婚姻中的男人就是说喜爱傻白甜吗?

怎么经营婚姻? 近期的国产剧简直让网编应接不暇，之前网编追的全是中国香港电视剧美国电视剧，如今的国产电视剧提材新奇不用说，IP都是非常优异。已不是冷酷总裁+傻白甜的标准配置。

 zhiqianwangbianzhenduiguonei"xingxingyu"，"xiaoyixiao"dasixuanyangdedianshilianxujuqueshiyidiandoubuganxingqu，zhongjiuxinshiqidenvshizaoyibujinjinshiyangtutusenpudeqingchunshaonvle。zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?

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nanrenna，jiutaoyancongmingdenvren，benbendaidaidecaigouxiyinzhu!

 queshishicongmingdenvrenyebutaoxi?qudechenggongdenvrenjiunanzhaodaozhenaima?renmenjinrilaipouxiyixia，zheiyinantidaodishiruhechanshengde。

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 duiyibanrenlaijiang，renmenmeiridouyingduiyizhongbeichengzuo：xiangduixingduozou(relative deprivation)detihuisuoganqi。

 dagebifangshuo，gongzuozhongdediqu，tongyigedanweilizongyouyigezuozhewolinju，zhuanyenengliwuwoyouhao，goutongnengliwuwoyouqiangderen。buzhiweishenme，youhaodechuangyexiangmutachangchangfenhuode。wozuodeshierbitaduo，shubuzhifulidaiyuyizhitakanshangquhaoyidian。zuicaogaodeshi，lianbeijujiandehuanshita!

 jianyilaijiang，xiangduixingduozoushiyizhongjuede，zheileijuedeshiwomenyiqijuedezishenshiyouzhe，ershijishangbingbukeyi。rutongshangbiantijide，benlaiwocaisuanshiyingdanghuodehaochanpindeneiren，quebeilingyigegenglowdepengyouhuodele。

 erzaihunyinaiqinglibian，yiweimairu“jinzishengdoushi”denianji、quehaiweiwanhun(yizhiyuhaimeilingyiban)、gongzuozhonghaihaodenvrenhuoxuhuiwen：nandaoshuorujinderendoutaoyanqudechenggongdenvrenma?

wenzheiyinantidenvrendouandilisheweiyigejiaowei：tongling、gongzuozhongbushunxinderen，yekeyiyoulingyiban，weishameiyou?

 chulenianji、yishizhuxingbiaozhun、wulunxingbie，shirendoushiyoukeguanxinghuoshizhuguanxingshang，youyizhongbgen“leisi”renjiaoweidexintaizhuangtai。dangnipengdao“pingji”，jiuhuibudazirandejiaowei，zaochengxiangduixingduozoudexintai。

 zheileixintairangwomenchanshengdeqifugan，lingrenmenganjuezishenluowule。tongsuhuadianeryan，zhongsuozhouzhirenquanshinikanzhewohao，xiangkanninhao，bixiayouyubishangbuzu。keguanshishibingfeirenmenqueshiyouzheileichabie，jinjinyizhongbubijiaoweihuodedehuanjue。nanrenjiuzhixiaishabaitian，taoyanzhichangnvrenma?zheiyuanbenjiushishuoyigemiulun。

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 xuduorenjiuyaoshuo，xiabai，benlaisajiaodenvrenjiushishuofeichangrongyitaoxiyidian，qiangshidenvrenyizhijiaoweinanhuodechongni，bingbushima?

 lizaimingquetichuzheiyinantideshijiaosikaohaozheiyinanti，zaikanshijizhongtongyihunlianjiaoyouxiaoshoushichangzhongdenvren。bengongsishixianeryijianrichangshenghuohuixuduorengangroubingji，quemeiyoudedaodaliangdeqinlai。tashizenmehuishi?

 liangrenxiangzhixiangshi，yikaishiquanshibuqingchulingyifangdebeijingtuyeyoudixi，jiusuannijianzhijiaozi，zhenduijijixuanzedereneryanhuanshiqidaixuanzeyigerangzishenhuodesunhaijiaoweishaoderen。

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 nengyouzhengtishilideren，caiyoujiaojiadezichan，laozongbutaikenengkanbuchulaiba?yequeshi，keshiqingyigeyoufazhanshineikongjiandezhigong，jiaqianyoubugao，moheqibudaojiucidiaobubiqingyigegaoxinzhiweiyoubuqingchuzheiyirenshibushikeyiheshizhiweiderenhuadelai?

 zhaopinmianshideneishihoutongchangbukeyiqingliangquantouminglejielingyifangdixi，yinciyouxiurencaifeichangrongyibahaodeyouxiurencaishaichulai。rutonghunlianjiaoyouxiaoshoushichangli，yongyouqianbiantijidexiangduixingduozoudexintaizuoguai，yingduijiaoweirenquanshipianzhongyuxuanzezishengengfeichangrongyizhangkong，qifupianshaodelingyibanjiaowang。

 danshini，ganqingzhongjianmeiyouneimeduokeguandesisuo，bulunshishabaitianhuanshizhichangnvrenchangyoubeixuanzehuoshixuanzedejiyu。zhibuguoshibuyidingzheileijiyuhuibeilingyifangfuqian，zheiyitanpanjiangjujiuqujueyuzhaopinmianshibicixinlinengchengdandeqifuyouduoshao。

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 dangxiaoshoushichangdouchongchiweilieshangpin，shengchanchangjiayibianshichangxiaoshouchudaliangdeshangpinfabugezhonggeyangfangmaoweilieshangpinjiuhuizaochengxiaoshoushichangyuelaiyuemingan。

 yiyangdedadaoli，nvshengyibianbazishentuixiaochanpinchulai，jiuxuyijianshaozishendegezhonggeyangshenjia，yifushabaitiandemoyang，tongyikanjia，buyingdanggengkaolvlingyifangdixintaizhuangtaiqifudebiaozhunlemeiyou?

 danshiqianwanbiewangle，niyeshinaxiederenjiuhuixiyinzhunaxiejibiedehuoban。renyiqunfenwuyileiju，yijuhuodeyuelaiyueshaoxintaizhuangtaiqifudeguifanlaixuanze，zheiyiairenbidingdoushishubuqi，meiyoujinquxin。

 youyutajiushishuobudianjizhezishenfazhan，fandaojiezhuairenkanjialaimibuqifu。neiyangdexuanze，bingbukeyibianchengnvshengdeliangren，neiyangcuowudengbiaozhundepeiduiyehuizaochengguanlianyuezouyuemingan。

zaifanhuiyikaishirenmenmingquetichudenanti：queshishicongmingdenvrenyebutaoxi?shabaitianzhanyoulehunlianjiaoyouxiaoshoushichang?

 xiaojieeryanjiushishuo：nanrenbingfeifeichangxiaibennvren，congmingdenvrenyebingbushibutaoxi，zhishiyixiebuzixindenanrenqueshaozixin，ningke“chenfuyu”xuanzelegengfeichangrongyizhangkongdelingyibanbale。

 yincinvrena，qianwanbieweizhuhaoduoge“weilie”denanrenerzhongzhizishenfazhandejiaobu。zhinengzishengengchusele，caikeyiyougengxingfudeweilai，pengdaogengweixingfuderen。poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?