婚姻生活调试术：12个方法他会越变越好

婚姻生活 怎么过?有关沟通交流

1.gaosuniguodehuayizhibuhaijide

“qinaidede，zhihoushangwanxishoujianhaijidebamatongquanfangchulai。”——shuoguo1000bianzuoyou

“qinaidede，buchuandezangyifukuzihaijidelijifangquanzidongxiyijili。”——shuoguo1000bianzuoyou

“qinaidede，shiguodedongxizaifangruyuanxiandediqu。”——shuoguo1000bianzuoyou

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zheixiexiangjindehua，weihetashuoguo1000bianzuoyou，nanrenhuanshijibudeni?

nanrendebianbai：zheizhongshiertaiguimao，zhenxinshiyijibude!

 zhizhao：jirantajibudeniyebubitaizaihu，niaoniaodeneishihoufajuematongquanmeiyoufangchulainijiuyaotahuilaibangnifangxiaqu。xichuangdandeneishihoujiaotazishenbazangyifukuzijiaoshanglai，meishangjiaodeqingdengdaoshihou。zhaobuzhededongxitahuirangnizhao，neiyangjianjianditajiuhuiganjuejidenidedingzhuyingdaoli!

2. fayiwangdeduanxiaoxiruniniuruhai

 “lianaideneishihoutayizhimeiridoushifalaiduanxiaoxihetongdianhua，rujin，wojitamenfadeduanxinwanruniniuruhai!”，yincinvrengangkaishicaiyi，“tashifoubushuoaiwole?”，“tashifouyouqitanvrenle?”，“tagangkaishiyanfanwole?”zheixie，niyoumeiyouzheiyinanti?shifouzheiyineishihoujiugangkaishihetadouqi，dangtajijiyuenideneishihouniyemeilita，huoshibaichengyifubianbiandeliankongjitamenkanni?(hunyinshenghuozenmeguo?fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?

 nanrendebianbai：wobukeyizonggenniqinia，woxiangweirenmendeweilaiqinfennuli，zhenggengduodeqian，rangnigouchegoufangmaixiezi，weishenmehuibuxihuanneiwo?

 zhizhao：nvrendesuoyoushinanxing，nanrendequanbushinvren+gongzuo。qin，jianxinnidongdede!nifadeduanxin，takanguoneixinshinuande，jinjinmeiyoushijianhui，bubizaihuneiyangdesuoshi。keyigaosudajiayigexiaoqiaomen，daoshihouzaiyaozhuandanidexiangsizhiqing，gaichengxinlangweiboba，youyuzuixinxiaoxidexintaizhuangtaidiaochatongjifajue，chuanchuqudeduanxiaoxilianbushanghuiyinghuirangnvrenxintaixinfan，danchuanchuqudeweibosixinjiuburongyichanshengzheileifuzuoyong，jibianmeiyoudiyishijianjiedaotadesiliaohuiying，niyeburongyiyouxiaojiqingxu，fandaoyeyouyizhongmeifayuyandexiaolanmanhuidangxinzhong。

3. benlaicuowuqueyifuhenkeliandemoyang

 zaitafancuomoushideneishihou，nizaoyihenfahuole，danshitaqueyifuhenkeliandemoyang，haoxiangchedigaobudongniyizhizaiweihefahuo，zheileijuedequeshihenwunai，shuotayebingbushi，buyongshuotayebingbushi。zheileineishihou，nvxingyiban ganjuenanrenyingdangshizishenduzilidehuichong，yingdanglejiezishenzaiqishenme。

 ernanrenzhenxinshiyibingbushiniduzilidehuichong，zhenxinshiyibuqingchucuozainaer。zuizhong，nvxingganjuequeshibuxianggennanrenzhengchao，tahuizishenziwofansibuzhengquewangba，meilita，zishenshengqiwangle。yinci，nvxingdetoudingshizhongguazhe“manbujiangli”sigezi。

nanrendebianbai：nijiujingzaiqishenme?wozuobuduijiugaozhibei!nibuyongshuowoweishenmehuilejieni?

 zhizhao：nanrenhenvxingdesiweimoshihexiguanxingbenjiubuyiyang，bixuchangchanggoutongjiaoliucaikeyizuodaoxinyoulingxi。ruguoniganjuetazuodeshierrangwobujidongle，jiulijishuochuqu，jianxintashixiangyaogaide，bubiwan“nicai，nicai，nicaicaicai”deyougame，nanrenzhenxinshiyibingbushizheixingdedashen。

