女人如何在婚姻中有主动权，就看御夫有术这几招

 youhuajiushuo，meiyounanshengpalaopo。keshishijizhongzongyouderenkeyilaogongguandefufutietiede，neimayufudaxuewenjiujingyouduonandongni，jiexiaqujiaodahuoeryufuyoushudejige。

一、女人怎样在婚姻生活中有主导权，全看御夫有术这几个

1、适度表述你的心

 younajianvren，buqidainanshengshishikekebukanzhongheshandaiziji。shijishang，nanshengdoushiyiyangde，jibianshinianqingpazhong、biaomianlengdandenansheng，tamendeneixindoushihenqipanneiyangdekanzhongde。yinci，congmingnvrenyidingyaozairichangshenghuozhongmingbaishidudexiangnanshengbiaoshunishenmaizaixinlidezheifenai，zaishihedeneishihouyidingyaobatajiqingdezhuyaobiaoxianheshifangchu。neiyang，jibianshizaibujiefengqingdounansheng，doushibeinichudongleni

2、zhanxiannvrenqizhi，tiexinkandainansheng

 rujindenansheng，jingchangdoushiyichuangdanggongzuoweishenghuozhongxindian，pingchangzongjiehuishifendemang，feichangshaoyoushijianpeizishendenvren。zheiyineishihou，nvrenjiuhuibiequmaiyuan，juedezishenbuhuishoudaonanshengdekanzhong。shishishang，renmendemaiyuanzongshiweihaiqinggan，renmenzuyizhuyaobiaoxiandetiexinyidian，yongnidewenrourangnanshengtiefuni。dangtagongzuozhongdaotaiwan，renmennenggouweitanieniejian、chuichuitui，zaishenhoulanzhunanshengdeyao，zaitadeerpangshuonibixuta，neiyang，najiananshengwudongyuzhongni。

3、做个积极的女人

 yibanxuduonvrenzaiqingganshangquanshihenbeidongjinengde，dengdainanshengzishensuoyao。jibianshizishenneixinhenyuanyi，danyeburongyijijiqubiaoshu。shishishang，dajiadeshenghuoyejiurulixinggongshibanmeishenmereqing。congmingnvren，yidingyaoxiangfangfajijiqudiaozhuannanshengdejiqing，shidudejitamenyixieyiwaijingxihechuangyi。lanmanreqingde“xingfushenghuo”shenghuo，lianggerendeqingganyejiuhuiyulaiyunianhu，fengfuduocai。

二、御夫大学问，掩藏哪些思想境界

 xiangyaozuo“qiguanyan”denansheng，dabufenshichuziyuqingyi。eryuanyibalaogongguandefufutietiedenvren，yedekaolvdaolaogongkenbukenchizishenzheiyitao，youyumeigerenyouzishenderengeleixing。

1、开朗型人格

 juyouzheileirengeleixingdelaogong，xiantianxingjiubatarendezanyangdangzuorenshengdaoludequdongli。tamendaduoshuzixiaojiumeilitaiyang、renguaizuitian，yiqiugenjuzishendeyantanjuzhidedaotarendaliangdechengzan。yinci，xifumenzhibixuba“tingzishendehua”zhuanhuacheng“youxiuyangdeshenshi”，zheizhongrengedelaogonghuiyufaganjuexiangyong。shuobaile，niyueba“laogongnizhenbang”guazaizuishang，tamenganjiawuyuemeng。

2、归属感型人格

 yiqiedouxiaitarendeshouhou，zaixiajueceshijingchangyouyubuding，tashiguishuganxingrengezuixianzhudexingweibiaoxian。yincibajuyouzheileirengeleixingdelaogongdadaozhi“qiguanyan”，benzhibuhaonaxiechuihuizhili，niqiuzhetamenduini“dananzizhuyi”doubuhao。

3、操纵型人格

 jincongziyi，jiunengtihuidaojuyouzheileirengeleixingderenyushengjulaidebaqicelou。zaitamendecidianli，jihumeiyou“beiguiding”deziyang。yuanyiduitamenbiaoshuchuzishendejianjie，nishixuanyonglejiexingdefangfa，liejuhouxuanxuanzexiangrangtamentiaoxuan。yuanyibatamenguanlifangfadefufutietie？jiaruhaixiangbidingdiguoshenghuo，jinzaoduanzheixiangfa。