揭密：男人婚后为什么愈来愈缄默

男人缄默身后的实情你造吗

 hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating ?meiguoshehuixuejiamakelijingdiaoyanfajue：nanrenmeirideshuohualiang，shinvrendeyiban。dannanrenmenyedaduoshuyongyiweixinpengyouquanzhong、gongzuoshang，eryulianrendexianliaogoutongjiaoliu，meirijianghuibugou15fenzhong，cuociliangbuchaochu10%。

 shijishang，nanrenyouxuduojianmodefangshi ，meiyizhongdoujianghuishiyicizhenxinchengyideneixinhuihuadegangkaishi。qiantitiaojianshi，nikeyilejietamenzhenshixiangzenmeshuohua，suihoucaiquyouxiaodefangfancuoshi。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?lianaihunyinshiyihuishima?

用缄默来示威叨唠

 nvrenxiaigenjutanhuaneironglaichuangjianguanlian、hangshijichuguanlian，zaijiazhongzexiaigenjutaolaolaixianshixinxizishendelingdaoganbuyingxiangli，biaoshuduinanrendeguanzhu。nanrenzebuneimexiang，buguantajiehunqianshizaitainengyanshanbian、koutulianhua，jiehunhoudenanrengengxiangyaolijijiangchuzishendeshijixinyuan，liru“jinyexiangheniyiqichulaiyongcan”、“wojuedexiexi”、“woxianghuibaogongzuole”。shubuzhi，nvrenshoubule，nanrengengshineiyang，nvrengengshiyouhuayaoshuo。

 henduoneishihou，ruguoyigenvrendetaolao，jiazhongyuwaibianxuannaodetianshangbiewuerzhi。nanrenciketongchangbinvrenkanqilaigengkeguan，yingduinvrendetaolao，taburongyilijibianbo——neihaowuyiwenshizaijiazhongtouxiayimeidingshizhadan;tayeburongyiculuxunchi——neihaowuyiwenshishibangongbeidekunshouyoudou。

用缄默来调养心身

 nanhaierzixiaojiujienafuzerenzheileide“liangzhu”wenhuajiaoyu：dangtamenchengnianrenhou，buguanyingduishizaitaiwukenaihedepijuanhegongzuoyali，doubukeyixiangnvrenneibangenjukulaifaxie。tamenweiyinengzuode，zhinengjianmo。zaijianmozhongsikao，zaijianmozhongdiaoyang，zaijianmozhongxushidaifa。

 yiner，dangnanrentuozhehouzhongdebufafanhuijia，dangtazuozhebuyishafashangyiyanbufa，dangtaduinideyujushushiwudushi，nibuyaozaiyizhiqishi、wushishengfei、xinchaopengpai，yizhiyuertimianming。

 shuobuding，tabujiuwanbiyugukedetanhuaneirongjingpilijie，huoshizhengzaoyurenshengdaolugongzuodecengdeng，beigansunhaipibeipijuan。zheishihou，tajianmoshiyibianxiuyangshengxi，tashizaijianmozhongdedaojixinsheng。zheishihounihebujitamenyigezhongtoudeshijian，tahuihedabaitiandegongzuozhongwanquanshuo“zaijianle”，yihou，tajianghuihuiduinideyiqienantizhuyaobiaoxianchulingrenzhenjingdeaihao。

用缄默来决胜千里

 nijingchanghuifajuelejiedeneigeren，shuozhexiaozhe，huranjianmoqilai。shijishangzheiyineishihou，jianmofalengjinjinnanrendebiaomianshense，shuobudingtadedanaoliyijingsisuoyixieguaiyidenanti，huoshishashicufaletadeshejilinggan。zaitajindaojianmodesisuoqingkuangshi，neijiushiyizhongleisi“biguanxiulian”derenshengjingjie。

 tamenbuxiwangsuoyourenbatacongsisuodeqingkuangzhonglachuqu，gengbuxiwangxuduorenqieduanhuojiaoluantazaijianmozhong“xiulian”。zheishihou，jiuhebudangyigemomobuyudesuicongba。yexushiduchushideqingqingsongsongqifen，budanhuishitadejianmoshijiandadasuoduan，bingqiehuitahuiduiniganxiebuji。

用缄默来珍藏版稳私

 youshihou，nanrenhuizaitufazhuangkuangxiabiangejiahua，youshihouzehuixiangfangshefamanbaoxienaxie，nanrendegouxiangshi，yaoshibuyongshuo，nvrenmeifajue，yiqiejiuhuixunsuyiwang。yinci，weilebimiantaduitadequantoumingcaozonghejianguan，tajiutiaoxuanlejianmo。meilezhenxiangdexunmi，tadequanqiujiunenggouyoujingxuduo。

 zaifufubicidegoutongjiaoliuzhong，nanrenyizhihendangxin，bingjinliangfangzhibaoludequedian，tebieshizaishizaiweijizhuangkuangxia，nanrenhuiwubizishenfengbishi。jiarunvrenzaizheiyineishihouxutaonanxiu，nanrenhuigengweifahuo。erzhenduiyiwangdeganqingdengmingancihui，nanrentongchangchuziyuzhenchengerjianmo，youyunanrenyebixuguishugan，xiwanghuodequebao，lixiangzainvrenyanqianchengxianzuijizhidezishen。

用缄默来开展“掩藏”

 nanrendeshijietianmanshichangjingzheng，zheijiuguidingjianju、jiamianjuheshuaxinyan。nanrendecunhuomianlinnvrenmeifaxiangxiangdecanrentiaozhan，gudanwukebimian。yaorangyigenanrenzaijianmoshidakaixinfei，zuixianshiyaojitamenyizhongguishugan，ninengyunyongnvshideneileijiqinglaiweijieta。nihaikeyiananwenwenditingtachanshu，jinliangkeguanxingdianping，binghetayiqixunzhaojiejuefangan。

 shijishang，nanrenzongyouqianzaixingdeziaoquxiang，yaoshitayouchongzudeguanzhongmen，tajiuhuizhuyaobiaoxiandejiyoufengcai、koucaihao，bingtianmanaihao。yinci，jiaruyaohuanjiexianghudelengdongfenwei，ninengkaolvdaohetayiqiquyedianhuoshichalou。youyuzaineibian，tanenggouxunzhaoshitajidongdequnzhong。

 yaobujiuhetarenyiqizuodianshi，liruyaorenyiqikandianshiju、guangjiegouwu，dangtafajuebenyingguishuyuzishendeyingxianglizaoshouweixieyihou，tahaowuyiwenhuijijilaiyuenipoyitanpanjiangju。lianaihunyinshiyihuishima?