解决浅婚 夫妻之间沟通很关键

婚姻生活 怎么过?夫妻关系中，当你还要大张旗鼓讨论“七年之痒”时，如今就早已有许多婚姻还不等他等你“七年之痒”便分道扬镳。很多的夫妇面临“浅婚”难题：交往速度快，看不清楚婚姻的本质，想象着彼此的未来，却牵挂着另一方的以往……

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怎么看待“浅婚”?夫妇沟通很关键

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