会造成婚姻泯灭的新奇要素

婚姻生活 怎么过?英国“女性日”网址近期综合性多种最新消息科研成果，明确提出了对婚姻关系导致破坏性危害的九大出乎意料的要素。

 1.yizhiyifangzuojuece。dajiayibanjuedeganqingshenghuozhongmeiyouhuayuquandeyifangburongyixingfukuaile，shubuzhiyanjiugongzuorenyuanfajue，qianghandeyifanggengfeichangrongyiduihunyinzaochengshiluogan。jianyi：jiaruyifangyizhizaizuoxianghujueceshitingconglingyifangdejianyi，neimajianglaiyingdangduofabuzishendejianyi;jiarujialidezuihoujuecechangchangyounizuochu，jianglaizeyingdanglunzhezuopaibanren。(hunyinshenghuozenmeguo?fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?

 2.duiguanjianshierdezhuiyichuxianbuyiyang。2003niandeyixiangshujudiaochabaogao，fufuduiyiwangdeshierzhuiyibuyiyang，yibanhuiweihaihunyinguanxi。jianyi：weisikangxingdaxuemaidixunfenxiaosalaboshiyanjiushengbiaoda，zhenduishenghuozhongdeyixielichengbeishiexingshijian(rudingqin、goumaifangzideng)，fufuyingdangyongxingoutongjiaoliu，jinliangdidachengyizhi，fangzhijianglaizhuiyishizaochengmaodun。

 3.tuolishijideqidai。yanjiufajue，hunyinzhongqidaiguogaoderen(“renmenhuiyouzhejizhidefuqishenghuo”)，bizheixieqidaizhigengshijiyixiederen(“renmenjianggongtongfendouguoshanghaorizihaode、jijizhudongdefuqishenghuo)，zaijiehunhoudiyiniangengfeichangrongyijuedexinhan。jianyi：dezhoudaxueaositingfenxiaodelisha·naifuzhuanjiajiaoshoubiaoda：“zhaobudaojizhidehunyin，huaiyouguodukailangdeteshuqidaiyibanhuiyixinhanmowei”。danshihunyinzhongyebukeyisheqijijizhudongkailangdeqidai，zhibuguoshiyaojiayikongzhi。

 4.yizhiyijizhiqingkuangguanren。yixiangzuixinxiaoxiyanjiufajue，zaiairenyanli“huamianfeichangyouzhi、beilixinghuadeduidai”，fandaoburongyilingzishenkaixin，fanguolaininengganjuezhixiqinshumeiyouzhenshidilejieziji。bingqie，nidebuhuigaiyaojinkenenghehuairendelixinghuaguifan，zheiwuxingzhizhongyouzengjialefujiadegongzuoyali，huilingnijuedemeiyouanquangan。jianyi：duizhixiqinshuyouyixiexiaoqinpeihuizhiqingganshenghua，danjuebunengguodu，yidingyaoshenzhiyulingyifangdequecunyoudeyoushi。

 5.duanxiaoxigoutongjiaoliuguoduo。beikaluolainagaoxiaoweimingdunfenxiaoyanjiugongzuorenyuanfajue，jiarufufuguanjianyiduanxiaoxifangfakaizhangoutongjiaoliu，bingfeilingjuligoutongjiaoliuhuotongdianhua，tamenduihunyinguanxidemanyilvyibanbugao。jianyi：yanjiugongzuorenyuanjuede，zaiqizhongdeyuanguqujueyuaifaxinxiderenyibanshiduobixingde，bingqiegengjiaolvqingxu。danshiyemeibixuchedigechuduanxiaoxi，danyingdangdaliangdikaizhanlingjulitanhuaneironggoutongjiaoliu。

 6.qianqueqiuzhiyu。“haoqihaisimao”，keshiqiuzhiyuquenengweihunyinchanshengqijisf。yanjiugongzuorenyuanjianxin，youqiuzhiyuderengengshanyubajiannanchujingdangzuotiaozhanbingfeiweixie。bingqietamengengshanyugoutongjiaoliu、genglingbian，duixindejiejuefanganchiduiwaikaifangxintai。jianyi：jiaruyizhihenmeimanhunyinzaoshoudaobubian，yidingyaoqiguaidisisuoyixia，shifoujifuqizhijiandemaodunchushilefeichanghaodejiyu，yizhaodaonantidebuyiyangjiejuefangan。

 7.taiguozaihufuqiganqingshibushiqinmijiechu。renmenchangyouneiyangdejuede，tubulvyoushizongshiwen“renmenkuailaidaoma”，jieguolingdaodazhanjuedeyuelaiyueyuan。tongyang，jiaruzaihunyinguanxizhongzongshiziwen“renmengouqinmijiechuma”，huizaochengxingyingbulidefuqiganqingyuelaiyuebutaikeneng。jianyi：fuqizhijianzhixuduoyixiexianghudezhutihuodongheqinshenjingli，rangqinqiegandaziranbiaolu，juebuyunxusheqiu。

 8.xiwanglaogongxianggeshenshi。yixienvxingguangfanduinanrenhuaiyoutuolishijideniantou，juedenanrenyingdangxiangfengliutitangdeqitu，zunchong、weihuheaixinvshi。jianyi：nanrenbukeyiyizhineimawenzhibinbin，youshihouchuxianzhengzhimaodunbingbudengyulaogongbuxianggezhenzhengdenanren，doubuyiweizhetayibuaizheni。

 9.duizishenguidingtaigao。yixiangyanjiufajue，changshizailingyifangyanlizhuyaobiaoxiangengqiang、gengjizhifandaohuishihunyinyuelaiyuemingan。jianyi：wuqiurangzishenzhuyaobiaoxiangengqiangdeyaoqiuyibanhuichanshengshichangjingzheng、mangranhehaipadengfumianxinxijuede，erkuanrongxingzongtimubiaoyaoqiuhuizaochengxiezuoheaidengfanmianjuede。fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?