如何经营婚姻？维系长期性关联的方式

怎么 经营婚姻 ?是多少婚姻爱情前期真真切切，很有石烂的趋势，可历经一段时间后，由于各种矛盾，造成了各式各样的矛盾争议，最后造成婚姻破裂，缺憾收尾。

shuodaodi，zheiyouyuqinglvfufumen，meiyoubawoweixizhangqixingguanliandefangshi 。liangzhezhijianzaisangshihoucaihouhuimoji，bibushanggankuaigenxiaomaijiaoshilaixuexipeixunruheweixizhangqixingguanlianba。zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmechuli?

一、夯实基础长期性关联小窍门

1.不必埋怨

fumianqingxushinengganrande，dangniyitiandaowanmaiyuanbanlv，duitawanbankanbushang，tazongshitihuidaonimanhuaidehuaixintai。maiyuanshishishangyizhongruanruo、taobizerendefangfa，feichangrongyirangbanlvsilexin。

2.回绝冷战

lengzhanshiwuyindebaoli，xuduorenganjuezainantichanshengyihou，lengzhannengrangdahuoerpingjingxialaidulisikao。shubuzhilengzhanbingbushikeyong，maodunzaochengdeneishihou，gengbixuxianghukaizhanyouxiaodegoutong，laijiejuekunnan。lengzhanyidanshijianzhangle，qingganyehuikuaisulengmochulai。

3.擅于聆听

suoyourenzongyouyixiekunaoyihuo，jiarunikeyidangdanyigedabiaodelingtinglingyiban，jiushishuoduibanlvjiaodadejilijianrong。buguantashixiangnigongxiangqudechenggong，huanshishushuojiaolv，nibixuxixinxixindilingting，bingbushishuoyidingxiangyaonijitamenjingquejutizhidao。niyaoshipeizaitashenbian，jiuchongzule。

二、维持感情均衡

yaoxiangweichiganqingjunhengdeqingkuang，jiudeshengchanzhizaodaliangjiaoji，cushiqingganzhujianlaogu。jiaojifenchengerzhong：ziyuanjiaojiheganqingjiaoji。

ziyuanjiaotuantirujinhuaxuewuzhicengmian，qingganguanlianyuezhang，ziyuanjiaojihuidaliang，liruqiancai、jiazhong、penyoubansuizheziyuanjiaojitigao，tichufenshouchengbenfeiyejiejiepansheng。yaoxiangtishengziyuanjiaoji，nenggouduogongxiangxianghudeyishizhuxingheshejiaomeitiweixinpengyouquan，zaizhangwolingyifangdelingwai，yiqiyouzhewufafangqideshiqing，biruxiaohai、xiaochongwu、fangdichan。

ganqingjiaojigengjiafanza，yeshidaliangdefangshi fangfa：

1.造就相互追忆

 youyigeyishishishuolaonianfuqijiububikaolvdaolanmanzheihuishile，tashichedibuzhengquede，buguanzailianqinghuanshihunyinshenghuozhong，lianaideganjueshishifenguanjiande，ganqingbingbushiheyibaigexinxianderenzuoyiyangdeshi，zhishiheyigexinyiderenzuoyibaijianxinxiandeshi。

duozairichangshenghuozhongwajuequanxinkuaile，zaojiuxianghudexianghuzhuiyi，jipingdandeshenghuotianshangfengfuduocaiyanse。

2.chuangjianjianglaidexianghuyugu

yaoxiangzhangqizouxialai，jiuwubijiangxianghuzhengtiguihuajinzishendejianglai，duibinanshilaijiang，nvshigengzhuzhongjianglai，ganqingqianqidecijixing，huiyibubuwangkeguanfangmianrongru。

3.无思想负担

xuduorenyaopingjiezishendexingweiguifan，weibanlvzhidingleyixilieyaoqiu，liruwubiyelijiudianqianhuijiale，bukeyitaichirushuideng，zheizhongshiduoshaohuijilingyifangchanshengxintaiyali。ninenggenlingyifangshangyiyigebiaozhun，danbukeyiyizhipingzishendeniantouquganshelingyifangdegerenxingwei。poxiguanxizenmechuli?