认为那样是爱他?9件事是在自毁婚姻生活

夫妻之间 怎么相处?多女人一直觉得，结了婚丈夫是我的专享，容许我做一切差遣，丈夫要時刻都会我的眼皮子下边。事实上那样做的結果通常会获得男人的抵抗……爱取决于挑选，更取决于用心维护保养。女人在祈祷幸福快乐感情的那时候，更必须查验自身的个人行为。爱只能给与最该最爱的人，而不一定是期盼最爱的人!

1、将男人拴在裤带上

nvrenhenanrenwanhunbingbushibiaodananrenxiwangsangshisuiyi。fanguolai，nanrenxiwangjiashixiexidehaigang，xiwangzaizishenpijuandeneishihounenggouzaicixiexiyixia。meiyouyigenanrenxiwangzaijiazhongshizhongqingjingdiyishizhuxingxialai。nanrendebenxingshichuangshijie，zaichengbashijiedequanguochengzhongxunzhaozuonanrendedejuede。xuduonvrenduinanrendezhutihuodongyanjiaganyu，nongdenanrenwulukezou。

2、善待自己的男人，恨男人的家人

jinguannanrenzaijiarendezhufushengzhonghenvrenzourulewanhundeshengdian，keshinanrenshizhongburongyiwangdiaoyangyutadeciwaiyigenvren。xuduonvrenjuedehenanrenjielehun，nanrenjiuyingdangshizishende，tashicuodale。xuduonvrenyuzishennanrendemamahejiejiejiaozhuganqing，yincikaiyanshangqiannianbuhuigaibiandepoxidazhan，nongdenanrentongkuwanfen。

3、认为把握了男人钱，就能操纵男人心

nvrenfangfoxiantianxingduiqianhenganxingqu。nvrenpananrenzaiwaibianzhaoqingrentashihenyiqiezhengchangdezhuangkuang，keshinvrenrenweicaozonglenanrendeqianbaojiunengcaozongnanrendegerenxingwei，yicicaozongnanrenzhinengshiyigelixiang。nanrenruguoxiangzangdiansifangqianshifeichangjiandandeshier，nvrendekoufeizhinengtishengnanrendedichu。

4、像特工一样窥视男人的隐私

yiqieyigerenchangyouzishendeyinsibaohu，neifenyinzangdemimibushixiwangbeisuoyourenfajuede。xuduonvrenxiangfangshefaditantingnanrenshibushiheqianrennvyouwanglai，duinanrendeyouxiang、dianhua、duanxiaoxibuduankuishi。youshihoufajueyidiannantibuduanbiwen，yizhijiangnanrenbishangqiangjiao，feidetichugezichouyinmaolaibuneng，nanrenzaizheiyineishihouxiangyigezuifan。yixiechuguinanrenjiuzheiyangdaozhide。

5、认为男人是参天大树，嫁个男人就能够万事如意

rujinyouxuduonvrenxiwangzhaogehaolaogong，xiwangneiyangnenggouguozhejinyiyushi、fanlaizhangkouyilaishenshoudeyishizhuxing。shijishangduibukeyidulidenvrenlai，bansuizheqingchunnianshaoliuzou，nanrenaihaohexingyuhuijijuxiajiang，sangshichongnidegailvyulaiyuda。

6、将男人视作自身的孩子

zaiganqingdetianpingshang，nvrenhenanrenshigongpingde。keshixuduonvrenduinanrenyanjiaganyu，youshihouxiangguanhaiziyiyangguanlifangfananrenheguidingnanren。zheizaiyidingshuipingshangshiduinanrenrendebenxingdemiaoshi。

congciwaiyigeshijiaokanlaidequeshinvrendexintaiyoubijiaoyanzhongdenanti。nanrenbixuguanhuai，dannanrengengbixuzhongshi，nanrenmeiyouyikewangdiaozishendezizun。dajiachangshuonanzihandanxiyoujinzijiushishuozheiyidadaoli。nvrenwubishizishendenanrenweinanren，jinanrenxuyoudezhongshihezizun，zheibudanshiaideguiding，yeshirendebenxingdeguiding。

7、管不了自身的嘴，丈夫变成自身泄愤的设备

sangenvrenyitaixi，nvrenduodediqushishifeifeiduo。zheizhongqingkuangbiaomingnvrendezuishifeichangrongyireshishengfeide。nvrenbukeyiyouyuzishenxintaizhuanbianhuoshimeiyoufaxiedediqujiunazishendenanrenxiefen，neiyangzhinengtishengnanrendedichu。jinguannanrenyouzerenkuanweizishendenvren，keshibubidexiefenzhinengtulaowuyi。zaitongchudeneishihou，nvrendeyanleibinvrendezuihaoxiebaibei，zuyiyongleishuilaizaochengnanrendelianmin?

8、一千次质问丈夫有多爱自身

 nvrenxiaitingnanrenshuo“woxihuanni”。keshinanrenbiaoshuaidefangshibingbushinvrenjingchangxiwangdeneiban。yinciyixienvrenzainanrenyanqianqianjiaobaimei，xiwangnanrennengjiangchuzheihua，yixienvrenyizhiyuposhinanrenshuozheihua，nanrenyoushihoujianzhitongchudi、weibeiliangxindijiangchu“woxihuanni”，keshijingshenshijieshizaishuo“wohensini，nikusiwola!”

9、不留意维护自身身型的密秘，太过暴露的肉身

nvrendeshentishixiyinzhunanrendejiaodabaowu。rujinxuduonvrenxiangfangshefatishengzijidexiongbudegaokuanbi，tishengxionggoudeshenceng。keshizaijiazhongdeneishihou，xuduonvrenduizishenderentiyebutailiuyi。shijishangtashiyigenvrendetiandecuowuguannian，nvrenzaiwaibianxianshixinxiyoumeideshenxing，zhinengzhaolaihaowujiazhidefugou，keshizaijiazhongdequeshizhaolaizishendenanrendeshangxi。

 keshi，hunhouyoujigenvrennengbaozhengneiyang?xuduonvrenzaijiazhongchuandexianggejieshangmaishucaidelaodajie，nanrennengbudaoweikouma?zenmejingyinghunyin?