4.jiaotashi，tahaoxiangzongyetingbudao

 ruguonigentashuohuadeneishihou，tashifouchangchangyifuhaoxiangnaxieyetingbujiande“lihun”zhuyaobiaoxian?zheizhongzuofazainvxingyanzhongzhenshijiushishuoduizishenbuzhongshihebuguanzhudezhuyaobiaoxian，shijinduibunengrenshoude!danxintaizhuanjiashuo，neileifalengdezhuyaobiaoxianjinjinnanrendeyizhonghuanjieyalifangfabale，shenmeshidoubuzuo，quandoubuyuan，jiushishuojingjingdifaleng。

 queshi，nanrenjinjinbixuyidianqingjingdedujushijian。yincinvxingqingbiebazheizhongzuofazuoweishimoshini，duizheniqude，nigengshibita，tajiuhuiyuedikang，zuizhongbianweilejiyuan。

 nanrendebianbai：wobixudanduqingjingdeshineikongjianlai“sikaorensheng”，zheiyineishihouqingbubidaraowo，woxintaizhuangtaishiaizhenide。

 zhizhao：zaizheileineishihou，nihebujitamenyigeqingjingdeshineikongjian，dengta“sisuo”jieshuzaihetashuohua，huoshixibaibaiyihou，huandiaoxingganmirendexiefu，zaitayanxiasagejiao，quebaotamashanghuishen，tingcongnidebainong!

5.zhengchaohoudejianmojiatinglengbaoli

 zhengchao，zhenduiqinglvzhongjianshizaipingshidanshideshierle，shubuzhizhengchaozhihou，nanrendemobuzuosheng，yizhiyuwanxiaotuidejiatinglengbaolikandaifangfa，shirangnvxingzuijienabushangde。

 zainanrenlaikan，henvxingzhengchaoshishizhongbubixiangzhanjushangfengde，yincitamenganjue，liangzhezhijianrebaolidehenvxingzhengzhiduanjuelaiwang，buruchenmozhemeihua，rangnvxingxuanxiegegou，suihoudengbicidoulizhijiri，nvxingdeqiyexiaole，shunlichengzhangdejiuzhongguiyuhaole，shigeshifenjieshengchengbendehaofangshi。

 nanrendebianbai：zhengchaohoubingfeitabuyuanyihongnvxing，jinjinnvxingzaiqitoushangmeibanfahong，bibushangxiaotuijiri，dengnvxingqixiaoleyaowanghong，huoshixiaotuijirihaohaodixiangzhechulitixingdefangshi。

 zhizhao：nanrenganjuezaibicigoutongjiaoliushouzudeneishihou，jiuyingdangzhongzhigoutongjiaoliu，fangzhifenqishengji。zuoweiyigeconghuidenvxing，zaixuanxiewanyihou，jiuqingbieyunanrenjiaojingle，shuayidianxiaobagamebataxiyinzhuchuquyingdaoli。liru，tahuibangnishiyixiayijingaozhudeniuyangroutianweishifouzugou。

有关脾性

1.guangjiegouwushitoukanbiedenvxingdeshenxing

 dangninhaobusuibianhongzhenanpengyoupeizheniguangjiegouwudeneishihou，tabujinsichuzhangkanhaichixumiaokanbiedenvxingdeshenxing，niyoumeiyouxiangbatashuangyanwadaodeyuwang?shifouganjuetashizaibianzhefazishuonishenxingbutaihao?queshi，renleidoulejienanrenshiganguanxiaodongwu，hensuibianbeizheixiehuolashencaixiyinzhu，danzheibingbushiyiweizhetajiutaoyannideshenxing，daodizheixiejiandaodeshi“jinzuoxinshang”。

 nanrendebianbai：wojiangtaoyanguangjiegouwu，nifeidewowang，dajiexiaoxiangdeqingchunshaonvzishenwangshuangyanlitiao，wokeyibuyaokan?buyaokanbaibuyaokan!nandaoshuogennizaijieshangyaobashuangyanfangjiazhong?zheiyangdehuaruhebangnitiaopiaoliangdeyifuni?

