女性做这八件事相当于自毁婚姻

婚姻生活 怎么过?1。模糊不清事理的吵闹

 chuguinanren，laopoxintaizhuangtaitedingbushijienade，tashimeiyouhuashuode。tebieshizaishizheixiexingzishouhuanyingdelaopo，zaifajueyiqiannageziyiweishihenlaoshibajiaolaogongjuranganlepanbiandeshi，nuqimengranzhiwangetoucuan，changchang huichezhumouyijianxiaoshijielidalilaichaonao。

 ermeiyicibutengbuyangdedachaodanaozhihou，nanshengyijiuwaiyu，pinciduole，shijianzhangle，nanshenghaihuiyi“hunyinpolie”weiyou，zainidetoudingmomingqimiaokou shangyidingmoxuyoude“yashemao”，daoneishihou，niminglejietawaiyuyouwuzaixian，quemeifayingdezhoubianrendelianmin，hailuoxialaiyige“hanfu”dechouming。(hunyinshenghuozenmeguo?fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?

2。四处找我身边的人倾吐

 nvxingzuixiantianxingjiuxihuanbagua，youqijidonghou。xuduolaopodouxihuanzailaogongchuguile，xiangyitoumeiyoushangjinxindezhuzaizishendeshenpangzhaoxunxiezhu，tebieshizaishixiaizhaofufuxianghudepenyou“xianjixiance”， tanaerlejie，bierenzuiduojiushishuo“quanzuyiquanli”。

 zhongjiuhunyinshidajiafufulianggerendeshier，penyoujiandaodequanshibiaoceng，naliyoushijianlaishenrudajiadefuqixiangchuguanjiandianya，jibianquanyezhishishiyi、 ercidebiaocengshijianeryi，kezheileishiyilaidaopenyoudeerduolimianliyejiusanbukaiguo，ruguonibazhangfuchuguideshierxuelinlindesuoyouzhanxianzaitarenyanqianshi，jibiantahuijiayejinjinbiaocengde，beinisipode bahenjiumeibanfafengxianle。

3。自以为是的窥视、探案个人行为

 buzhidaoshidiezhanpiankanduo，huanshirujin“tanan”zhizaoxingyetaihuo，rujinshigelaopozuishaoyoujiugehuizaizhangfuchuxianbutaiduihuowaiyuqianqi，jiuhuixuedexiang“tanan”yiyangganzhemomocengcengde“zhuazhijiezhengju”xing wei，naxiefanyuezhangfudeshoujixinxi、laiwangdianhua、hulianwangweixinliaotianjilu、dianziyoujian、qianjia，shenzhiyoujuranhaihuichachulaishoujitonghuajilu、yinxingliushuizhangdanzheixie。

 zheizhongxingweikanqilaiconghui，tamenyeduoshi zaichenzhangfubuliuyihuozhesixialikaizhande，danzongyouhuibeizhangfufajuedeneishihou，yidanzhangfufajue，yaobuqueshuonifashenjingbing、caiyiguozhong，yaobuqueshuonidouzhidao，neimenixianggaizenmebanjiugaizenmeban ba，henyouyifusizhubupakaishuitangyang。qizuizhongdejieguoshi“meichishengzhurou，haireleyishensao”，dacaojingshele，zhangfudewaiyuyeshicong“tuli”zhuanzhi“didi”。

4。向彼此老人们“控诉”

 yixiehaoqingzhuangzhilaopozaiyikuernaosandiaosidoumeifadadongzhangfuchuguiyihou，daziranjiuhuixiangqijiangzhangfuchuguidezuixingtongdianhuahuomiansugongjia、popobabamama、jiedi，pubianwaikuosanqilai，benlaishixianghuodezheizhongzhang beimendexiezhu，qidaitamenlaiquandaolaogonghuigai。

 kezheileijiduyinsideshieryaoshizailaorenmenzhongjianchuanchuhou，yidinghuishengcheng“dajiazuzhanshi”，henxianzhu，gongjiayupopozaiduidaichuguinanrenzhizhongken bidinghuichanshengmaodun，jiusuantamendouhenliangzhi，danquanjiedehuajiaofayedabuyiyang，kezainanshenglaikan，bazishendeyinsibaohugongbule，shuobailedezizun、mianbudousidiaolaidao，tayehuigengweihaowugujiquzhaoxiao sanfalaosaolaidao，zailaorenmenyipian“wenhuajiaoyu”shengzhongtanchengxiangdai，dengshengxiangyiguo，haihuidaohuilaifanyaoniyikou。

