

　　qingtingshifuqizhijianbicijiyuliwu，keyicujinguanxishenhuafazhan。buyongzhizechizedilingtingshi，jiukechuandachulijieyuzhichidexintai，zheiyeshimeigerendouxiwangconghunyinshenghuosuodedaode。nenggouduolejieyixialingyibanxinlishenchu、zuihunandezhenxiang，huozheshinihenzaihu、henshangxindenanti，suihouxixintingtajiangwan，yilaiyiwang，nimenzhijiandeganqinghuigengyoushendu。

　　3、精益求精

　　duozhuyihunyinshenghuozhongdeyixiexiaoxijiekeyidailaidabuxiangtong。lirulingyibanshuohuadeshihou，bazijideshentizhuanguolaifangwuchaoxianglingyifang;goutongjiaoliushiyaoweichizhijiediyanshenjiechu，buditouwanshouji;jingchangbaoyiweixiaohuowenyiju“jinrihuoderuhe”……zheizhongdoukeyizaifuqizhijianchuangzaochuyizhongjijizhudongdeqifen。

　　4、懂得自我反思

　　doujuedeyigebazhangpaibuxiang，ganqingpolieyewufadouguailingyifang，yiweidechizehuirangnidehunyinshenghuogengweibeiju，xiangwanhuiganqing，neijiuxuehuiziwofansi，fanxingzijishifouhushilelingyifang，shifouyouyuzijidegongzuotaimang、gongzuoyalidaqiejianshaoleshouhou、deduobaoyuanyuzhengzhi。xuyaodiudiaohunyinshenghuo，keyijinliangchoushijianqushouhoulingyifang，weibierenzhexiang，zaishenghuozhongdexiaoshishangdadongbieren，zaizhongyaojierilirushengri、jiehunjinianriridengzuoyijianyouyiyideshirusongyiheqiaokelihuoshihuashulaiyinqilingyifangdegongming。

　　5、提升人格魅力

　　ruhewanliuyigerenzhiyiyaozouderen，renherenxiangchushijianzhangle，nidequedianyoushijiukaishimanmandepulu。erqietanlianaiyemanmandijinrulepilaoqi，suoyidasuanaiqingzhangjiudelengzang，jiuxuyaoweimeihaoshenghuozengtianyixieyiwaijingxi。tishengrengemeilizhiguanzhongyao，bulunshizaibiaomianhuoshixingdongshang，chuanyifuyaobaochiqingjie，jiejinquanligaizhengzheixielalilatadebuliangxiguan。ganqingshilianggerenjianjiandiyidiangenggaiyidian，zuizhongcainengyiqizouxiaqu。

　　6、专心致志经营爱情

　　hunyinshenghuohaosiyitanliexingjiu，baocunyuehao，bianyuenongxiang。tangruobuzhidaoruhezhijiu，budongruhemifeng，buzhidaoruhecunfang，zaihaodebaijiuyehuichengweishaohouweishaoxindekujiu。

　　ganqingshuijiuyiyang，sanfenkaoniang，qifenkaozhuzang，bixuyongxinquzuo。huixiangyixiawanhunzhishi，bicidoushibicizhijianguanzhudezhongdian，qinmiwujian、nanfennanshe。danshisuizhewanhunshijianlazhang，jiaoyuzinv、gongzuomangliu、nuligongzuodengbianchengzhongxindian，rangfufujianjiandibahunyinshenghuodepaiweisaiwanghou。suiranyeyoushijideyidananti，danliangrenguanxihuoshijianqiangdehoudun，bixujijizhudongyunying。tiyifufuduofenpeilianggerenshizhang，xiangyouerrenshijie，jinkenengbuhuibeisuosuiyingxiang。