女性7种心态非常容易破坏婚姻 切忌过多依靠

婚姻生活 怎么过?有一句老话得十分及时：“我们是单翅的天使，只能结合在一起才可以翱翔。”那麼，一些融合却为什么不可以翱翔?这也许也要归因于婚姻中的七种心态。维持感情长期，还要避免这在其中心态!

一、对婚姻的高期待心态

 conglianqingdaowanhun，womenyizhidouzaiyongzishendexiangxiang“mengpian”zhezishen，zheilei“mengpian”daliangdeneishihoushibujingyijiande、mangmugenfengde、chaoyueshikongde，shinenggoubazhiredeganqingxiangdangyu“reqing”hunyindeyizhongxiangxiang。youyuyoureqingdechongjixing，huayanqiaoyudebaozhuang。(hunyinshenghuozenmeguo?fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?

 duijiehunhoudeyishizhuxingzongyoulehengaodeqidaizhi，xiangxiangzhongxingfudehunyinbianqudaileshijidehunyin，daxuegongzhuyuwangzidexiaogushizhuanbianchenglehunyinshenghuozhong“biaozhunhua”、“yangeyaoqiu”dehuashenwei，tashirenmenzishenjihunyinrenweiyinsuewaideyizhongwaibaozhuanghe，yejiushishuoduiyuhunyindegaoqidaixintai。

 dangzheileixingfudexiangxiangherenweiyinsudewaibaozhuangheyidanbeihunyinshenghuodelingsuisuotidai，bansuizhejiehunhouyaoqiudebunengmanzu，xinhanyushiluodexintaijiuhuixiang“heiyunyacheng”yibanbansuiyizhongshangdangshoupiandejuedeyitongxiangrenmenpumianerlai。shijishang，zheibingfeineirenmengpianleni，zhishiniduihunyindegaoqidaixintaimengpianleni。

二、过度自尊和比较敏感的心态

 zaihunyinshenghuozhong，shidangdezizunhebijiaominganshiyizhongleguandexintai，danguoduzizunhebijiaominganjiuhuibazishendehunyinbishangsilu。jiehunqianbiaoshiyankezhaoban，jiehunhouguidingzhaodanshouhui，yigezheyi、yigetuotuolala，hunqianhunhoudechaju，barenmendezizunbiruleyangchangxiaodao。fuqibicizhongjiuhuiyouyifangjuedezishendezhixiqinshuzaimiaoshizishen，buzhongshizishen。

 yibianbaoweizishendezizunerduilingyifangdeyantanjuzhihexingweiguodu“zizun”hebijiaomingan，tebieshizaishiduilingyifangzaiwuyijianzhongjianshuodeyijuhuahuowuxindexingwei，hui“hanyi”shangbantian。zheileixintaishuodeduitingyidianneijiaoainiletou，shuodenantingshishenjingjinzhang。jiarubulijipifuguomin，zhangjiuyiwangzhiyoujiakuailingyifangdeyanxuexintaihexintaishangdejinzhang。

三、逃避责任的心态

 richangshenghuomianbuleyoufengchuiyuda，hunyinzhongmianbulejiannanhecuobai，dangfengchuiyudapumianerlaideneishihouzuibixudeshibicidezerenganyufengyutongzhou，erbingbushihuxiangdezhize、duobihetuixiezeren。

 tiaoxuanyigeren，yigehunyinheyizhongshenghuoquanshizishendejuece，jiranshizishentiaoxuande，quanbudeyiqiedouyingdangyoudanliangquyingdui，qudanfu，tuituohetuixiezerenzhiyourangmaiyuancujinhejiazhonglianggerenzhongjianqinggandetubengwajie。

四、期待收益的心态

 yixiefuqidehunyinrutongladaju，wojininulileshiduoshao，jiudeshouyiwoshiduoshao;woxintengni，jiudeduiwomenhao，buran，zheidajushilabulede。

 jiaruyouyifangzuodebuzuhao，aidebuzuduo，lingyifangdexinhan、kunao、bugaoxingjiuhuiqiaoranerzhi，guoququanbudekaixinbianhuifeichangrongyibeihushi，kunaohebugaoxingyejiuburongyineimafeichangrongyihuizhijiqu。zheileixintaiyidanshenruhunyinshenghuozhong，jiufeichangrongyizaochengyifangxintaideshilinghexintaishangdebujunheng，xintaishangdewuchajiyoukenenghuinongchuhunyinshangdewucha。

五、不重视的心态

 wanhunjiule，bianhuijuedelingyifangzaojiushizishenderenle，zenmeshuohua、ganshenmeyebuchuyuxinli，congshuohuadefangfadaojiatingshiwudejiejuemangmuxingdoushitingda，feichangshaozaiquzaiyilingyifangdetihuihexintai。

 shijishang，zaiyigejiazhongzhong，zhongshishiganqinghefuqihemujiaowangdejiben，fuqixiangchushixuchanshengdehenduobukaixindouyouyuzaiyixiesuoshidejiejueshang，yinweiyouyifangbuzhongshilingyifangerzaochengfuqibicidadonggange。gengyoufuqiyibianzhengkouqi，gangkaishilexintaishangdezhangjiujiaofeng，lengbaolibianbianchengcuihuiganqingdeshuke，erganqingyidanbeizheileijiduandefenweilongzhaozhe，fuqijiandewennuanyouruhejianghuizhangqini?

六、不包容的心态

 zaiyigejiazhongzhong，keyizuobukeyigan，zuodezenmeyangshixiangduixingde，danbingbushijueduide。xuduoshierquanshiyouburongyibaozhenghuizuo，yezhinengzaizuodequanguochengzhongcaihuiyouburongyidaohuidebianzhi。yiner，fuqijianmeizuoyijianshijinliangmeiqusheqiuhezeguai，gengbunengtiaomaobing。

 danshixuduofuqijiushishuogaobudongzheiyili，shaohebulaizishendeqingyi，jiuhuichizelingyifang，shijianzhanglebeichizedeyifangbujinburongyiganjuezishenzuodebutaihao，fandaohuizaochenghaijidexintai。yinweizhangqixingdeyayiganheweimanshifuqijiandeqingganyouredelengyejiuwukebimian，eryayigandexintaijiarubukeyilijishifangchulai，xianghujiandeyayiganheweimansuishisuidihuiyichujifa。

七、过多依靠的心态

 fuqibicizaiqingganhexintaishangdexianghuyicunnenggoujiazhongxianghujianxiangaideshuiping，danguoduyikaozongyoujianghuibianchenglingyifangganqinghexintaishangdefudan。congbiaocengkan，guoduodeyikaoshiaideyizhongzhuyaobiaoxian，shijishangshiduiaideyizhongjielvehezhanju。

 yiqiezhengchangdeyikaoshiyizhonghuxiangzhichengdianhexintaikaolvdeyizhongqingkuang。kuayuelezheileizhichengdianheqingkuang，jiuhuiduizishendeganqingzaochengcaiyi，caiyilingyifangyibushandaizijile，huoshishiduizishendeaibugounongbuzushenle。zaiyicicidecaiyiyihou，jiushirangganqingyicicididujuezishen。fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?