教你婚姻生活怎样越过七年之痒

婚姻生活 怎么过?第1年 享有快乐

 jiehunshirenshengdaoluzhongzuimeihaodeshike，quleneimekeaidenvren，niyoumeiyoushenmeqingxugao7nianfangan。yiguozheiyinianzailiaoba!xiangyong、jiewen、xingshenghuo。

第2年 制订家训

 hunyinzhongdenannvzongxiaiyongfenbiedeguifanguidinglingyifang，danlingrenfeijiedeshitamencongmeixiangguozhidingyigebicidouzhangwoherentongdelaoguiju，fenqiyegengshicongzheileihuxiangzhiqingrendeducaiyudouzhengzhongzaocheng。guoyouguofa，jiayoujiagui。zaiyigewenxindejiadangzhong，laoguijubingbudengyuxianding，zheishitixingbicidouliyingdanfudeyiwudixianheduishiqingdetongyanglejie。(hunyinshenghuozenmeguo?fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?

 yihunnanrenchangchanghuipengdaoneiyangdezhuangkuang，dangtazhizeqiziyixieshizuodebutaihaoshi，tahuoshimashangyiyizhongwuyuanwugudeyuanyinbianbonihuoshiduozaiyibiandishengchouqi，erdangtaqizixutaotashi，tayehuilikefanchunxiangji。zheileimaodunshijishangshuomingleshuangfangzaikandaitongyangshiqingshangcunyouxianzhudemaodun。

 weilefangzhizheizhongbenzhiduoyudefenqi，rangjianglaidehunyinkeyizaiyitiaojingranyouxudelumianshangqianjin，yihunnanrenwubibaochiqingxingdiguanniandaojiaxundeguanjianshijiyiyi。hunyindedi2nian，reqingzhihoudenibixumashangxiashoutongqizizhidingyitaoqieshikexing，bicirentongdejiazhongneibuguizhang。

家训內容理应包含：

1.fenbieyingdanfudejiazhongyiwu;

2.gerencaichandeyouxiaoyingyonghefenpai;

3.kandaiqinpenghaoyoudexintai;

第3年 确立房主

 yijiazhizhangdequelijuebushihukoubenshangdiyiyedejiaozhu，duimeiyigeyihunnanreneryan，tadaibiaozheyigejiazhongtizhiduiwaikaifangdeweirenchushixintaijiqifufubicizaiganqingshenghuozhongdeyikaoquxiang。wulunshini，haideqizi，mudiquanshiyaoranghunyinyouyigezuilaokaodechengzhongzhongzhizhong。shijihunyinzhongjingchangchuxiandutedefufuzhucongguanxi，zheileizhucongguanxibudanyiweizhelejuedabufenhunyindecunyoufangfa，yexianshixinxilejiazhongzhongquelifangzhudeguanjianxing。keshi，zheileizhucongguanxibukeyijianyidilejieweilesheilaiguandenanti。

 youyuyijuxianyoudesirenzhentanhuibao，hunyinzhongnannvdexingqingdaduoshuyaoyiyizhongxiangfuxiangchengdefangshichuxian，zheiyeweizhucongguanxidecunyouchushilekaopudejiben。shubuzhi，jiazhongzhongzhenshidezhucongguanxidechanshengbingfeizheibanlijidexiangfuxiangchengnenggousuibianchulide，tayiranbixushuangfanglijingyiduanshijiandexianghuyishizhuxing，congxianghulijiezhongxunzhaofenbiedebuwei。xinggewaixiang、yingyongdengbingfeiquelifangzhudeqiantitiaojian，guanjiansuozaisheikeyierqiexiangyaozishizhizhongdanfuyigejiazhongdezhongdazerenhuoshigaobuwandexiaoshi，sheizaiweirenchushixintaishanggenglizhigenglixing。fangzhudequelishishishangdoushiyizhongqinziguanxidequeli，shishuangfangbaochiwendingdeguanjianqiantitiaojian。

第4年 预定将来

 nvrendelanmancongbuhuiyouyunianjidetigaoershaoyouxuejian，yeburongyiyouyuhunyindexianshixingersheqi，jinvrenyigezhongzhangqidelixiangbingbuyidingnanshengnulinaxie，quenengrangtamenjuedexingfukuaile，lingwaiyekeyishitamengengbianyujienananshengdeguocuohenanshengduihunyingongqiupinghengdecunzaidebuzu。

 nvrenshilanmandexiaochongwu，tamenyexiguanxingzaixiangxiangdeyuncaishangpiaowu。dangnidehuolizijinhaiburongxunisuibianbaochinijinvrendefuwuchengnuo，nihebushizhexiangnidenvrengouleyixiaweilaidexingfuhongweilantu，rutongnidanshenshixiangtaxushuhunyanjiangshizaitailongzhong，tadehunshalifujiangshizaitaihaokan。ninenggaozhitaniyijingfanganyicijiangjin1yuede“ercimiyuelvxing”，gaozhitayinhunshinijiangbaolewangfufandiandezishuijingting，gaozhitanizhangxinzhihouzhaoyigexuetugonglaibangtajiawulaodong，neibantajiunengheniyiqizuozhedenghuoxiaxiangshoujiazhongyanhui……shenmedoukeyi，yaoshirangtajuedelanman，rangtajianxinmingtianhuigenghao。

