如何追求男生取得成功？女孩都学好打四张牌

如何 追求自己喜欢的人 ?习惯性上大家常常把女生追男生称作倒追。本质上女生追男生自古以来常有，例如电视连续剧《西游记原著》中，大部分全是好看的妖怪追求完美唐三藏，人物角色设定上全是女生追男生。

 zhenduixiangzaiyiqideliangreneryan，buguannanzhuinvhuanshinvshengzhuinansheng，zuizhongyaoshizaiyiqile，shijishangdoumeiyouneimaduodezhuzhong，yincinvhaijiarupengdaoxinainanhaizi，jiuyingdangyingyongdiquzhuiqiuwanmeizishendexingfukuaile。zhongyaoshinvhaiyingdangruhequzhuinanshengni?zheijiuxiangyaonizuohaoxialiesizhangpai：ruhezhuiqiuzijixihuanderen?zenmezhuiqiuwanmeideren?

第一张牌：要先掌握另一方，隐而不发

 jiaruxiangzhuiqiuwanmeilingyifang，nihaiyaolejielingyifangdeyixiejichuzhuangkuang，liru：xingqing、xingzi、xihaodeng，chongzudizhangwolingyifang，neiyangcaikeyilejielingyifangshiyigeshenmeyangren。

 bulunshiqingganhuanshiyurenxiangchu，bixubaozhengzhibizhiji，caikeyiquebaobaizhanbaisheng。zaimeiyouzhangwoqingxilingyifangyiqian，nikeyiyinerbufa。youyudangnisuiyidixianluqinggan，zaihelingyifangmeiyouqingganjibenyiqian，feichangrongyizaoshoulingyifangdehuijue。

 yincijibiangaobaihaiyaozhuzhongjihui。zaimeiyoumingquezhangwolingyifangyiqian，huanshiyaoyinerbuxinpihao。neiyang，weilaizhenshitiaojianchengshu，caikeyiyijuqudechenggong。

第二张牌：要留意累积情感，厚积而薄发

 nikeyixiangzhuinansheng，haiyaolejieqingganshiyigeyouqianrushendequanguocheng。yaoliuyishijiandeliliang。huoxuyikaishinibukeyixiyinzhulingyifang，keshinikeyijianchibuxiediquzuoxiyinzhulingyifangdeshier，zhizhilingyifangyouyitianhuishangxini。

 youshirenyurenzhijiandeyouhuolijiuqujueyudajiazhongjianyouguoduodebuyiyang。ruguonikeyizaochenglingyifangdeqiuzhiyushi，lingyifangjiuhuiduinifenwaiguanxin。nikeyijianchibuxieduitahao，tahuijuededaoniyeshiyigeyouwendu、youfengfanderen。

 shuobaile：“yuxianquzhibixianyuzhi”jiuzheiyangdadaoli。neiyangshijianjiule，niquanbudenulidoushidafurangni，zheijiushishuoxiangyaonuliderenzhongjiuhuidedaofengfudeshouyi。

第三张牌：要留意品牌形象，蓄势待发

 dangnizaoyizaochenglingyifangdeliuyi，neimajianglainiyizhizailingyifangyanqiandemeiyicidengchangbixuwuqiuxiyinzhuyanzhu。erxiyinzhuyanzhuyouxiaodefangfashiniyaoliuyizishendepinpaixingxiang，youyuxingfudepinpaixingxiangyizhijirenyizhongnideyiqiedoushihaode。yincinikeyiliuyinideyizhehepeida，ranglingyifangjuededaoniyuguoqubuyiyangdeyimian。

 renpeiyifumapeian，tangruomingbaizheizhong，bidingkeyitigaoniwaizaidepinpaixingxiang。ruonikeyijilingyifangyizhongjuede：lejieyuezhang，yueganjuejiniweier，lingyifangjiuhuigangkaishibuduandixiangqini，neimadajiazhongjiandeganqingzhongzijiuhuixunsuchuyahechengcaile。

第四张牌：要留意机会，才可以弹无虚发

 dangnifajuelingyifangzaoyigangkaishiduiniyouganjue，zheiyineishihouyebunengjiyuqiucheng。yaoliuyikongzhuzishendexintai，zaicihelingyifangzhongjiandacuozongfuzadeyoujizhan：nihaoxiangcongbuhuiyouyichuxianzailingyifangdeshiye，keshiquemeiyiciyizhiyouyuanfensideyulingyifangdaoshangyushang。

 zailingyifangzhengzhanqianguhouzhishi，nizaijilingyifangdeqinggantianshangyibahuo，ranglingyifangjuededaomingxiandiqiwanghenizaiyiqi，zheiyineishihouniyidangaobai，huoshijilingyifangyouyidingdeanshizhe，lingyifangyidinghuiganxinqingyuandizuoniganqingdezhanfu。

 nvshengzhuinanshenghaiyaozuohaozuoyousizhangpai，neiyangcaikeyibananhaizilaolaodidizhuazainideshouneixin。ganqingjiuzheiyangde，nenggousuzao，haikeyizaojiu。danbuguanzenyangnibixuhaijide，wangwangfeijinxinjidizhuiqiuwanmeinanhaizi，quanshilaiyuanyuniqueshiaita，bingqieniyejuededajiazouzaiyiqiyidinghuizhenxingfude。zenmezhuiqiuwanmeideren?