夫妇怎样应对婚姻中的普遍争吵

婚姻生活 怎么过?尽管不断的争吵不容易产生一段美满婚姻，但当你一直逆来顺受，直至最终恨之入骨卖力暴发一次得话，给婚姻生活产生的损害也很大。

 dangyigerenbeidongjinengzhangshijian，jiuhuiyuelaiyuejubeigongjinengli。hunyinshenghuozhizhong，yixiezhengchaodenantishinengjinzaochuli，burandebuchangshi。xiabianshiganqingzhuanjiamenjuedenenggoukaizhanzhengchaodeyixiehuatitaolun，zhangwozheizhonghuatitaolunjiqiweihezhengchao、chulizhihouduihunyinshenghuoheqingganshenghuohenyouyichu。(hunyinshenghuozenmeguo?fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?

争吵一：你太过沉溺于手机上/网络游戏了!

 youzhangdeyitianjijiangyiwang，nihenxiangjingenzhangfudebudiaoyizhi——saishifennudexiaoniao，huozhechaxunyixieyuanyizaochengtaliuyideduanxiaoxi。huaxiaozaishoujishanghediannaodehuoliduidajiadeqingganmeishenmehaochu。dangtaditoubaibushoujishangdeneishihou，bubizuozheyipangfanbaiyan，nikeyineiyanggaosuta：“renmenshuohuadeneishihou，niquenazheshoujishang，yaowoganjuezishenduinieryanyidianyebuguanjian。”

 liangxingshenghuojiqiao：nikeyicongcikaisheyixiezuijichudedaodedixian，liruzaiyongcandeneishihoujueduibunengkanshouji，huoshimeiwanquchuyigezhongtoudeshijianzuoweierrendujudesuiyue。

 zheizhongbiaozhunyaojixuxiaqu。jiarunayitiantasunhuailebiaozhun，nikeyineiyangtishita：“neitiaoduanxiaoxijiuneimeguanjianma?haidewangjilerenmendexinyaoqiule?ruguozheiyangdehua，nikeyiyongjiaolaifafaduanxiaoxi，busuanshiniweifanguidinge。”jiarutahuanshibuzunxunyaoqiu，nijiuzuozhelaizaicitongtatan，zhaodaozuiheshidajialiangdefangshi。

争吵二：啥事必须靠我!

 yigerenjinxingquanbudejiawu，chukaizishenjingpilijieyiwai，haijianghuihuizaocheng“tashifouyidianyebuguanzhuwo”deniantou。keshi，zaitayanlijiandaodequebingbushineiyang。nanshengtongnvxingdesisuofangfabu tong。nvxingyizhibayiwudanzaizishenjianbang，bingjiangqisiyouhua。dangniganjuezishenmeiyouhuodejianronghexiezhu，neimazaigangkaishiyuanqizhangfuyiqianhaiyaoshuodiannaxie。

 luolanshiyiweigangweimuqin，fuyang2geshuangbaotaibaobaodelingwaihaidegaohaoqiyelidegongzuozhong。dangtaguanniandaozishenmeiriyaocongzaochenwudiangangkaishiyizhimangdaoyelishidiandeneishihou，tajibenshangkuaifengle。

 luolangaozhizhangfushuo：“duile，wojiushigechaojimama，danyoushiyinweiwobixuxiexiyixia，nideduobangbangwo。”lijingduocizhengchaoheleishuiyihou，rujinluolandezhangfuzaoyijianfuzheyidabanjiawuhuodezhongdan，hainengbangtazhaoliaohao2gexiaohai。

 liangxingshenghuojiqiao：ruguonidegongzuoyalihaibingbushifeichangdashi，jiuyingdanghezhangfuhaohaoditanyitanle。nikeyiqingxixiangjindijiangchuzishendeyaoqiu。liru“jiarunikeyiwuxuwotishimeiyilibaizuosancimoumoumoushi，nijiubanglewotingdademangle。”meicuo，youdeneishihouzhangfujianghuihuiwangji，yincibieguoyibuquxiaoxiaodetishitayixiaya。

争吵三：你只了解工作中!

 tebieshizaishizaidangjindejingjihuanjingxia，nidezhangfuhenjianghuiyaomeirijiabanjiadiandaotaiwan，buguantashipobudeyijiejueduijichengshandegongzuozhonghuanshizishenjiushishuogegongzuokuang，nijibenshangmeiridoujianbushangta，feichangrongyiganjuegudu。

 zheiyineishihounimeiyouhuodezishensuobixudeaideganjue，yexudezhangfuqueganjuezishenshigenengyangjiahukoudehaolaogong。keshizhishigaosuta“bieneimamaiminggongzuozhongle”bingshiling。tahuiganjuenibingbushishangxitaweiquanbujiazhongsuonulideqinfen。

 liangxingshenghuojiqiao：niyingdangbazhongzhongzhizhongfangdaoqitacengmian，lirugaosutanishifensinianta，xianghetaduozaiyiqidaiyihuier。huoshizaochennikeyizaoshangyihuier，qinzigaohaowennuandezaofan，hetayiqichizaocan;haikeyizaijiazhongfenpeiyigelanmandezhuguangwancan，hetahuanduyiduanxingfudeshiguang。

争吵四：你一直在抱怨!

 meigerenyoushihouhuizaoshoudaomeideyitian，dandangnidezhangfulaoduiniluoluosuosuodibaoyuan，nijiubutaihaole。milidezhangfujiuzheiyang，yicijiazhonglvyouyekeyibeitadebaoyuansunhuaidexuduorendoumeiyoulejingtou。

 milijiuzhangfudezheizhongzuofatongtahaohaotanleyici，caizhangwodao，yuanxianzhangfudeyaliguoda，jibianzaigongxiudeneishihouyemeifajiangzishenconggongzuozhongfangshidiaojiedaogongxiufangshishang。keshirujin，genjufufuerrenxianghudeqinfen，milidezhangfugangkaishizhujiangaizhenglebaoyuandewenti。

 liangxingshenghuojiqiao：ruguonidezhangfubaoyuandeneishihou，nidequebixuzuogeqingtingzhe，keshishiduofenzhongjiukeyile。tahuoxuguannianbushangzishenxiaojibeiguandeyimian，yincidangtabaoyuandeneishihou，nidebangtazhaodaojijizhudongdeyimian，gaosutaxianzaikaishibianhuanzishendeniantoule。fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?