鸵鸟社会学 帮你缓解婚姻破裂

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?婚姻生活中的鸵鸟社会学，实际上是婚姻破裂的一种处理过程，是让步的造型艺术。做鸵鸟并不是谁强谁弱的难题，只是深思熟虑后的一种利润化的挑选。一般 ，非原则性的难题，采用鸵鸟对策有利于关联和睦，但原则性的难题上，采用鸵鸟对策务必三思后行。

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