经营婚姻：给婚姻生活保鲜的3个秘籍

 “tianmanreqingdezhenzhengdeaiqingyuwang、jidong、qiteheshenmide，tachanshengzainannvguanxidegangkaishi，”《jianyi5bujinidehunyinshenghuoconggooddaogreat》yishudechuangzuozheorbuchshuo，“junzhilaijiang，reqingdeganqingtongchangzai18yuehoujiugangkaishijiangre。”

1、yunideairengangkaishiyixiangxinzhutihuodong

 yibianzhongxindianrandajiadeguanlian，dajianenggouxiaofangdajiadediyiciyuehui，orbuchshuo。neiyangzuodeyigefangshi shiyunideairenkaizhanyixiangxindezhutihuodonghuoshigerenaihao。“heairenzuoyixiexinqidezhutihuodongnenggoushidajiazaiciganshouchuliannvyoushideneileizuikaishidexintaiqingkuang。”

 huanjuhua，jiushishuoshizheyixienenggourangliangrenbengshejidonghuomiaodexinshengshiwu，bingcongerzaochengreqing。conghaidishenqiandaotiaojiaoyiwu，congyiqichunyoudengshandaoquyijiabuyiyangdecanyindianyongcan，shenmedoukeyi。

2、tianjiashenmihuoshiyiwaijingxideyuansu

 shenmiheyiwaijingxi，shijishangdoushixiaofangyiduanxindeweimeiaiqingdexintaiganshou。danzheibingbudengyunihuranjiangnidenvrensongdaoboluodehai，huoshirangnidelaogongfengshangyizhangshang1000yuandejiucaimenpiaofei，tahuijingyadaozhangkoujieshe。

 shijishang，yixiexiaoxiaobiaodajiuhuijinizuodaozheiyimudi。orbuchjilehaoduogetiyi，lirujiaruniyaojiyijinggongzuodelaopoyigeyiwaijingxi，ninenghuranmaochu，bingyaoyuetayiqiquchiwufan，huoshinihaikeyiyongyouxiangjitafayizhangtianmeideshengrika。

3、zuoyixiecijixingdajiadeshenshangxianjisuhejidongdudeshier

 qianqidelianqingguanliangangkaishiyuyiguzhuangkuobenyongdeshenshangxianjisu。nidexinlvjiakuai，yuelaiyueyixiechangranruoshi，nijijing、jingtieryoujidong。“kexueyanjiushuoming，yinshenshangxianjisusuozaochengdecijixinghetisheng(arousal)deshehuizhengnengliangnenggouchuansongrangnidelingyibanhedajiadefuqiguanxi，”orbuchshuo。

 zaochengcijixinghejidongdezhutihuodongnenggoushijianshenyundong，“lirulaiyicimengliedetubulvyou，zuoyihuichuizhiguoshanche，huoshicongchengfeijigaokongtiaosan”，yizhiyuhaikeyishikanyichangjingsongdianying。zheiyoudianerhaoxiang“yongyiwaijingxiqixiniderennao，zheileiyoujingsongdianying(huoshiyiqiebiedecijizhutihuodong)zaochengdecijixinghetishengshijishanggengshidajiadeguanliansuoquefade”，zheiyouliyugouqidajialiangrenzhongjiandereqing。

 yigeaizhelaogongdelaopoqianquxiangorbuchzixunhunyinshenghuoqianquereqinghejidongdenanti。orbuchtiyilianggerenyiqizaijiazhongzuodayundongqiangdudeduanlian。yincitamenmailaiyitaituoyuanjihejigegangling。zhiyongleyigelibai，tamenjiuzaiduanliandangzhongyuelaiyueqinmiwujianqilai。laopozhihougaozhiorbuch，taduizishenderentijuedexuduole，rutonghuanqileyigequanxinshengjidezishen，duitaeryanneijiushi“shideyizhou”。