隐晦的表白，男生有什么提高情商智商的思维模式?

(1)多关心另一方，少关心自身。

 gaoqingshangdenanshenghuihenliuyitarendeshentizishi，xiaobiaoqingyeyougecengmiandezhuyaobiaoxian，keyiduquyigerendexinliniantou。suihouzaizuochufangfancuoshi，neiyangjiuhuishibeigongban。keshiqingshangdidenanrenderendaopengdaoshier，zuixianchongfenkaolvdeshizishendetongku，ganshouhebiede，yincichabiequjueyuyigeshizhongshizishen，yigeshizhongshitaren。zenme yinhuidebiaobai ?

zheierjulishuoming，jiuxiangdayouxiyiyang

 qingshangdidenanrenderenzhizaihuzishen，zishendewuqizhuangbeiruheruhelihai，juedezishenzaizheiyishoujiyouxijiunenggou hengzhezou，lingyifanghaowuyiwenhuibeizishenhesha，keshigaoqingshangderenshishikeguanxinlingyifangdedongtaixing。zenmeyinhuidebiaobai?nvshengduinanshengbiaobaidehuazenmeshuo?

 lingyifangyoumuyouzhaoerle，xiayimiaogairuheshijicaozuo，yijulingyifangdezhuangkuang，shuobailezhibizhijibaizhanbaisheng，yejiushishuoneimelaide，liangrendeniantoubuyiyang，huodedejieguodangranshibuyiyangde。

(2)duozhangwo，shaodianping。

 henduodexintaiheyuwanghuizaochengzishendeniantouzaoshouweihai，youyutarenduinizuodeshier，huishikeweihaidaonidexintai，jiuhuiduilingyifangzuochudianping，keshicongbushicongzishendeshenshangzhaowenti。

 liruyouxierenmoumoumouxianzhuwaiyule，guaqileqiangliefanxiang，suihouninengxiangqizishenzhihouruguoyouneiyangdeairen，jianzhizaole，yincishikefangbeizishendeairen。nagexianzhuqueshiweirencha，haiwaiyu，ruheruhede

 keshigaoqingshangdenanhaizihuiduinishuo，niyeshiruhepanduanxianzhuwaiyude，nijiandaole?heshichanshengde?youshipinma?zheiyixinxikaopuma?huanshitarenjinjincengredianeryi，shuodaodizuochuqude，jianghuizishenhaibeipian，tarenyigegaochaodebiaoyanjiuyaozishendeniantouhuodeleneimedadeyousuogaishan，woruhejianghuihaixiangquxinzheizhongdongxi。

(3)duolizailingyifangshijiaosisuo

 zheijiushishuochengcai，nvhaigentashuofangan，bubi，qingshangdidenanrenjiuqueshijuedenvhaixihuanni。gaoqingshangderenjiuhuizhanzailingyifangdeshijiaodulisikao，wojiushigenvhai，haowuyiwenhenxiuse，jiarujishishixiailingyifang，yehuineimeshuoba，youyuxiuse，xiuyuqichideruanruo，yincitabingbushifanganwo，zhishixiuse。

 congqiandewozhuinvhaizidoushiyiqiaobuzhidao，mishangyigenvhai，meitianpeitaxianliao，jiusuanzishentaoyanjingchangaoyeyepeita，tayaoxiangnaxiewodoushisongjita，yifubaobaonaxiede，

hualeyekuaiwuqianyuanle，keshihuandedejinjintarujinlinshibuhuitanlianai

 tashenpangdeyigeyixingpengyou，jiuhetachuqulangma，suihouquchiwanyigedanshibaidefan，jiubatanadaole，neishiwoqueshibumingbai。

wojibenshangkuaibenkuile，bawochedideguadaolebeiyongtaixiadetouxian，tashishizaitaijifeng，

jiushizheiyangwohaizaihunhundundundeyiguojiriyihou，zaishoujiweixinshang，bingbushiyouweixingongzhonghaoma，

 jiuzai“xishiwulin”shangjiandaolelaoshiweiwojiexideshangshuode“zhuinvhaizibingbushikaoguitian，zhishixiyinzhu，rangmeizhijijihuilai。”

libiandedixiongquanshiyuemeizhirangmeizhizishenhuilaiyueniyouhui，ganxinqingyuan，erbingbushinilaizhuiqiu

 wogangkaishikantadeshipin，zhujiandegaibianxianzhuang，pinpaixingxiang，qichang，xianliaojishuxing，yeyouduinvhaidezishi，neilibianchangyouyixiliexiangxideliucheng

yuanxianzishenbingfeimeiyouhuodenvhai，zhishizainvhaiyanqianyishilewupin。

 eryishidewupin，shijishangjiushishuonanshengdezishi，benyingyoudezishi，zishenzaizhuiqiuwanmeidequanguochengzhongbianweideshiguitiandeqingkuang。nvshengduinanshengbiaobaidehuazenmeshuo?