婆媳关系闹僵了如何处理，婆媳矛盾的根源主要是这三点

 poxiguanxinaojiangleruhechuli？ziguyilai，zuinandejiushipoxiguanxi。xuduojiatingwufapinghengpopo、nvrenhenanrenzhijiandeguanxi。tebieshizuoweiyigenanren，tajiuxiangyigesanmingzhimianbao。zuobianshimuqin，youbianshiqizi。ruguonibuzhidaomouxiejineng，taqueshihuidaozhijiatingzhanzheng。

suoyijintianwomenjiuhedajiataolunyixiaruhechulipoxiguanxi，yijizuoweierzihezhangfu，ruhepinghengmuqinheqizideguanxi。

婆媳关系中只有几个难点

1、经济问题

 xuduojiatingmaodundegenyuanshijingjimaodun，biruzuijinyudaode，nvfangnaqianbutieniangjia，quebuyunxunanfangnaqianjigongposhiyong，youcichanshengdemaodun。

shishishang，jingjiwentibingmeiyouneimemafan，zhengrunvfangrenweizijibutiefumushizirande，nanfangbutiefumuyeshiruci。

 lingyigelizishigongfuheyuemuzhuzaiyiqidewenti。baomugongzuo，yougongzi。fumujijiangtuixiu，budebuzuojiawulaizhaoguhaizi。

 suirantamenmeiyoushuoyaojitamengongzi，danzhishaotamenyinggaizhudongzhifushenghuofei，birumaishucaideqian。tamenkeyibushidiwenshifouzugou。bijing，ruguotamenbubangmang，nibixuzijihuaqian，shenzhichuquchifanyehuigenggui。

ciwai，jieriliwuheqianshibibukeshaode，xiaoshundefeiyonghaishixuyaode。guanyumailiwu，jiduoshaoqian，keyiwenwenlaogong。

 wulunruhe，rangnidezhangfuzhidaoniduitadefumuhenkangkaishimeiyoucuode。zuoxifubunengtaixiaoqi，fouzepoxiguanxibuhao，shengqidehaishiziji。

2、距离问题

 popoheerxibushiyijiaren。suirantamendadianhuajimuqin，dantamenbijingbushizhenzhengdemuqin。meiyouzhangfudeguanxi，xifuhepopojiumeiyouguanxi。lianggemoshengdenvrenzaiyiqi，zaijiashangnianlingchaju、sixiangheguannianshangdechaju。tamenyufumuyouchaju，gengbuyongshuoqitarendefumule。

 yinci，yupopobaochiyidingdejuligangengweiheshi。meiyoubiyaojianlitaiqinmideguanxi，baochipingfandeguanxi，huxiangzunzhong，huxiangxiaoshun，hepingxiangchu。

dangranyebufanduiyumunvxiangchudeguanxi，danbijingzheishishaoshu，womenhaishizhenduidaduoshurendeqingkuang。

 suoyi，buyaoyaoqiunibaduifangdangchengzijidemuqin，danzhishaoyaogongping。bijing，ruguonijiajizheigenanren，niyehuirongrutadejiating。nixiangduinimuqindejiarenzuoshenme？

 duidaipopo，zuoweinianqingyidai，womenyeyinggaiqianxuhelijie。pingshi，womenkeyiduohepopoliaotian，duoguanxinpopodeshentizhuangkuang，rangtajuedesuirantabushizijide，danzhishaohuiguanxinta。

 ciwai，womenyinggaixuehuiganen。womendedaduoshufumudouyidaoletuixiunianling。yexuweilebangzhuwomenjianqingfudan，zhudongbangzhuwomendehaizizuojiawu，womenyoushenmeliyoupipingtamen。

 xuduorenkenengmeiyouyishidaozheiyidian，renweitamenyinggaiweitamendeerzifenxiangzheixie。womenyinggaiqingchu，gonggongpopomeiyouzheigeyiwu。

