得到美满婚姻夫妻之间务必留意10大忌讳

1. 婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?不必随意猜忌。不必认为你对爱人的念头和觉得了然于胸，十有八九，你能错误。在婚姻破裂中，经常出現这类场景：文过饰非的猜疑让两人都越来越恼怒、无法沟通，最终关联裂开。
   

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 2.bubijuedeairenjinizuodeshilisuodangran。duiairenbiaoshuganxieshifenguanjian，yaoqingchusandaxiaojiqingxu：zhipeiquangan、tuolishijidexiwangheyangzhuangjiyijiantui。

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 3.bubihuxiangmaiyuan。“doushinidecuo!”“niyaowozuode，huoxu，shiercainongdeyitahutu!”zheibandemaiyuanfeichangrongyishuochukou。er“wogaifunaxieyiwu”zheileidehuazefeichangshaochukou。maiyuanshijishangbiaoshudeshichizeheweixie，lingyifangyedaziranhui yizhibaoyuan，zaochengmaodunshengji。

jianyi：xiechuniduiairenmaiyuandehua，suihoufangongzisheng，zijiuzichayiwu，zuizhongbicishangyixunzhaojiejuefangan。

 4.bubisuiyibiaoshu。“xianzaiwosuanzuolejieniweishenmeneimekekele，nirutongnibaba。”zheizhonghaoxianglejieairengerenxingweixintaidepouxizongshizaochengnaonu。

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 5.bubidanxinshuo“bu”。xunzhizishentihuieryiweikaolvlingyifangdezuofa，kanqilaiyouli，qishibushizhenxinshiyidezhuyaobiaoxian。erqianquezhenxinshiyidehunyinshenghuomeibanfayouqinmiwujiankexun。

 jianyi：youhuajiushuogengnenghuodeairendexinlai，jiazhongfuqiguanxi。hebuannanduxishushuipingliejuquanbudanxingaozhiairendeshi。yihou，congfeichangjiandandeyijiangangkaishi，shizhegaozhiairenshiqing。

6.bubibajianmodangwuqizhuangbei。fuqiganqingzhong，jianmoshizhimingwuqi。

jianyi：jiairenxiefengxin，biaoshufahuodeyuanguhezishendekunhuo，yongjijizhudongdexintaizhengdefufudegoutonglejie。

 7.bubixuyijinu。tiaoxuanzaiganqinghuorentishangshiquziwodegerenxingwei，genghaoxiangyizhongjinu。lirutongkuzheng、suiyitaoqian、zijindeng。

 jianyi：zhaogebicinengpingxinjingqigoutongjiaoliu30fenzhongdediqu，suihougaoqingchuzishendenaxiegerenxingweizaijiairentianmafan，zhuyiziwofansi。

8.bubimieshiairen。fuqijianyingfangzhiyixiejianshaolingyifanggerenjiazhidehua。liru，“niruheneimelan!”deng。

 jianyi：liejuquanbu“nizenyangzenyang”deyuju，suihouba“ni”huanwei“wo”，shizheyong“wo”kaishideyujuyuairengoutong。

9.bubiweixieairen。yanyuhuoshentiweixiejilingnvebidingzaochenghunyinshenghuomaodun。

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 10.bubizhaobierenjianrong。fufumaodunwanruliangguozhijianxuanzhan，bicidouxiangzhengdelianmengyijianronghehangshijichuzishendeyingxiangli。dandisanfangdechuxianbingbulifufugoutong，duofangmianchuliliangshijiandemaodun。

 jianyi：bicinenggouxianlizhijiri，fenbiekaolvdaofuqiguanxizhongdedeyushi，bingxiechengzishenbixugaijinde;jirihou，zaiyuairenlingjuligoutong。lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?