外遇认知能力误区 6种认知能力迷惑眼睛毁婚姻快乐

误区1：出轨由于ta在家中不开心

 hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating ?youdewaiyujinjinyibianxing，juedaduoshudoushibaohanxing，zheiyouyugenbanlvyiwaiderenooxxshijihui。gengshiyouyubuneng，yincilingrenxiangshizhe。danwaiyubingbuyidingjinjinyibianxing，jianyidishuo，waiyushiyibianhuodebanlvbukeyirangnidedongxi。duiyuzheileidongxijiujingshishenmezheijiuyinrenyousuobutongdele。

 youshijibianchuguizhezishenyeshuobuqingjiujingshishenme，youxieshiyibianhuiyiershisangshideyixiedongxi，youxieshiyibianyaoqiunianqingdejuede，yizhiyuxuduorendui“jizhi”delingyibanyiyangchuguixingwei，youyutamenshougouzheileijizhigan!yinci，waiyugenxingshibukeyiyigaierlunde。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?lianaihunyinshiyihuishima?

误区2：要是没有发生关系，就不可以算作出轨

 ganqingshangdechugui——zheileirenherenzhijiandichende，reqingdeguanlian，congbolatushideyouqingdaolanmandeganqing，yizhilingrenwurenweizishenmeiyouchugui。shijishangtashiyiduanhunyinshenghuonenggouzaoyudejiaodaweixie。

 80%dechuguidoushiyi“yigepenyou”gangkaishide，bingqiechangchangshipengyou。youkexueyanjiushuoming，zheiyangdeshiqingliyou50%denvrenyu62%denanrenyugongzuoxiaohuobanyoutouqing。qiaowushengximimidelingwaiyoutianmanchongdong，juqingjiaolvbuandehaoxiangpaitegongdianying。

 zheileiganqingshangdebeipanshifenfengxian，danyouchangchangyuanmantongguan，yidannishizhelejiufeichangrongyichengyin(neimehaodeshisheibuxiangyaoni)。dangniyongyoulingyibanyouzongzhuangzuodanshennannv，dangnizongmomocengcengdifasongyoujian、duanxiaoxi;dangniaigenlingyifangjiangxinsihaibuxiangyaogaozhilingyibangenneigerenpengmiandeshier，biaomingniganqingshangzaoyichuguile。

误区3：出轨由于ta在家中不开心

 zheiyinantishang，nanrennvrenshibuyiyangde。chuguinvrenshuomingtaduifuqiguanxibingbushilingrenmanyi，ernanrenjiuyoudianerbuyiyang。

 nanrenjibianzaiaitaxifu，chuangbianyishizhuxingzaixingfukuaile，yidanhaiyoujihuitamenrengranburongyisheqifengliuyunshi，yaoshitamenganjueburongyibeibu。yixiangshujudiaochabaogao，chuguidenanshizhongyou56%juedetamendehunyinshenghuohenxingfu，erzainvhaizhongzhineng34%yunxuzheiyijianjie。

误区4：一旦有外遇，就一定要跟另一半摊牌

 jiarudebeifajuele，nishijijihuihen，neiyangjinidaliangdejiyuzhengjiudajiajiandeguanlian。danruguoniganjuezuodegoumimibudakenengbeifajuedehua……yeshiyuanyinjuekoubuti。youdequanweizhuanjiajiutiyijiarulingyibanxingqingbuneimawanqiang，jiububigentatanpaile。

 zhongjiuzheileihuihenhuirangtadexinxinzaoshoupohuaixingdeyanlidaji，bingqieyoujianghuihuishidajiazongsuanchuangjianqilaidexinlaiyanxiaoyunsan，suihouyouyaohuahenduoniancaikeyifujianyigegengweimingandeguanlian。gengguanjiandeshi，nonggaoqingchunizenmehuigangkaishiyiduanwaiyu。nicongzheidangzhonghuodelenaxie?zheileidongxininengcongnidebanlvneibianhuodema?

 zuilandeyuanyinjiushichuquzishenneixinjiushufule，zheidequehuihuanjienidefuzuigan，keshinidebanlvhuiyinerchengdannengduodetongchu。nijiranzuocuoshi，jiuyingdangxiangfangfachulita。

误区5：假如Ta出轨，就表明Ta已不爱着你了

 kanshangqushineiyang，danshiqingbuyidingzheiban。danzheidequenenggoubiaomingtazaoyiyibuneimazhongshiniba，dajiayiqianxuxianuoyandeshiyanyeyibuzhuzhong。bingqiedajialiangdejiazhiguannianzaoyibuyiyangle。youderenshinenggoubaaihexingfenlide，tamendechuguijinjindanchunxingdehetarenshuizaiyiqi，danbingbushiyiweizheyibuailingyibanle。

误区6：假如没有人发觉就不算是撒谎!

 dangnishizhongyeburongyibeifajue，nishizhongyeburongyizaikandaobieren，bingqiedajiazhongjianshianquanxingdexingshenghuo，niyoumeiyougaozhisuoyouren，zheinengsuanweishichuguima?

 zheichedizaiyunizishen，ruguoniqueshiganjuefengyiguowuhen，nijiunenggoubusuanshi。dannantishi，feichangshaoxuduorencongxinliliganjuechuguichedimeiyoucuo。

 jibianzaishanpianderenyehuilejiechuguishijiancuoshi，bingqiepiandebanlvtuantuanzhuandelingwai，niduilingyifangdejuedeyeyijinggenggai，ninengganjuelingyifangbingbushitaitianzhen，jiushishuotaihaopian。huanjuhuashuoshiquqingrenguanxizhongbukehuoquedeyigeyinsu：zhongshi。lianaihunyinshiyihuishima?