将会损坏婚姻的十大要素

婚姻生活 怎么过?近期，《我们中国人婚恋交友幸福感汇报》公布，数据调查报告，危害婚姻幸福感的十大要素先后是：夫妻二人间的感情，沟通交流、了解的意向和能力，互相忠实，小孩，收益，夫妻生活，婆媳之间，另一方与自身亲人的关联，房屋和家务活工作中分派。

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