优良的婚姻生活有四个规范，你知道吗

1.夫妇彼此具备相互的或相互接纳的价值取向。

2.duizhixiqinshudexingfukuailehefazhanqushizhongxindiguanxin。

3.nengqiudatongcunxiaoyi，renshoucunyoudemaodun。

4.gongpingdijuyougezhonggeyangfenpeiquanjijuecequan。

维持有效夫妻关系的3个提议：

婚姻生活 怎么过?1.调节梦想与现实的间距

 suoyourenduihunyinshenghuojiganqingdoushiyouzishenlixianghuazhongdefangshi，dangmenghuan2beiposhideyishizhuxingsuotidai，nantihuoshiweijijiuhuiyingshiersheng。duihunyinshenghuoyaoyouyigebaochiqingxingdenaozi。bukeyiqidaiganqingzongzaiyigegaokuanbidianran，cengxuduorenjiangfengkuangdeganqingxingrongchengyibeiretiedereshui，tabixuzaihunyinshenghuozhizhongjianjiandijiangre，zhizhibianchengyibeinenggoushiyongdewenshui，fuqiguanxijiushishuozheiban。

2.提升夫妻之间的掌握与沟通交流

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 renmendexuqiubingbushiyichengbubiande，fuqiguanxiguifanyehuibianhuahenda。zaiwanhun7～8niandeneishihou，fuqiguanxiguifanzhuanbianhenda。(hunyinshenghuozenmeguo?fuqizhijianzenmexiangchu?

3.碰到难题立即寻求帮助

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