经营婚姻，重要是懂得“掌握中尺度”

怎么 经营婚姻 ?一提及婚姻生活，许多人会想到到那句“婚姻生活是感情的墓葬”。但我认为，婚姻生活，针对不肯努力的人而言是墓葬，而针对懂得爱的含义的人而言，是爱的游乐园。

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disan，bashijianyongzaileyoulixinshendeshier。zuojiawulaodongsuohaofeideshijian，tongchangshiyiqianyonglaixiyan、yinjiu、dayouxideshijian，yinci，burongyizaiyongmeikongjianshenyundongweiyouhuijue。

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