第5年 自我认识

 lijing3、4niandeshenxindexili，nizaoyimeiliyoutuishuozishenbuzhangwohunyin。dangnidexiwanghaizhiyouzhiliuzainanxiudemaiyuandangzhong，niwubizaizheiyineishihoulejiezishen。nibingbushishaonianertong，zheiyiqieyebingbushierxi，jienazishenhuanshigengxingaizaozishennibixudechuyigehaowuyiwendecankaodaan。huoxuyebaohannidenvren。

 xianzaikaishiziwenyixieshijidenantile：shenmejiaomeimanhunyin?nijuedelixianghuadehunyinliyingbaohannaxie?nijinidehunyinganlenaxie?niduinidehunyinyoushenmebulingrenmanyi?nishibushiqinfenshinidehunyinbiandeyuelaiyuexingfukuaile?

第6年 加减乘除

 xingfukuaileyuanbenshimeifayongzhongchidulaikaoliangde，keshijiranhenduorangrenyichoumozhandenantinenggougenjuchuangzaoxingyunyongsuanshufangshi laijiayijiejue，xingfukuaileyezongyouleyuelaiyueyiyangshenmiaodechongzuyuanyin。shuodaoxingfukuaile，taguole6nianhunyindenijianghuihuikanqilaidaijuan，yizhiyuzaoyizaijiezhushibushidinian“ren”zilaizourujiamenkou。dannizaoma?xingfukuailecongbushibierendanchunxingdijiyu，yebutaikenengliudaobuqiushangjinderendeshenpang。nidehunyinchedinenggouxingfukuailediyanxuxiaqu，quehuoxudekesuxingersangshijijizhudongdequdongli。tangruonishiyixiayong“jiajianchengchu”defangfakandaihunyin，yexuninengzhangwohunyinshijishangshifenquwei。

 shuobaile“jingzhishenghuo”，zaimouzhongchengdushangdaibiaozuochuconghuidetiaoxuanhebixuderangbu。 ruguoniganle6nianjiawuhuodeqiziguidingnizuoxiejiawuhuoshi，huijuebingfeigehaofangshi 。nibibushangjiangxichuangdan，zhenglifangjianhuazaizishenhuxia，suihouqingzhongdiangonglaibangzhu。neibannijiquyueleqiziyoudanfuledaoyishangdeyiwu，fuchudaijiadanshishishaochoujipianyan。jiangwufajiejuedenantihuazhengweiling，fenbiechuli。hunyinzhongdenantibingbushiyiyuechansheng，yicichulidoubushiji。jiaruhunyinzhongnidanfudeyiwuduodejiniwujikeshi，hebucaiyonghukoubayadefangfajiayijiejue。

 meimanhunyinyinrenyousuobutongde，tongxiangxingfukuailedelumiandoubutongyang。tangruonizaoyudenantishilandai、kuzaohuogudu，genjujiafahechengfahuishouyiliangduo;tangruonizhengricongcongmangmang、shenxinpibei，zenenggouyongjianfahechufaduofangmiangaijin，zuiguanjiandeyidianshiyaotongyixingdongqilai。

第7年　MPI—婚姻发展潜力调查统计

 suiranzaoyiyiqiyishizhuxingle7nian，dannihuoxuhaibuqingchu。dajiahunyindejutiqingkuangliangzhezhijianyouwangzuodaodelixianghuaqingkuangzhongjianyirancunyouyigechabie。dangnikeyihelidikaifashejichuhunyinzhongqianzaixingdexingfukuailequdongli，nijiangyibuweirujindeqingkuangkunao。mpiyoujiaohunyinfazhanqianlidiaochatongji，zheishihunlianwentiquanweizhuanjiadaweihemeisichuangzaofamingde。

 yijutamenjin50niandehunyinkexueyanjiufajue，90%defufuzaijiatinghemucengmianyemeiyouchongfenfahuichuxuyoudefazhanqianli。zheilingwaishuomingjuedabufenfensuidehunyinquanshizhuyaoshiyinweigengshencengcidexianghulijiecaifendaoyangbiao。yinci，daweihemeisijingxincehualempi，xiezhuceliangjigaijinhunyindexianshiqingkuang。cixiangceshishifenjianyi，zhixufufubicifenbiejiuhunyinzhong10gejichucengmiandeqingkuangyijuzishendejuedezuochukeneng，gaochuchengji。

1.xianghudezongtimubiaohejiazhiquxiang;

2.weitigaofuqiguanxisuozuodeqinfen;

3.jiaoliusixiangdefangfa;

4.情感与了解;

5.quanjuxingdikandaifuqizhijiandemaodun;

6.duinannvduofanggangweizhizedeyizhiguandian;

7.qixinheli，jinmipeihe;

8.fuqishenghuodefengfu;

9.jinqiandeyingyongfenpei;

 10.wenhuajiaoyuernv(duimeiyouxiaohaidefufueryan，qujueyuruheduijialinantishangyi、jueding)。fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?