婚姻出現危機，一直谈不来?学会这3个流程!

怎么 经营婚姻 ?在感情里，大家都没法防止产生矛盾和争执，有时出現少少的冲突和矛盾并不容易损害到相互的感情，真实损害到感情的不是正当性的解决方式。

yibanchuxiandechongtufenchengzheihaoduogezhonglei：zenmejingyinghunyin?poxiguanxizenmechuli?

一、因为家庭氛围造成的冲突

zuixianrenmenyinweijiatingfenweierzaochengdechongtu。shijishang，zheiyinanti，zaigaiguoshifendepubianhebijiaoyanzhong，youyuxuduoneishihou，biciwanhunbingfeidandanshiliangrenderonghe。

tongchangxuduoneishihoushouzhechuantongshideyishisuoweihai，renmenzheidairenfumudoushiyouzhezhangkongyu，yibanzhenduizishenchengcaidequanguocheng，tongchanghuibuzuzhangwohejianquan。

youyushangyidaideren，xinyangzhexiaohaibuguaijiuda，dajinguaiyijing，tamenhuiduiernvdelianqinghehunyinshenghuoquanguochengduofangmianganshe。

liruyixieneishihou，yitingjianfumuduiairenyoujianyiyizhiyubuyunxudajiazaiyiqideneishihou，tongchanghuishouzuwucuo，jiuhuicaiyongyizhongbuzhengquedefangshi，jiulirulijigaozhilingyifang，shuonidefumuduitayoujianyi。

shijishangneiyangdezuofashibuzhengquede，youyuxuduoneishihou，nibixushiyanderenwujiaosebingbushixuanchuanzhe，zhishijiuhuozhe，jianyideeryannibubiqusanbonanti，nikeyixuehuiqujiejuekunnan。

qianwanbiezainantishanghuoshangjiayou，youyudangnidefumuduinideairenyoujianyi，tajianghuizongshizhuyaobiaoxiandeyuyuguahuan，danjiarushinilaisanbozheiyixinxineirongjilingyifangdehua，neimalingyifangjiuhuiganjueyihuoqinao。

二、心态及其性造成的冲突

shijishang，zheileinantizaiganqinglishifendepubian，zhenduiqingganwentieryanshiyouweizhongyaode，liruxingnengdenanti，xuduoneishihouyouyunvshengxiuse、haixiudengyuangu，haipaqugenairenbiaoshunanti。

jianghuizailianqingdeneishihou，nvshenghuiyouyuxiusehaipaqubiaoshu，keshinikeyiqingxihunyinshenghuojiushishuoyibeizideshier，nimeiqubiaoshu，lingyifangshizhongbuqingchuyounaxienanti，yinciniyidingyaoxuehuiqubiaoshunanti。

yeyoudangnvshengnaopiqideneishihou，tongchanghuijilingyifangchanshengyizhongwuyuanwugudejuede，lirushangyimiaoliaodaoxiaomimide，erxiayimiaojiuhuiyouyumouyijuhuayuelaiyueyilianmanbuheiyun。

danglingyifangfajuenidechuxianyichangdeneishihou，tawennizenmele，tashuo：meiruhea、meishiera，shenmedoubuxiangyaoshuomingzishendeweiman，feidelingyifangcai。

xuduoneishihou，nanhaizibenzhicaibuchuqu，nvshengjiuhuizhiyilingyifang，yizhiyufagengdadexingzi，yinciruguoniqueshiduilingyifangyoujianyiheweimandeneishihou，yaoxuehuibiaoxianchulai。

三、经济发展工作压力造成的冲突

youguanjingjifazhangongzuoyalizaochengdechongtu，tiyifuqizhijianyaoxuehuiquzuozhang，youyuxuduoneishihou，ganqingchuxianjinrongweiji，tongchangquanshimeiyoutouzilicaidingyishuozaochengde，yidingyaoxuehuiweizijizuofeiyongyusuankaizhi。

erbingbushimeinaozidefengkuanggouwu，youshiruguoniganjuemoushiwufeichanghaodeneishihoujiuhuitiaoxuanfengkuanggouwu，danruguonimaihuiquhoufajuebaojiwupin，shijishangbingfeibibukeshaode，yizhiyushimeishenmeyongdewupin。

xuehuizuozhang，shijishangzhenduijingjifazhanheganqingchangyoutingdadexiezhu，ruguonizaizuozhangyihou，jiuhuilejiezishenhualeshiduoshaobaihuaqian，huoxuyekeyilejielingyifanghualeshiduoshaobaihuaqian。

neimarenmenpengdaochongtudeneishihou，zabanni?