5。试图花钱摆平

 woyinxiangzhongkegumingxinyigeanjianshi，2006nianmounvfajuedezhangfuhenvxiashugaozaiyiqihou，juranshenbeizhangfuquzhaonagedisanzhehetan，qixianyibaliubitiyibaleishuidekuqiudisanzhefangkaishou，disanzheyepin mingdejiyajidileishui。

 keguohoujiugaozhitamenxianghudenanshengle，tamenlianggerenwaiyuyiran。jianmounvjianzheizhaobuqizuoyongjiuxiangqihuaqianlaibaiping，youshenbeizhangfuyicisancijidisanzheqian，fenbieshi5wan、10 wan、20wan，zuizhongdisanzhenazhezheizhongqianlizhile，tahaianankaixin，nazhichubulaisangeyue，disanzhejitadianhuasuoqianlaile，nagenanrenwaiyuquetaodeyuanyuandide。

 shijishang，hunwailianbushishiqiannengbaiping de，nvshengzuodisanzhebujiushishuoyibianqianme，neizheizhongdisanzhedetanlanshizhongshiwudidong，zuolaopodexianghuaqianlairangtaliqu，tahaowuyiwenhuixiaona，haihuicongerjiandaolingyitiaofacaizhilu。

6。对第三者施以“滔天罪行”

 yixielaopozaifajuelaogongchuguile，huixiantoutoudiyanzangzaizhangfushenhoude“nvxing”，suihouzaimotoutadezhusuo，moutianzaikaiyanyichang“tongdabaigujing”dewudadaxi，youdeyizhiyuhaihuisuishenxiedaiqidagu、 bayimaqishixiongxiongdeqianqudisanzhechu“zhengtao”er“dangchangzhuajian”。

 nenggouhaowuyiwen，disanzhehuizaizheiyishijianduanfangdefeichangrouruo，dangnizhangfuzaidangchang，tahuibaozhengmabuhaiji、dabuhaiji，jiuyaonizong gongjiandaotabeinitongdadeqingkuang，yexuzhangfuzheiyineishihouyehuiweijiguantouweihuta，bingchizenidexionghan。guohou，nizhangfuhuilikebangtabanxinjia，huanyigediquzangqilai，neishihounibudanzhaobuzhedisanzhe，kong palianzhangfudouzhaobuzhe。

7。和第三者和谈

 henaqianbaipingbuyiyang，zheiyixingweishilaopochangshizishende“buyanqifan”jishuobailezhengshideyingxianglilai“diaojie”，danyouhenaqianbaipingyouyigebenzhidexiangsizhichu，neibianshiyaoshilaopoyouneiyangyigeju dong，jiuwuxingzhizhongbaidilezishendebuwei，yaoshinilaizhangkouzhaodisanzhe。

 bierenneixinjiujiqingxiniyeshilaiqiutafangkaishoude，laopozaiqiposhangyejiubailexialai，danshidisanzheyehenhuiyanchu，tayaoshuo“moumoumoutai tai(moumoumouqinjiejie)，woyumoumoumouqueshimeishier。

 jiushishuoyiqiezhengchangderenjiguanxi，ninxiangdetaiduo”，huoshi“ng，ng，womingbaile，wobuxiangzailianluotale”，changkuangdehuilijishuo：“nilianzishendezhangfudou kanzhu，yeyoulianlaiyaowo”“youbenlingniguanzhuninansheng，bietahuilaizhaowoya”zheixie。yichanghetanchulai，tuohuangertaodezongshishilaopo，touzhexiaodechukaidisanzhe，shinizhangfule。

8。网络发帖公布第三者丑行

 xinxihuashidaijiaodadeyichujiushishuokuaisuchuanbozhikuai，shouzhongrenqunzhiguang。zheiyidianyerangxuduolaopojiandaoleyige“xiaofeizheweiquan”deminglu。yincirenmenyechangchanghuizaihulianwangjiandaoyixieyishouhairenlaopodeyudiaoxiedezao yu，hainengantusuoyijieludisanzhedelushanzhenmianmu，gengmengdeyeyou“renrousousuo”，zaigaomingdedisanzheyewufataotuo。

 laopomendezheileixingweikanqilaigaoming，qishigengweiyumei，yaolejieniyizhizaitongsudisanzhe dechouxingshi，doushizaigongbudajiajiade“jiachou”，bubirenweihulianwangzhongdoushinidezhuli，lianminnideren，yeyoushenmedisanzhemenyehuishengyuanzishendezimei，yougenghekuangrujindeshehuifazhan，meiyoujianguodisanzhe buzhihunwailianderenzaoyisuanshishangxiquedelaogudongjile。nidetiezishuzuiduoyejiuyipianzhenzhengdehunduanzima。fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?