男人婚后内心住着好多个第三者

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?外遇搞外遇早已变成了婚姻生活的一大杀手1，在大家的观念里，男人一直滥情，吃着碗里瞧着锅里。在男人的情感生活中，都会闪出成千上万五花八门的女人：豆蔻年华时的初恋情人，青春时代的校内佳人，踏入初入职场的朋友暖味，不经意相逢的熟悉女人……全部的这种遇艳，都是变成男人心里的幸福憧憬。

 jiehunhou，benrenweinanrenhuizhuanyiweihubaoyangyiduanlaogudehunyinshenghuo，danshi，nijiuhuifaxiannanrendexinlihuiyoudisanzhedecunyou，hunyinshenghuohaoxiangbuweihaizaitadeqingganyoushiyilaizaijiashangshangciwaiyigenvrendeyibi。nanrendeyishengdouhuiyaoqiuganqing，wuluntadehunyinshenghuoshibushixingfu，nanrendoushizaixinliweidisanzheliuyikuaibuwei。weihenanrenjinshijiuhedisanzhesichandaoleni?hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?

此第三者非彼第三者

 tanqidisanzhe，dajiahaowuyiwenjiujuedeshizheixiesunhuaizishenhunyinshenghuo，hezishenlaogongguihunzaiyikuaichanshengbuzhengdangguanxidenvren。danshi，zheilishuodedisanzhebingbushirenmenpingchangjuededeneileidisanzhe。

 nanrenxinlidouzhuzhededisanzhe，buyidinghenanrenchanshengguoguanlian。zheiyidisanzhe，jianghuijinjingennanrenyouguoyimianzhiyuan，huoshiyouguofenbudexiangchu。tajianghuishiguoqude，jianghuishixianzaijinxingshide，keshiyejianghuishiwaidimanzhangde……tajianghuishinanxingdechulianqingren，jianghuishichuruzhichangzhongnuanweidepengyou，jianghuishidajieshangcashenerguoouyudepiaoliangmeinv，jianghuishizhiji……yiqiejieyoukeneng。

 yinci，renmenbukeyicongerershuolaogongchuguihuoshihunhouchugui，youyuzheizhongdisanzhezhicunyouyunanrendeneixin，bingbuyidingkuangsuanzaidajiaderichangshenghuozhong。

心态状态寄予

 hunyinshenghuokanqilaixingfumeiman，danshifanzadesuoshi，meitianweihaizhefuqizhijiandeqinggan，yinercaihuiyongyouqinianzhiyang。nvrenhuiyulaiyuxutao，nanrenyulaiyubulanman，shenghuoriyifawei，kunaoriyizengjia，xuduonanrenbianhuigangkaishiyanfanhunyinshenghuo。

 nanrenhenvrenjiaodadebuyiyangjiushishuonvrenduijiazhongdemingxianshiminggan。dangnvrenchengjialiyehou，jiusuanshenghuozaifaweizaijiannan，tamendoushizaifaweizhongganshoufeifan，zaijiannanzhongjiandaoqidai，youyutamenduizheiyijiazhongyongyoumingxiandeshiminggan，burongyisuibianshuoliyi。ernanrenzedaduoshuneishihoujiedaoshenglixuechongdongcengmiandeweihai，shizishenmihuoleyanjingfancuowu。

 nanrenxinlizhuzhededisanzhe，shinanrendexintaijiyu。nagedisanzhezhizhuzaitadeneixin，bingmeiyouchuxianzairichangshenghuozhong。nanrenbaduishenghuodeweimanheduishenghuodeqidaidoujiyuzaixinlidezheiyidisanzheshoushang，yongyouqiziquanbudeyoushi，chudiaoqizishoushangquanbudequexian，shige jizhi denvwang。zhengyouyuyongyounanrenxinlidezheiyidisanzhe，tacaiburongyizaishijizhongnianhuarecao，zheiyidisanzheweichizhedajiazhongjiandehunyinshenghuo。

想象的另一半

 renmenchangyouxingchongdong，nanrendexingxiangxianghenzaoyiqianchuxian。zaitamenhuanshibaobaodeneishihou，xiyunnaishuijiushishuoyigexianxiang。yibanbaobao，zaichilenaishuiyihouhaiyongdaoshouqufumomamaderufang，xunzhaoyizhongxintaizhuangtaidekaolv，zheijiushinanshixingchongdongdefanying。

 nanrenxiaixunzhaocijixinghelianaideganjue，danshiqizizaifuqixingshenghuozhongquefeichangshaoxiangyaoshizhexindezishi，meifajiyunanshixindejuede，rangnanrenriyiyanfan。yinci，nanrenbianhuizaixinlizangyigedisanzhe，zheiyidisanzhe，rutongajuzhongdexinggannvyou，yongyoumiaomandeshenxing，nengdanrengezhonggeyangchaonanzishi，jinanrenfeiyibandetihui，rangnanrenwanghusuoyi。zainanrenyuqiziguoxingshenghuoshi，zheiyidisanzhebianshicongnanrenxinliyiyueerchu，rangfuqixingshenghuogengweihemuxingfu。

 xingchongdongzishen bianwuduiyucuozhifen，youyutashirenshengdaolulaijuyoude，nvshiyehuiyouxingchongdong。yinci，zhenduinanrenxinlidezheiyidisanzhe，renmenbuyongguoduozaihu。

 jinguannanrenxinlidezheiyidisanzhefeichangshaoweihaidaohunyinshenghuoqinggan，danshi，haiyouhanyangdenvshidouaixianmubuzhi，jiarubeinilejielenanrendezheiyimimi，neimanihaowuyiwenbianhuixiaotidazuo，burongyijinanrenjiriguo。yinci，nanrenburongyisuibianjiangzheiyiqiezhengpangaozhinvren，feichangshishenpangdenvren。

 jibenshangmeiyigenanrenchangyouguowuyanliusedeqingganshenghuo，haoyidiandenanrenhuibadisanzhefangdaoxinlideziliudizhuzhe，yixietaiguodenanrenhuibadisanzhezaixinlifajuechuqu，rangdisanzheganyurichangshenghuo，bianchengdisanzheweihaihunyinshenghuo。zhongjiuyouyigelianrenyouyigedisanzheduinanreneryanhaoxiangshiyigexianbaidezichan，nanrenhuiyinerganjueyinyiweihao。

 duinvshieryan，dangnidelaogongzhizaixinlizhugedisanzhe，neimarenmendakebubifangdaoxinli，nanrenhuiyuezulanbianyuedikangde;danshijiarutabadisanzhesongdaodajiadehunyinshenghuozhizhong，neimaniyewuxugentakeqile，qianwanbiebeizheizhongdisanzhebahunyinshenghuotuolile。hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?