婚姻中大家的无话可说到底是谁导致的?

怎么经营婚姻? 询问你好多个难题：上一次大家开怀笑掉大牙的闲聊是何时?上一次他积极与你共享日常生活的有趣的事是何时?上一次他与你八卦相互朋友是什么那时候?

 youmuyoufaxian，buzhidaocongshenmeshihouqi，dajiazhongjiandegoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuedi，yipengmianliaobushangyiliangju，jiubuqingchuzenmejiangxialaile。zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?

jibianmeiriyiqiyongcan，zhuiju，rushui，queyizhiwuhuakeshuo，yiqianqingyihutongdejuede，henjiuhenjiumeichuxianyiguo。

neiyangdeqinggan，jinineixinkongluoluode，gengsuanbushangyounaxieguishugan。

zhengchao，lengbaoli，jianmo。

nilejiezishenhaiaizhe，quezhiyouyanbabakanjianganqingchixuyuanqu。

 zheiyangdeshiqingzhenshilingrenshangnaobenkui，benlailejienantichuzaineili，zishenyeyouyuzheizhongnantichanshenghenduobubian，danjiushishuobuqingchuruhechuli。

xuduorenganjueneiyangdezhuangkuangshihenyiqiezhengchangde，bingqienanjie，zhongjiu“pingdanrushuicaisuanshizhen”。

huasuineiyangshuo，danrenmenyaolejie，pingdanrushuibingbushiyiweizhezhewuhuakeshuo，bingbudengyuwanquanjianmo。

biebawuhuakeshuodangzuoganqingdechangtaihua，dangdajiazhongjiancunyouzheiyangdeshiqingshi，zhengmingcailiaozheiyiduanguanlianzaoyichuxianlenanti。

neiyaochulineiyangdenanti，gaigaizenmebanni?

1.你掌握他吗?

实际上我不掌握。

 dangnitidaogoutongjiaoliushi，zongxiaizaihoubianzaijiayigegoutongjiaoliu，chucizhiwai，renmenzaigoutongjiaoliuquanguochengzhong，shijishangshimianbulegoutongjiaoliude。

 yishizhuxingzongbingbushiyicengbuhuigaibiande，gerenaihaoyebingbushiyicengbuhuigaibiande，zhenduilingyifanghenganxingqude，xiaide，yizhiyaohuaxiesixuzhangwocaihao，buranlingyifangkeyihenizaishuoshenmeni?

qishiyemeishenmegongtonghuati，suanlebabuduoshuole。

2.nishibushiyijingqueshiyouhuoli

nixiangyaohekushuaidewuyanzuxianliao，huanshixiangyaoheyigeluopodeqigaixianliao?

cankaodaanzenyang，xianeryijian。

renquanshishijuexingdedongxi，nanrenhaowuliwai。

yingduiyigezimingqinggao，chuandetulituqidenvxing，buyaoshuojiaoliuyugoutongle，tarenlianhuadoubutaixiangyaoyunishuo。

 huoxu，zheibingfeijinifengkuangdimaidongxi，chuanzhedaban，zhishiyaozaijingjifazhanbiaozhunkeyirongxudebiaozhunxia，rangzishenkanqilaigengyouyouhuoli，genghaokan。

haijideyiqiankanleyigenanti，dayueshi：nvyouzhangdepiaoliangshiyizhongnaxiedeganshou?

youyigenanhaizihuiying：buguankanjihui，haihuiganjuezhenhan，buguantazuobuduishashi，yaoshimeitouyizhou，doushixuanzeyuanliangta。

 liuyile，tashizhongzhongzhizhong：yiyangyijianshier，fujianvzuolejiushishuonenggoukuanrongde，keyichengshoude，aiqiongcuozuolejiushishuobunengkuanrong，chourenduozuoguai。

 huoxu，benzhiyiyangshihenguanjiande。keshibiaomianzaixuduoneishihoujuecelingyifangshibushixiangyaohuaxiaoshijian、huolizhangwonidebenzhi。

zaiyankonghenduodejinri，nibixuyifulianglidepinang。

3.nishibushirangtameilezhengfuyu

 dangyigenanrenhuodenidesuoyouyihou，jiaruqiaqiaotameiyoushiduoshaoshiminggan，neimajiexiaqunijiangzaoyudejiushishuoyulaiyulengmodexintai。

zhongjiunizaoyibuyiyulimishangleta，zheihuirangtasangshizhengfudetiaozhangan。

yuzhifanguolaideshi，shiqudehuoshishibukeyichedihuodede，caishizhongrangnanrenyaoyaqiechi。

nanrenbingbushizaixiangyouzhengfudekuaile，jiushishuozaishengchanzhizaozhengfukuailededaoshang。

 yinci，dangnanrenyulaiyulengmo，lianggerenyulaiyuwuhuakeshuodeneishihou，nikeyikaolvyixia，shifouzishentainuoruo，taimeiyoushiyongjiazhi，mangmugenfengdijianglingyifangpengshangwangzuo，ranglingyifangmeilezhengfudekuaile。

4.nideyixiegerenxingweirangtafangan

 rendejuedeshiyizhonghenfanzadedongxi，yexudemeiyigezishichangyoujianghuidaozhilingyifangdexiaojiqingxu，jinerranglingyifangyulaiyusangshiaihao。

 zheiyineishihou，nibixuduoduodeguanchataduinigezhonggeyanggerenxingweideyijianfankui，xiangzhetayiqiangaosuniguodeyixiehua，feichangshishuoguohaoduoci，keshiniquemeiyoudangzuoyihuishidehua。

shuoguohaoduocizhengmingcailiaolingyifanghenzaihuzheiyishier，nidemanbuzaihujiyoukenengshidaozhilingyifangduinidichudeyuangu。

liru，tazishenyoujiepizheng，shuoguoxuduociqidainikeyimeiridasaofangjianzheixie。

xunzhaozheiyiyuangu，gaidiaoyihou，huijiangdiyixielingyifangdexiaojiqingxu，tishengyixiefanmianxintai。

huoxu，wuhuakeshuodeyuangubingfeizhinengzuoyoutidaodezheijidian，haibaohan：

yiqianzaochengdefenqiweihuodejijizhudongchuli;

gongzuozhongmangliu，rentipilao;

qingganyiguorelian，daofaweiqi：

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 keshibuguanzenyang，huayuelaiyuedishiqingganguanzhuduxiaoshideyigebiaoshi，duiyushiebiandehuanshilianghaode，bixushenzhongfenbian，buranfeichangrongyihuidaozhibijiaoyanzhongdebuliangyingxiang。poxiguanxizenmegoutonghao?