 zhizhao：liangzhezhijianyinweiwuguanjinyaodenvxingzhengchao，bibushangpeitayiqipingjiayixia，tangruotashuo“nagenvxingxiongzhen”，jiutanbai，xiongbudaxiaofeiyalida。tangruotashuo“nagenvxingzhenshou”，jiutanbai，quanshigugegeshou。jianxintahuigaoqingchu，nicaisuanshishizuiheshitade。

2.啪啪后倒床就睡

 tameiyicipapahouzhuantoujiushuishi，shibushinidoujiqibeiqi?ganjuetachedibuguanbugunidetihui?danyijuyingguoxingshehuixuequanweizhuanjiadezuixinxiaoxikexueyanjiu，zheixiepapahourumiandeyuelaiyuekuaidenanrenshentideshentizhuangkuangyuegao，bingqiezheizongpapapahouhaibizhenixiershouyanyaohaohenduo。

 huoxu，xingshehuixuequanweizhuanjiayeshuo，papahounvrenyouyigechihuandereqingxiaotunquanguocheng，yinciyunanrendedaochuangjiushuibuyiyang，papahoudenvrenqipannanrendexiangyongheqingqingdifumo，neiyangcaihuihuodeyizhongchedidekaolvyuyouyuegan。

nanrendebianbai：woqueshixiangshuijuea，lianrushuiyebuhaoma?

 zhizhao：jiarutazaipapahoumanbuzaihudedaochuangjiushuijinihenweiman，ninenglijiduitashuo，papahouwodouxiangyaoniyigexiangyong，nineiyangzishenshuile，huiyaowojuedehenwanxi。jianxintahuigaoqingchu，huiyongzheniyiqirumian。yiqiezhongzaigoutongjiaoliu。

3.baocunqianrennvyoudewujian

 meishenmeshierbifajueqinglvhaichucunzheqianrennvyoudewujiangengrangnvrenshangnaoleba?zheijiushishuoyisibuguademoshinvrendetihuia!

 xintaizhuanjiashuo，nvrenzaiyuqiannanyoufenshouzhihouyiban doushibaquanbuyutaxiangguandedongxisuoyoudiudiao，ruguoyigenvrenshilixingxiaodongwu，bukenjijingshengqing，dannanrenyuqiannanyoufenshouzhihou，taliuyoudedongxizainanrenyanzhongjiujinjindongxibale，youyunanrenshikeguanxiaodongwu，keyongjiububishechilangfei，youshihouyizhiyuwanglediannaoshangliyeyouqiannanyoudexiangpian，bixuxinrentishicaihuishanchu。

nanrendebianbai：tichufenshoujiubuyuanzaikandaota，yincibukenpengmianbatadedongxiguihaita，bingqie，kuaidiyunfeiduoguia。

 zhizhao：bubiyuyigezaoyiyunideqinglvmeiyoujiugedeguoquzaihu，zheizongshikanqilainibudaqi。jiranqinglvzishenganjuezhengliqilaibubian，bibushangzaiyuqinglvshangyiyihou，nibangtazhengliwentuosuoyoudiudiao。gangkaishidajiazishendexiaoshenghuo，duohao!

4.yuyixingpengyouwanaimei

 nanrenyaoqiunuanwei，rutongnvrenyaoqiushishangchaoliuyiyang，tudeshiyishidexinxian。zaijizhidehunyinshenghuo，zaiweimeiyijingdeganqing，shijianjiulezhongjiuhuipingdanrushui。

 zheishihoubuganxinyuningjingdenanren，jibianmeiqujijixunzhaozheileisiyousiwudenuanweiqingganyouxi，danjiarushishangmenlaideyixingpengyou，nanrenxuduoneishihouyeburongyiquelihuijue，zheijiushishuoshuobailede“bujiji、buhuijue、bufuwuchengnuo”，jibubidanxinliuyouyiqiebashou，keyisuishisuidicheli，lecibupi。

 nanrendebianbai：wohenaixiyunideqinggan，shijishangyenaxieyebuzhunbeizuo，zhibuguoshijiushishuoganjuelijihuijuelingyifangtaimeijiaoyangle，qishiyinweiwomeiyoufuwuchengnuotashenmea。

 zhizhao：liangzhezhijianzhengzhiheposhita，bibushangcongjintiankaishidongdejidajiadeganqingtiwen，jitamenxuduoyiwaijingxi，bubirenweibeichongnishinvrendezhuanliquan，shijishangnanrenyebixuhongde。yinweiyounimeirichanshengdexinxiancijixing，tajiuduizheixienuanweiqingganyouximeiyouaihaole。

