婚姻里情商高的夫妇，从不会跟另一方说这三句话

怎么 经营婚姻 ?许多人觉得，夫妇结婚了即便是家人，两个人相互之间帮扶，携手并肩度过一个此生，以至于是父母，也没有那么亲密无间。

 keguigenjiedi，fufubingfeizhenshidejiaren，meiyouqinshuguanxi，yejiumeifazuodaobuguanchanshengquandouxiangbandaolao。hefumuzhongjianzairuhezhengzhi，qixuexiangchengdezhenqingqueshiruheyesheqibuchude，erlianggerenzhongjianhuodehaoleile，keyitiaoxuanliyi，xiangwangyujianghu。

 yiner，hunyinkanqilaijiangu，shijishangqueshifenmingan。youyuhunyinyoujiexian，yidanchaochuzheiyijiexian，hunyinzheizuomotiandashayejiuzaoyutantadefengxianxing。zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmechuli?

yinci，hunyinguanxizaiduo，zheisanjuhuahaiyaolanzaiduli，buranhuijidajiadehunyindaozhiyongjiuxingdesunhai!

一、“要不是由于小孩，我早跟你离了婚”

 xuduorendaozhengchaodeneishihou，douxihuanbaxiaohaibanchueryanshi。feichangshixuduoneishihoufufubicidoulejie，neiyangdefenqishenggaobushangliyidegaokuanbi，keshiyibianxuanxienuhuo，jiuyaoshuo：“yaobushixiaohaiwozaoyigennililehun!”

 zheihuadexianwaizhiyinjiushishuo：niwozhijianzaoyimeiyouqingganle，jinjinweilebaobao，caiqianxinwankujianchibuxiede，shiwoyizhizaishouqi，jiububitandewuyanle。

tingjianzheiyangdehua，lingyifangruhejianghuibashou，bidingyeshiyichangmengliedezhengzhi。

 bingqie，zheiyangdehuaruguobeixiaohaitingjianle，yehuiduitanianyoudeneixindaozhitingdadesunhai。xuduoxiaohaizhangdaleyihoubuzixinquefaanquangan，jiushishuoyouyuershijingchangbeifumuyonglai“dangqiang”。

 shijishang，zheiyangdehuachunsuishishangrendehua，duijiejuekunnanzhinenghuoshangjiayoudegongxiao。yibianchengyishizhikuai，quedaozhilewufatianbudesunhai，youyounaxieshijiyiyini?

二、“你看看他人，你再看一下你”

 youdenvrenshifenxiaihepenyoujiaowei，zhiqianbiyifukuzihufupin，hunhoujiugangkaishibizhangfu。jiandaotarenzaiweixinpengyouquanshaiyijiarendedujialvyou，zaifanyingtoukanxinshuiyibandezhangfu，jiuyeshilingyifanziweile，“nikankantarenzaikanyixiani”zheihuafeichangrongyijiujiangchulekou。

budansunhailezhangfudexurongxin，lianggerenzhongjianyexincunkongxile。

yiyang，nanshengyexiaijiaowei，bizhaolaopodewenrouxianshu、tongqingdali，yizhiyushiwaiguanshejishenxing、chuanyifenggechuanzhedaban。

 woshenpangjiuhuiyouxuduopenyouduixifushuo“nikankantarenzaikanyixiani，yitiandaowanbanzheliande，hemulaohuyiyang”，huoshi“nikankantarenzaikanyixiani，zazahuhude，peinichulaiwohaixiandiulian”。huoxu，zheizhongnanshengzuizhongdexiachang，doubudahao。

 hunyinzhongzuibihuibizhao，wulunshibizhaoxingfukuaile，huanshibizhaobuxingfukuaile。youyurenquanshiyouxurongxinde，suoyourendoumeifashiquanshimei，hekuangshiyiduanqinggan。yiner，yaoshishibizhao，jiuhuizaochengsunhai。

 bingqie，zheihuazhongliuluchulaideshinongnongdekanbushang，shifenzhisi。yaorenkezishenbibushangtaren，benjiushishuoyijianfanxinshi，hekuanghuanshineiyangzhijie、yizhenjianxuedeyanyu。fufuyiti，hekuyongzheiyangdehua，zhisishangji?

三、“你爱如何想就如何想吧，我见到就烦”

 wodeyigepenyouxiaoxinjiushishuoyigeaiminganduoyidenvren，jianghuiyoudeneishihouzhangfuheqitanvrenzaiduoyijuhua，tajiunengcaijidabantian。

 pianyaotadezhangfuyeshiyige“zhinanshuaige”，bumingbaihongren。meiyicixiaoxindezhiyidoushirangzhangfuganjuebubeixinlai，yuanbennenggouhaohaodishuodeyijianxiaoshidoushizhuanbianchengqiangliedezhengzhi。

chaodaozuizhongzhangfujiurengxianeiyangyijuhua“niairuhexiangjiuruhexiang，wojiandaojiufan”，suihoushuaimenerqu。

 lianbiaoshudexixinyemeiyou，rutongmengdeyiquan，quedazaileruanhuhudemianxushang。quanbudebiequnanyixuanxie，jiuyanhualenongnongdenuhuo。jishaochengduoduole，lianggerenyejiulilehun。

 shijishang，fuqijianzaisuonanmianzaochengyixiewujie，yaoshilianggerennengningjingdigoutongjiaoliugoutongjiaoliu，zaidadenantidoukeyijiejue。padejiushichuzheiyangdehua，balingyifangjuzhimenwai，ranglianggerendefenqiyulaiyushen，zuizhongzaochenghunyindeliekai。

 yinci，jibianshiqinmiwujiandefufu，haiyaolejieyixiehuashizhongbukeyishuochukouchu，huoshinihaikeyihuanyizhongdahuoerdounengjienadefangfa，meiyoubixuyibianyixiesuoshi，baibaidesunhuailelianggerenzhongjiandeqinggan。

 hunyinshibixuyunyingde，zuiguanjiandeyidian，jiushishuoyaoxianghulijiehezhongshi，yincizheisanjuhuaqianwanbieshuochukouchu。poxiguanxizenmechuli?