这3件琐事 正一步步破坏你的婚姻生活

怎么经营婚姻? 提到婚姻破裂，你第一反映会想起哪些?老公的叛变;第三者的死缠;或是是日复一日的争执,殊不知真实破坏婚姻生活的罪魁祸首，确是一件件平时无比的琐事。

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neizhenshisunhailanmanguanxipinzhideshisha?

1.

是“无趣感”。

jiarufuqishenghuojiweikuzao，jiusuanmeitianxingganneiyihuanyigebuduan，yemeibanfarangbiciranqijiqing。

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wuqudaibiaozheyizhongshujuxinhao——zheiyiduanguanxibutaihaole。

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you3zhongzhuangkuanghuishiqinmiguanxizaocheng“wuqugan”。

yifangzhujianbianweile“wuquderen”。

“wuquderen”younaxietexing?

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zenmehuichuxianzheiyangdeshiqing?

zheijianghuishiliangrenjiehunhouyongyoujiongranbutongdefazhanquxiang，richangshenghuoaihaoqianquebingji。

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danduixianghuchabiedexintai，huilingrenjuedelingyifangshibushiwuqu。

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zheizhongzuofajiushishuo——zhijiangdaoli，butantihui。

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yaozenyangpingbiyigeyuzishenwuhuabushuoderen?

bingbuhuitainan——jiangdigoutongjiaoliu，yizhiyuyibugoutongjiaoliu。

 yiduanqinmiguanxijiarushibei“jiangdaoli”zheizhongzuofayuelaiyuewuqude，neimaxiankaoliangyixia“jiangdaoli”duiniguanjian，huanshishushideguanxiduiniguanjian?

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neimajiuzaixiangzhe——nijiangleneimeduodadaoli，genggailetama?

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bubirangwuquganfushidajiadeqinggan，jiaruyoushujia，jiuweishenghuotishengyixiebuyiyangdeyuansu。

 liruqulvyou，qudaoyigetarenyebulejiedajiadediqu，zhinengdajialiangrennenghuxiangjiezhu，kanyixiabuyiyangdejingse，jiangyixiepingchangfeichangshaojiangdehua。

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