应对婚姻生活感情“遗毒”永除后遗症

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?一些婚恋问题权威专家历经很多年的调查报告，发觉导致夫妻关系危機的缘故大概有下列几类：

1.相互之间的抵触

 zheiyangdeshiqingzhuyaobiaoxianwei，nibiekanwo，wobiekanni，bicihuxiangtuiwei，xianghuzhichi，duiyixiewubixiezuodenanti，tongchangcaiyongpangguan、lengdan、yanedexintai。

 daozhizheiyangdeshiqingdeguanjianyuanguyouyufufubicihuoyifangyoubaopiqi，bafuqixingshenghuoyirandangzuoguanggunyishizhuxinglaijiejue，zaigegelingyuxiangzhezishen，buguanbugubieren，duizhangfuhuoqizicaiyongyizhongbuxiezuodexintai，wulunshuohuayeba，banshiyeba，yaoshizishenxiangyao。

 biantingbujinquyiqiedizhijianyi，jiarulingyifanglveweibiaodayixiadizhi，biandanaopiqi。shijianzhangle，shimanmanchuxianledichu：yifangduilingyifangdeyantanjuzhizongjuedebukanbuguan，yizhiyuyane。

2.欠佳的个性

 fuqixingshenghuozaiyiqi，rengxuweichifenbiedeyuzhongbutonggexing，yigerenqianquegexing，zehuishiyuta(ta)chudederenjuedejiandanhekuzao。yigeqianquegexingdezhangfuburongyihuodeqizideqinglai，yiyang，yigeqianquegexingdeqizihuishizhangfuganjueweitongjiaola。jiduandegexingxingzishidaozhifufumaodundeguanjianfabingyuanyin。

3.性生活不协调

 hemudexingshenghuozaizhongguoyizhishibeihulvede，yitidaoxingdewenti，tarenlikebianhuichizenijuxinpocehuojuxinbuliang。shishishang，hemudexingshenghuozaiweichifuqiganqingzhongzhanjushifenguanjiandeyingxiangli。xuduofufudeganqingbuhe，shishishangshicongercushide，zhibuguoshi“ganqingbuhe”bi“xingshenghuobuhe”daolaigengwenweneryaxie，shirenjieshouchengdugao，erhoumianyizhongnandengdayazhitang。

 zaiyixielihunjiufenzhong，ganqingbuhebianchengxingshenghuobuhedequdaici，jinerbianchengliyidezhengdangxinggenju。yiner，fuqizhijianganqingdeweichi，suiranbuchedikaoxingderonghe，keshi，jiaruyigehuobicizaizhangqixingdexingshenghuozhongjihumeiyouhuodeguokaolv，buguanzenyangshiyaoweihaifuqiguanxide。

4.家中经济发展收益疏忽大意

 jiazhongdejingjifazhanshouyinanti，jingchangweihaifuqijiandeganqing，bianchengfufumaodundedaohuoxian。jiatingjingjiqingkuangyaobaozhengliangruweichu，youxiaoyingyong。shishishang，zheibingbushishiyigeqianduoshaoqianshaodenanti，guanjianqujueyuduiqiandexintai，jiqizenyangfenpeidenantishang。

 bicihuaqianxintaibuyizhi，nikeyimaibingxiang，woyaomaixifu;nikeyimaiyanchou，woyaomaicaichi;yejiushishuozhangfuhuaqianruliushui，qizixiaolixiaoqi;zhangfutaoqiankoumen、jiejian，qiziyaoqiugaoxiaofeishenghuoxiguan;erfufubiciyidanzaiqiandenantishangjiuchanbuxiu，fuqiguanxibiranzaoshouweihai，fuqiganqingdejinyibufazhanqushijiugengsuanbushangle。

5.亲戚难题

 zhangfudeqinqijiushishuoqizideqinqi，qizideqinqijiushishuozhangfudeqinqi，popoheniangjiarendoushiyijiaren，neiyangjiunenggoudadajianshaofuqizhijianyouyufuyang、zhaodaidengnantishangdefenqimaodun。qinqinantishuhudayi，bujinweihaiqinrendeganqing，lingwaihaihuiweihaifuqijiandeganqing。

 youyiduifuqijiuyouyuzheiyinantijiejuebutaihaoernaodefantianfudi。zhangfudejiaxiangzaixiangcun，youyici，zhangfudefumuruchengtanwanghaizi、erxifu，qizixianjiapohejiagongtulituqi，bujiangjiuweisheng，bujiangwenming，zishizhizhongbujijiapohejiagonghaomiansekan，bingxuyixunxiesuoshiyuzhangfuzhengzhi，jianzhangfujilefumujiyuan，bianzaiwuzilichaonao，haidetamenzhidaileertianbianmanqiangjiliaodihuijia。

 zhangfuhuoxuduiyubuyuanshibubaxiu，yincibicijiu“zhenqiangshidan”diganqilai，zuizhongpobudeyitichufenshou。zheiyishilibiaoming，qinqinantishuhudayi，tongchangzuixianhuishangleyifangdexurongxin，erzheiyoutongchanghuizaochengbiciganqingdeliekai。yiner，fufubicidouyingba“rangnidangzuowomama”，xianghuzhongshi，xianghujimianzi，neiyangcaihuishibicideguanliangengweihemuqilai。

 yingyongdejiejuehaohunyinshenghuozhizhongchuxiandeganqingweiji，gaohaogecengmiandegoutongjiaoliu。hunyinpoliecaikeyihuanjie。hunyinlianaishiyihuishima?