关于生活

1.想着着打游戏

 nanrenxiaidayouxirutongnvrenxiaiguangjiegouwuyiyang，shibennengfanying。dayouxinenggoujiqinanrenchushidezhengfu2yu，youyuzaiyuangushidai，nanrendemeirirenwujiushishuobulie，meiricongzaochendaoyelidouchuwaizhaoxunshicai，ershoujiyouxizaitingdashuipingshangfengfulenanrendezheileibenrenmanzugan。

 yinci，dangnanrenjindaodaoyouxirenwudangzhonghou，jiuhuilinshiwangdiaoyiqiekunaoyugongzuoyali，duiwaibudecijixingyehuiyuelaiyuechihuan，yinciduinichuanchudezhaohuanyemeibanfalijimeiyouxiangying。

nanrendebianbai：dayouxishiyigenenggouhenshengjingjiunengxunzhaojiaodakaixindefangfa，bingqiebiniguangjiegouwuhuasuanduole。

 zhizhao：shijishang，nihebuyeshizheyixiaxinkuanshangshishoujiyouxi，meidingnidezaiqianyishizhonglidoushineiyangdeshoujiyouxikong，nijiuqueshinengwanshangyikuailaidao。dandangniqueshiduidayouximeiyouaihao，yenanyirenshounanrenxiangzhezhedayouxiermeilini，neitiyiniyizhizaitayaowanshoujiyouxiyihouzaixiangtajubao，qianwanbiezaitazhengwandeshengxingdeneishihouxiangtafabiao，neiyangzongshijihuamaodun，rangliangrendeguanlianbianjiang。

2.兄弟情义大过天

 suyushuo：nvrenruyifukuzi，xiongdirushouzu。dangnidenanrenshiyigeshixiongdirushouzuderen，neimagongxigongxixunzhaobaole，youyuneiyangzhongqingyidenanrenzaoyishaojianle。bubiyouyutadedixiongwulunshijiekuanhuanshiyuequlvyou，tadouyiwufangudetongyierfahuo，yaoshibuweihaidajiadeyishizhuxingheqingganhebujianrongta。

nanrendebianbai：dixiongyounanbixubang!henjiuweijianbixujian!

 zhizhao：shijishangzheiyinantifeichanghaochuli，yaoshixianghulijieyixia，jiarujiushinideguimixiangnixunqiubangzhunikeyibubangma?dangnideguimiyuenichulai，nikeyimeiquma?bingqie，qingqinggaosuni，dangnikeyitadedixiongdounaxia，hedahuoerxiangtanshenhuan，rangdahuoerdouduiniyouganjue，neimaduinidenanreneryan，huishiyijianfeichang“zhangmian”deshi，quebaotameicijuhuihuodongdouxiangpeiniyiqi。

3.chedimeiyoulanmantixibao

 nvrenxiantianxingjiuxihuanzuomeng，xiaigezhonggeyanglanman。kanjiandianshilianxuju，yingpianli，nanzhurenwenghuaizheyidashuhuashuzainvrengongqiyedamenkou，huoshijialoudixia，denghouneishihouneileilanmandejuqingshi，shifouhenxianggenzishendeqinglvshuo，“ninengfouxuezhedian，yidianlanmantixibaoyemeiyou。”ernanrenxiantianxingjiubeizhegezhonggeyangyiwu，yaohuodechenggong，xiangmaichegoufang，yaozhaoliaojiazhong，tamentinglei，yincilanmanbuqilai。

 nanrendebianbai：naxiezhuguangwancan，naxie99duomeiguiquanshiliuyun，bibushangbaqiancunqilairangnimaigedaxiedefangwulaideshijishang。

 zhizhao：lanmanyuzaoxingyishuyiyang，guishuyuhuangshiriyongpin，dangnideqinglvbingbushigaoshuaifu，jiububicouhetapeizhenizuonishuobailelanmandemeng。bingqie，weishenmeshuolanmanyidingyaodenghounanrenjinxing，tameiyoulanmantixibao，ninengjijixiashoua!aiwanlanmandenvrenduinanrenlaijiangdoushijifuyouhuoli，huitahuigengaizheni。fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?