失恋了我该怎么走出失恋呢

失恋  了是一道逆命题，你一个人做不来，一定要有人成全你，且这个人是你最在乎的人，否则没有杀伤力。失恋怎么走出来呢？很多时候一段感情能够戛然而止，但是人的情感却不能。所以有那么多的失恋者深陷在爱情里，苦苦煎熬。

一、失恋了我该怎么处理自己的情绪

1、失恋了不妨发泄心里的情绪 ：

 renheren，buguanfanfusuzihuoyingxionghaojie，pengshangqingchangbaibeishi，nanmianyingxiongqiduan，leisayijin。ercishixiangkuerbuganku，shenzhiqiangyanhuanxiao，biaomianshangkanqilaisihu“zhuanglie”，qishishiduishenxindeshanghaifeichangda。renherendouyinggaiyoukudequanli，youqishizaishilianzhishi。bunengzaizhongrenmianqiankuderen，yeyinggaizhaogedifangsixiatongkuyifan；buxiguandakuyichangderen，yebufangrangzijideyanleijinliangliuchulai。

2、失恋了理智地分析毛病出在哪里：

 tongkuleyizhenzihou，yinggailizhidimianduiziji，fenxiyixiadaodimaobingchuzainali。jiranfenshouyishishishi，jiuyaoganyumianduixianshi。jizhu，ruqianmiansuotiguode，zheibushishifeiduicuodewenti，ershishihebushihedewenti。niyaozuodejiushizhaochuniyounaxieshiduifangshoubulede；duifangshenmeshihouzuikuaile，weishenme？shenmeshihouzuitongku，weishenme？zheixieyinsuzhaochulaiyihou，kankannaxieshikeyigaide，nenggaizegai。kankannaxieshigaibulede，xiacizhaolianrenshijiuzhaoneixiebijiaonengshiyingziji“tezhi”deduixiang。

3、 失恋了学会自立自强：

 shilianzhezaichuqizuichangjiandefanyingshisangshixinxin、ziyuanziai、fenfenbuping，juedewulianjianren，huoziganduoluo、taobixianshi。baofuzhifabukequ，erzijihuixinsangzhi，meiriyileiximian，wulezhengshi，zhuangsikelian，qishiyeshibaibi。yinweizheixiejudong，zhishishiduifanggengjiadeyiwangxing，duizijimeiyousihaodeliyi。chulishilianhoudefenfenbuping，defangfashihaohaoguorizi，ziliziqiang，huodebiyiqiangenghao，nulishirihoudexueye、shiyegengjiajinbu、fada，jianglaiqu（jia）yigebiyuanlaigenghaodeduixiang。

二、怎么走出失恋

1、要有清醒的认识

 dabufenshilianderen，qishihenqingchuzheiqizhongdeyuanyin，shizijideyuanyin，haishilianrendeyuanyin，yihuoshidisanzhedeyuanyin，xuyaoxianrenqingchuyuanyin，yongkeguandexiangfaqufenxishiliandeyuanyin，zheishijianqingtongkudediyibu，dangran，yuanyinfenxichulailezhihounihaishihuitongkude，danzheizaidaolishang，niyijingxianqingchumingbaile。dabufenshilianzhedoukeyizuodaozheiyidian。

2、坚决不要立即寻找代替者

 henduoshilianzhezaishilianzhihou，huimashangkaishidierduanlianqing，zheidequezaiduanshijianneinenggouanfushoushangzhedexinqing，ranerzheiduiyuxinlaizheshijidadebugongping，zuizhong，shilianzhehuicuowudikaishiledierduanganqing，weiyihoudailaigengdadefannao，zhengquedezuofashi，rangshilianhoubannian，huozheyinianzhihou，nenggouzhenzhengfangkaizhiqiandeganqing，zaiqukaolvxindeganqing。

3、原谅他（她）

 dabufendeshilian，doushitongkude，youxierenhuizeguaitahuozheta，ranerzheishimeiyoubiyaode，lianaishilianggerentianmidehuiyi，shilian，yebingbushimougerendecuo，yekendingyouzijidezeren，buyaobasuoyoudewentidoutuijibieren，yuanliangta（ta）ba，rangyiqiezhongxinkaishi，xuehuikuanshu，nijianghuigengkuaile。

三、失恋了该怎么办

 shilianlegaizenmeban？rendeyisheng，zongshishiyideshihouduo，deyideshihoushao，wulunshiyihaishideyi，douyaodanding。shiyideshihouyaotanran，deyideshihouyaodanran。ruguoshuocuozheshishengmingdecaifu，neimechuangshangjiushiqianjindedongli。shengbainaibingjiachangshi，beixinairenzhichangqing。sheiderenshengyebuhuiyifanfengshun，runengyidanrandexintaiqumianduizanshideshibai，chenggongyezhishigeshijianwenti。