绝大多数婚姻与爱情无关

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?某杂志期刊调研中，60.8%的男士和47.9%的女性受众表达“亲身经历过或期盼婚姻出轨”，41.4%的男士和46.5%的女性受众表达“猜疑或以前猜疑直系亲属产生婚姻出轨”。“婚姻原本就并不是人性的物质，做为规章制度，它和人性中的许多物品是相反的”。著名小说家王海鸰如是说。

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