老公坚决要离婚怎么办，老公决心离婚最好的处理方法

 laogongjuexinlihunzuihaodechulifangfa，meiyiduanguanxihehunyindouxuyaomohe。xuduohunyinzhongdefuqizaimoheqijianbuzhidaoruherongrenhelijieduifang，daozhizhengchaohemaodun，daozhiduihunyinshenghuodeyanjuan，maodunjiaju，fuqiguanxiyuelaiyuezaogao。zuihou，qizhongyirentichulihun，neimeruhehuifuzhangfudelihunni？

yudaohunyinweijishi，buyaoyixiaojidetaiduquwanhui，yaoyongyumiandui，caiquzhengquedewanhuicelve，tigaowanhuidechenggonglv。

一、找出婚姻的主要矛盾

 ruhewanjiunizhangfudelihun？ruguonizhangfuhenilihun，zheiyiweizhenimenzhijiandemaodunhenshen。ruguonixianzaixiangjiuta，nibixushouxianjianshaonidemaodun，bingshidangditongyinizhangfudeguandian。

 tongshi，zainidehuayuzhongxunzhaonidemaodun，shiyinweinizaochuwangui，wushinidejiating，huozheyinweinibuzunzhongnidezhangfu，huozheyinweinidexinggetaijianqiang。

 meiyiduanguanxidouyouhenduomaodun。nixuyaozhanzainizhangfudejiaodu，sheshenchudiweitazhexiang，zhaochushencengcideyuanyin，binggenjuyuanyinduizhengxiayao，zhidingxiangyingdeduice，yibianyouxiaodihuifu。

二、理性化解婚姻危机

 laogongjuexinlihunzuihaodechulifangfa，hunyinbujinshilianggerendegongtongshenghuo，yeshilianggerenzhijianganqingdeshenghua，yeshihuannanyugong、huxiangbangzhudejuexin。wulunshinanrenhaishinvren，nidoubunengduzijiehun。

 zhiyoudangnimenzaiyiqishi，nimencainengzhenzhengganshoudaohunyinduinimenshenxindegaibian。hunyinbutongyuaiqing。aiqingkeyishuoshifensande，danhunyinshejitaiduodezeren、zunyanheweilaideyixiliewenti。

 yinci，jiranwomenyijingburuhunyindiantang，wulunwomenyudaoduodadewenti，womendouyinggaizhaodaojiejuetadefangfa。zaizheigeshihouruhewanjiunidehunyin？fangfazongshibiwentiduo，zhiyaonizixixiangxiang。danghunyinchuxianweijishi，yuanyiditourangbuderenwangwangshizuizhangyuan、zuimingzhideren。

 nizhidao，ruguohunyinguanlibuhao，jishilihunjinruxindehunyin，yekenengguanlibuhao。yinweisuoyoudekunnandoushizuihaodexunlian。ruguonibutongguo，nijiubunenghenhaodichuliyixieguanxi。

 dangguanxichulibuhaoshi，wentijiuhuibiandejiduanheehua。jiuxiangjiatingweijiyiyang，shishishang，daduoshuyuanyindoushishenghuozhongdexiaoshi。yinweitamenzaizheiduanshijianlimeiyoudedaohenhaodekongzhihechuliyixieguanxi，tamenshiqulehenduo。

三、设定短期具体目标

 hunyinweiji"bingdongsanchibushiyirizhihan"，womenxuyaoshedingduanqidejutimubiao。buyaoqiwangyigexiaoxiaodegaibianlaianfuhunyin，yebuyaoshedingyigexingfuhunyindechouxiangmubiao。yigexianshideduanqimubiaozuiyoukenengchenggongshixian。

 duanqidejutimubiaobuxuyaotaiduodexitongzhichi。zhiyaoxianggaishanhunyinweijideyifangzaiyigexiaodongzuohuoyigexiaoyuyanshangzuochuyumaodunjihuaxiangfandezuofa，jiukeyigaibianquanju。

 laogongjuexinlihunzuihaodechulifangfa，huifuyiduanguanxishiyijiantebiezhuzhongcelve、shijianhexiaolvdeshiqing。guanjianzaiyunishifouyuanyigaibiannidefangfa、siwei，shenzhiyuqi，bingyizhengquedefangshinuligongzuo。fangfashicuowude，nulishitulaode。yexunizhengzaihuifudelushang，yizhizainuligongzuo，danxiaoguohenxiao。xiangyaogenghaodihuifunideaima？