3、其他问题

biruhegongpozhuzaiyiqi，yinshixiguanwenti，laoyibeikenengbijiaojingji，yehuichanshengchongtu；

liruzuoxixiguan，laorenzaoshuizaoshui，nianqingrenwanshuiwanqi；

 liru，laoyibeihenianqingrenduihaizidejiaoyuguannianyoubutongdekanfa。laonianrenkeyiyongzijidejingyangaosuni，nianqingrenxihuankexuedifuyanghaizi；

biruyupopodemaodun，zhangfuzhanzainayifangdewentidengdeng，douhuiyouyidingdemoca。

 zaizheigeshihou，womenyinggaixuehuishidangdishiyongzhangfudedunpai，erbushizhijieyupopofashengchongtu，buyaowomenduipopodeqingxuzhuanyidaozhangfushenshangfaxie，zuizhongzhuanhuaweifuqizhijiandemaodun。

poximaodun，shoukudeyidingshinanfang。suoyizuoweizhangfu，zuoweierzi，ruhepinghenglianggenvrenzhijiandeguanxi？

给出一些简单的建议

1、jinliangbuyaohefumuzhuzaiyiqi

 meigerendexingge、shenghuoxiguandoubuyiyang，shenghuozaiyiqinanmianhuichanshengmoca。fuqizhijianyoumoheqi，gengbuyongshuofumuheqizile。

 suiranyijianxiaoshibuzuyijijiatingdailaiweiji，danruguoxiaoshiduijirushan，jiuxiangbaiyimanmanqinshifangziyiyang，yehuimanmanjijiatingdailailiefeng。yinci，fenkaishenghuoshiyigemingzhidexuanze。

2、zhudongbangzhuqizirongrujiating

 poxiguanxinaojiangleruhechuli？qizijiajinihou，jiuxiangyigemoshengrenlaidaoniyuanbenqinmidejiating，yikaishibushiyingshihenzhengchangde。

 ruguozuoweitadezhangfu，zheigejiatingzhongweiyiyutaguanximiqiederenbuzhudongbangzhutarongruzheigejiating，neimenidefumuhuijuedenikenengduizheigeqizibushihenmanyi，ziranhuijuedetayouwenti。

3、buyaozaifumumianqianjiaolaopo

 nanrenaimianzi。zaifumumianqianjitamendeqizidadianhuasihushiyizhongfeichangyoumianzidexingwei。tamenbaqizideyifuzhanzaiyiqi。danshishishang，zheizhongxingweihuirangqizihenlei，huijifumuyigeanshi：neijiushi，nibuzunzhongnideqizi，zheibiaomingniduitabumanyi。

 zheiyang，fumujiubuhuizhuyitamendeerxi，zirandeyanyuhuoxingweihenrongyiyinqiyixiemaodun。suoyiyoushiwomenbudebunizhuan，birufumurangtamendeqizizuoshenme，womenkeyizhudongquzuo。

 suizheshijiandetuiyi，dangfumuzhidaodadianhuajitamendeqizishijishangshizaidadianhuajitamendeerzishi，tamenbuhuiguyirangtamendeqizinankan。

4、zaijiali，niyinggaiyouhuayuquanheweixin

 zuoweierzi，suiranfumushizhangbei，womenyinggaixiaoshun，danwomenbunengshishitingcongfumudehua。zuoweiyigezhangfu，zaijialiyouzijideguandianheshengwang，zheiduipoxiguanxishifouhexieqizhezhiguanzhongyaodezuoyong。

 ruguoniyoufayanquan、duliyijianheyidingdezunyan，dangnidemuqinheqizifashengchongtushi，zhishaonideganyukeyirangbiciyoulimao。

 ruguozhangfumeiyouzugoudehuayuquanheweiwang，muqintongchanghuibaohuerzimianshouerxideqifu，poxizhijiandemaodunziranhuibiandeyuelaiyueyanzhong。zuihou，zhenggejiatingbiandebuanhezhiliposui。

 poxiguanxinaojiangleruhechuli？yinci，zuoweiyigefuzerendenanren，zuohaoqizihemuqinzhijiandeqiaoliangherunhuajikeyibaohunimianshouzhemohetongku。fouze，nikenenghuidengdaifengbaodedaolai~