pengdaozheizhongchongtudeneishihou，yingdanghuaizhesuzhansujuedexintaizhuangtaiqubajiejuewentidiao。jiejuekunnandefangshi，youzhei3geliucheng：

1、以诚相待去剖析难题

dangdajiademaodunzaoyijiqidebaifangzaitaibiaomianjiangle，dajiajiudexuehuiqupouxinanti，suihouquchuli，youyujiarumaodunbingbuda，lingyifangyeburongyitiaoxuanbamaodunjigongkaitouming。

neimazaitantaozheiyinantideneishihou，yidingyaoliuyiyidian，jiushishuobubibanantijifanza、waikuosanhua，yidingyaozaitantaonantidefanweizhinei，erbingbushibamaodunwaikuosan。

youyuyouxierenchaozhechaozhe，jiuhuifeichangrongyibaliangnianqianyixiebushiqinglachuquzaijiangyici，dangdajiabicidoubanantiwaikuosanhou，jiuhuifajuehaoxiangzheiyiganqingquanshibuzhengquede。

youyudangdajiaguanlianbutaihaodeneishihou，zhiqianquanbudebutaihaonenggoubianchengjingongdezhuanyonggongju，yinciyidingyaofangzhizheiyangdeshiqing。

dangniqutantaoshierdeneishihou，renmenyaojilaoyigefangfa：xuehuiyingyongqiadangdekaiju，youxierenyizhangkoujiuzaoyigangkaishizhiyilingyifang。

jiarunishiqueshixiangjiejuekunnande，neimajiuhuixuehuiquyongwanzhuanfanmiandefangfa，qumiaoshunidenanti。

2、求同存异

dangnitantaonantishi，douhuichuxianjianyihebulai，neizheiyineishihou，renmenyaoxuehuijibenjianshezishendexintaizhuangtai。

shijishangzaibicidouxintaixingfendeneishihou，yaoxuehui“fenbieliquzaijiehe”。

youyudangdajiachuzaizheileixianghuzhijianganqidezhuangkuangjiufeichangfeichangrongyichuxiannanti，dangdajiabicidoushangbianhou，jiuhuifeichangrongyibeixintaisuocaozong，zuochuyixiewubisunhaiganqingqiebulixingdegerenxingwei。

zheiyineishihou，renmenjiubixuxianfenliyihui，rangbicidoupingjingxialai，zaiquzaicitantaonanti。

huoxu，renmenzailizhidezheiyiduanshijian，bazishendexintaizhuangtaijiancheng，xuehuiqufuweizishenhefuweilingyifang，zuishaonikeyitanbai，wohaizaiguanxinni，wohaizaijijiguanzhunidetihui，renmenyouguoxianghudekuaileshiguang。

3、达到让步

xuduoshier，bingbushiquanshibunengrangbude，youxierenjiuyaoshuo“wozuobudao，qishiwoshibujijifushu”。

shijishangxuduoneishihou，nikeyigaoqingchuliangrenzaiyiqi，meishenmewupinshiwanquanzhengquede、chedibuzhengquede。

changyandao，qingguannanduanjiawuhuo。ganqingmeiyoujueduidedui，doumeiyoujueduidecuo。

bulunshinirangbule，huanshitarangbule，shijishangjieguoquanshiyiyangde。

guigenjiedi，jiejuekunnanyaoxuehuiyongquanjuguannianqupouxinanti，bubiyizhidanxinzaideduiyucuodeshiershangshechilangfeiguoduoshijian，nikeyigaoqingchuguanjiandeshidajialianghaikeyibukeyihaohaoguo，zheicaisuanshizuiguanjiande。poxiguanxizenmechuli?