分辨婚姻生活幸不幸福快乐，看有木有出現这3个难题

怎么 经营婚姻 ?有许多夫妇，都会感觉婚后全都无需做就能获得幸福快乐，可是为何有些人会感觉累，然而有的却感觉真幸福，它是怎么回事?

 xuduoneishihou，panduanyigerendehunyinshenghuoxingbuxingfukuaile，tongchangshikantamendeganqingyoumuyouzheijidianbuzhengque，tongchangzaiganqinglifanlezheihaoduogebuzhengque，jiuhuijiniganqingyuelaiyuebuzuxiangxi。zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmechuli?

danghunyinshenghuochuxianzheijileinantideneishihou，zabanni?

一、过多的独占欲

dangganqingtaruhunyinshenghuozhong，dabufendenvshengjiuhuitiaoxuanduinannvshuangfangcaiyongyangekongzhideduice，liru：

 nvshengyaomeiguojixiaoshidayicidianhuajinansheng，tahuihuibaozaiganshenme，yizhiyuhaiguidinglingyifang，tongdianhuadeneishihou，wubideting，faxinxideneishihou，wubiyaolikehui;jiusuanshifenshouzhihou，nvshengyehuixiaiduanxiaoxikuanghongluanzha。

 yinanshengwangridefuwuchengnuozuoweixie，binanrenweizishenzuoshier。jinguanshuonvshengxiantianxingmeiyouanquangan，xiaiqucaozongnansheng，guidinglingyifangzuozuixihuandeshier。

 keshinanshengxiantianxingtianmanmaoxianjingqishen、aiziyou，dangtamendesuiyizaoshoucaozongdeneishihou，tamenjiuhuizaochengyizhongyanjuangan，jianghuizaiqianqi，lingyifanghaihuiweileaieryayiganzhuzishendeweiman。

zhengshuobailezhibaobuzhuhuo，nigengshibeiyapo，lingyifangjiugengshixiangyao，tayueduoxiangziyougaofei。

 yinci，bubiguoduodebeiyapocaozonglingyifang，huansheidounanshou，aitajiuxinlaita，erbingbushiyizhiyishizhuxingzaicaiyizhizhong，neibanbicidoushitinglei。

二、谁都不服谁

dangliangrenzaishenghuozhong，yizhiyibianzhupisuannideshierchanshengzhengzhi。

 bicidexingqingdoushifendeyaoqiang，sheidoubufushei，yizhiyaofenchushengfu，jianghuizaidajiareliandeneishihou，zhengchaodoushiganjueshidadanaonaodezhuyaobiaoxian。

keshidangdajiadeganqingjindaodaofaweiqideneishihou，zhengzhidepinciyuelaiyueyuduo，jiuburongyizaizhaoliaolingyifangdexintaile。

dabufenzaiganqinglifenlichulaishuyingdeganqing，dabufenyemeiyouhaodejieguo，youyunidayinglelingyifang，niyeshiquganqing。

三、喜爱冷战，回绝沟通

 liangrenzaiyiqideneishihou，namianjiuhuizaochengyidianxiaofenqi、xiaomoca，keshidajiayizhihuiyouyuzhupisuannideshiererzhengchaodeneishihou，jiuhuiranglingyifangganjuenihenwuqu，youdianermanbujiangli，jianjiandidejiuhuisangshiquanbudexixin。

 raneryoudenvshenghaixiaichanshengzhengzhihou，meiqujiejuekunnan，zhishitiaoxuanlengzhanhuoshijianmoqujiejue。benlaineixinyouxuduoxiangshuodehua，danjiushishuobuxiangyaojijiniuzhuanjumian，jiushishuoyaodengdailingyifangxianjijichengrencuowu。

 keshidabufendezhuangkuangqueshi“nilengzhanyinweiwolengzhan”，dahuoersheidoumeilishei，bicidouganjuelingyifangyouwu，sheiyebujijidizhetou。

 zuizhongzongshizaochengxianghudexintaizhuangtaizaochengxuduocaiyiheniantou，bicidejianyiyulaiyuhebulai，fenqiyehuiyulaiyushen，gengweiwufadiaohe。

 keshi，xuduoneishihounikeyigaoqingchuhuajiemaodunyouxiaodefangfajiushishuogoutong，wobugoutong，nishizhongfajuebushangnantidesuoshu。

 yiduanhaodeganqingshibixubicidegoutonghegoutongjiaoliulaizhubuwanshande，zhinenggenjugoutongjiaoliu，xianghucaikeyishencengcidezhangwolingyifang，biandeyuelaiyueyouxinyoulingxi。

 ganqingyuanbenjiubushiyigerendeshier，jiarumouyifangbuxiangyaogoutong、buxiangyaoxianglingyifangbiaoluxinlihua，doubuxiangyaobiaoshuzishendeniantou，nijiuhuirangzheiyiduanguanlianjiaowangdeshifendelei，bicizhijianyenannengkeguiyougongmingdian。

dangganqingmeiyougongmingdian，shijishangyejiumeilemeili，meiyoumeilideganqingjiuhuizhujianyuelaiyuekuzaowuwei。

 yaoqingximeiyiduanganqing，dabufendeneishihoushicuowudengde，yizhiyaoyouyifangnulideduoyidian，bulunshishijian、qiancaihuanshihuolizheixie。

 danshijiarushijianjiule，tafajuedenulifenhaomeiyouhuodeyidianshouyi，xinlihuiyouyizhongpilaogan，yizhiyugangkaishicaiyizishenxubuxuyaogenniyizhizaiyiqi，xubuxuyaochixudeyongzishenderelianqutienidelengtunbu。

 dabufendeganqingzoubushangzuizhong，doulaiyuanyudajiabuzhengquedejiaowangfangfa，rangbenlaibuneimaleideganqingyueyanyuelei。poxiguanxizenmechuli?