婚姻生活 怎么过?有些人婚姻生活好似墓葬,但假如能做些小更改,就能将这一墓葬变为乐园,不妨一试呢?
1.正确认识对家事有相互规范是可遇而不可求:
jiaruniyulingyibandui「zhengjie」dejiedingnengdachengyizhidedegongshi,neishishangyingdangmeiyounenggounanzhudajiadeshi。ruoniyeshiyizhouxiyicididannanyirenshoutuliyouxiufaderen,niwubilejierenyitiandiao50~60genxiufasuanyiqiezhengchang,ruguonihelingyibanzhunbeidaifangwumaoyiqiyishizhuxing,yaoburannijianghuidejijimeirixidi1~2ci。ruoniyeshineileijiandaobuxiugangshuicaoliyouzangwanpan、zhuozishucaizhayoujinenggouzhiruowangwenderen,nidexiangfangfatishengzijidehuanjingweishengshuiping。
2.假如另一半惹到你,我把他想成一个小小孩。
huoxuniganjuezheitingqilaihenmeiquanjuxing,dannijianghuiyinerfajuelingyifang「taorenxihuandeyimian」。xiayici,danglaoxianshengzaijiazhonghunhunee、yongshoujishangwanyouxishi,kuaixiangxiangtazhineng5sui,erbingbushiyigehaimeiyourenglaji、shuawan、liangyifudezhonglaonianfapangxiaohuo,jiuburongyiganjuetaneimekehen。dangtaitaimeiyousuishouguanmen,huoyoumailaijiageangguidexintaoguo、xinxieshi,wuluntahuadezheishibushinideqian,zainayishunjianbataxiangxiangchengwusuidexiaoguniang,ninengganjue「tagaoxingjiuhao」。(hunyinshenghuozenmeguo?fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?
3.送礼物给另一方时,不必买「大家能够一起用」或「居心叵测」的物品。
pingchanglaoxianshengmaishuicaoxiwanji、diankaoxiang,huoxutaitaihuixinhualufang,danruoshishengrilipinhuojierideweituoren,taitaijiubuyidinglingqingle。yourutongtaitaisonglaoxianshengyibuxichenji(mudishiyaotaduoxidi),haibibushangsongtaxiaidezhaoxiangji、jiejiyouxijinuanxin,huoxudelipinbiaoshule「woxihuanni,dangengguanjiandeshi,wodongwo!」laonianfuqiyaotaohaolingyifangdequebuyi,danyezhengyouyuyiqixieshoubingjianlikaileneimejiuerzuigaiqinfen。
4.有志气虽好,但对另一半要有延展性。
lunzherenrang,bubimeiyiciquanshi「wojiangdesuan」「wocaisuanshiduide」。genduiwaikaifangrenbuyiyang,xianglingyibanrenrangshiyizhongqiuai、fadia。「zhangfu,nengchuqukantangyingpianzhendeburongyi,ciciwogennikankan《gangtieren3》,daoshihouchuquyouhuinihaiyaopeinizoukanganqingxijudianying。」
5.lingyibangenshuohuashi,bukeyimeiyoumuguanghuixiangjiao,nengwojintadeshougengqiang。
renmenchangyouzuobuwandegongzuozhonghejiashi,danmangdaomeikongkanyixialingyifang、helingyifangshizhijinkou,zheileijiekoutingledounanguo,renmenjiuburongyiduixiaohaizineiyang。yinerxiangshoukuaile、shoutoudeshi,haohaodizhangwotachanshengleshenmeshi。henfanmendeneishihou,jiuraoguozhufan,jiaobisayiqiwozaibuyishafashangkanbudianyingba。
6.接纳另一半想在浴室里待久一点。
youshi,renmenjiuzhixiangyigerenjingjingdidaizaiyushili,bubeidajiao45fenzhong。yiner,jibianshilingyibanxiangtaochuniyixiadoumeiyouguanlian(danshishizaizijiyushibale)。meirenshijizhide,renmenchangyoulingrenyanjuan、chibuxiaodeneishihou,buyaozaiyizhicuitakuaixiechuqu,bitayutaoyuyuan。
7.别在密闭式、窄小的室内空间开吵。
liangrenhuifashengzhengzhi,youshibuyidingshizaichaodeshiredaoni,zhishinizhishendeshineikongjianrangjinibeikengdejuede。kanjixiangcuowushi,yiqidaojujiafujindegongyuan、lvdizhongxinzuoyizuozaizhangkoutan。ziranjieyouliaoyudegongxiao,kuankuodeqiankun、yilvqingfeng、jishengniaoti,douyouliyujiaoxinuqi、pingwenqingxu。zaishiwaiduoxiyidianyangqipingyehuirangnaozigengbaochiqingxing。
8.别老在另一方眼前大剌剌的打嗝儿、放臭屁,请保存10%的新鲜感。
suiranzaiqinrenyanqianshifangyalidoushiyizhongqinmiwujian,danchangkanlingyifangjianbimaohuochuhanmaoqueshisunhaixingganmirenzhishuzhi。lingyibanzhongguibingbushinidelaobalaoma,guoduoyisibugua、huanmiedeguanjiandianyehuijibaiganqing。
9.别在亲友眼前闹不开心。
yilaiqinyoudiaonan,shuohe、zhanbiandoubingbushi;erlaidahuoerhuanhuanxixilaijuhuihuodong,niyingdangyebuyuanbeitieshang「juhuihuodongzhongjiezhefufu」debiaoshi。
10.无性婚姻难铸就幸福夫妻。
jibiangenjuyixieyuanyinbukeyitongfang,huanshiyaoranglingyifanglejienihenyuanyihuohenxiwangxiayicideqinmiwujiansuiyue,huchuandiaodoudexinxijilingyifangyekeyiweiqingganshengwen。fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?
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