恋爱结婚5个缘故 分析男性怎么背叛你

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?男人背叛女人，尽管在其中详细情况不尽相同，可是归结为实质一般 只分成下边几类状况：

第一，由于权益而背叛。

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 danshi，youyubutaikenengmeigerenyouhenhaodeyunshi，gengguanjiandeshi，zheizhongqingkuangchanshengzaidianshilianxujulibiandezhuangkuangyaobishijishangrichangshenghuoshaodeduo，xuduoneishihouquanshiyibianxianghupeiheqingjiefazhanqushierkeyikaishede。

 jianxinxuduorenkanleyingpian《taijizhangsanfeng》，libianyangziqiongwanlixunfu，jieguotadelaogongqueganledanghongnanxingdeliugonggongqinmeimeidedaochamen，yinci，yichanghuntianheidideboshagangkaishile……

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 danzheizhongqingkuangbaohandejiaoweipubian：ruxiangcunruchengdapinyihouzhanlutoujiaojiuxiudiaojiuxiangnidiergejia，youyubeilaobanguinvkanhaoerpaoxialiangxiaowucaidenvpengyou，yizhiyubaohanyouyumeiyoufangwuerliqudengdengdeng……

 zongdelaishuo，zheileishuobailedebeipan，zaishijishangrichangshenghuobingshaojian，jiaruyibaifenshulailundehua，shuzuiduoburongyichaochu10%;erduizheileinanren，liquta，yingdangshiyizhongxingfukuaile。

第二，由于觉得而背叛。

 zheizhongqingkuangzairichangshenghuozhong，xiangjiaoqianmianyizhongdaliangjianyixie，keshihaiyoujuede，yaoshimeiyoushijibiaozhundezhichengdiandoushibutaikenengzhangqide。

 tongchangzaicanrendeshijiyanqian，haiyoujuedemeiyoufanchiyebuhaode。yinci，zheizhongqingkuangdaliangdechanshengzai22suixialiedeqingshaonianertongzhizhong，yibaifenbijisuan，dayueyou15%。zheileinanren，yiban guishuyubuwanshandezhonglei，bansuizheshijiandebianhua，jianjiandihuifaxianzishendangshizuobuduinaxie。

第三，由于背叛而背叛。

 zheili，wobingmeiyouqishinvxingmendehanyi。keshiyaolejie，zaixianrujinshidai，bujinshinanxinghuiwaiyu，nvrenyehuiyouzheizhongqingkuangchansheng。

 yidanchanshengwaiyuyihou，haoyixiedeningjingdetichufenshou，yeshiyixieyouyumouzhongyuanyinmeifajunhengzishendexintaizhuangtai，caiyongleyizhongpoguanposhuaidezuofa。zheizhongqingkuang，yebingfeixuduo，dayueyejiuzhineng20%。jiaruyaojizheileinanrenpandingdehua，guishuyu“shenzhibuqingxing”。

第四，由于日常生活的关键点而背叛。

zheili，wojianghaoduogerichangshenghuodexiaoshiqing：

1、yupengyoujucanzhong，dianhuachuanlai“zuoshenmequla!henwanlehaibuhuijiale?zhengtianjiulejiefeng，hesinisuanla……”

2、pengyoushengri，xianglaiqingheyixia，jianghaodeaazhi，keshifanraoxinyouyuerlibuzu，zhinengxiandaozhaojiyoudaikuanjinji……

 3、zaiqiyetaileileyitian，baoshoulelaozongdeqi，yuanbenxiangfanhuijiazhongshifangyaliyixia，yigeshengxiangxiangqilai：“nisheikanmendeshei，bininianjihaixiaoni，zaoyishi……”

 4、xialebanfanhuijia，quanshendepibei。quejiannvpengyou(huoshifuren)zhengchenzuizaidianshilianxujuzhong“ruhecaihuijia，wanshangchishenmea……”

5、zishenqinfendejizijidenvpengyou(furen)ganleyijianshiqing，danshiquebeizhiruowangwen。

6、dangzishenshentibushufudeneishihou，nvpengyou(furen)quezaimangzhezishendeshiqing。

7、zaipenyoudeyanqianbeizishendexifuzeguai……

8、…………

 jianxinshangbianchangshuodeyixieshiqing，henduopengyoudouyouguoqinshendeganshou。wozaizheibujingyiqishizhongduonvxingpengyoumen，keshizaiwoguoshuqianniandegudianwenhualibian，nanrenyicibeishouyuleguoduodeyiwuzailibian。yinci，xuduoneishihou，xuduoshiqingdoubieshizuoshiyingdangzuodeyiyang。

 bulunshizaoyigouchenglejiazhongdepenyouhuanshizaoyitongjushenghuodenanrennvren，douduizheiyijiazhongyouzhetongyangdeyiwu，keshibansuizheshiqidefazhanqushi，benlaidaliangshiyounvshilaidanfuderujiawuhuodengshiqing，rujinhenduodebianweilenanrenfenneideshiqing。

 wobingfeiduiyu80hou，keshixuduo80nianzhihouchushidenvshengmenlianzuijichudejiawudouburongyigan，gengshizheizhongweixiaodewupin，tongchangbiancheng“beipan”delijifabingyuanyin!

 liangrenlaidaoyiqi，bidingyouhuxiangxiyinzhudedifang，jiaruyouyumeifamoheqierfenlidehua，yejiuzhaobudaozhebeipanle。keshirichangshenghuozhong，tongchangjiushishuoyouyuyixielingsuideshiqing，cushibenlaihemudejiazhonghuoshiqinglvzhongjiangangkaishizaochengleliefeng。

 shehuixintaixueshangbianjiang：“dangyigerenyongyouxiangqingtudeyuwangdeneishihou，ta(ta)tongchangzuikaishixiangqideshizishenzuiqinmijiechuderen，erdangzuiqinmijiechuderenmeifajienazheiyiqiedeneishihou，ta(ta)jiuhuibianhuazongtimubiao，erzheitongchangshihunyinshenghuohuoshiqingganchuxianliefengdezuikaishifabingyuanyin……”

 yaoshiyongxindesikaohuiyiyixia，jiuhuifajue：shijishangxuduoneishihou，yigeguanjiandianshangbiandexiaoshiqing，tongchangshizuizhiside，eryidanguohoubukeyijijigoutongjiaoliu，danyifangyiweideqianrang，jiushishuobeipandegangkaishi……

zheizhongqingkuang，zairichangshenghuozhongshishuzuiduojiande，yibaifenshujiyingdangzhanju50%zuoyou。

第五，由于一些男人自身就好吃懒做、朝秦暮楚而背叛。

zheileirenyeshi，yingdangnenggouzhanju5%shangxia，duizheileinanrenyouxiaodefangfajiushishuojineryuanzhi……

 zaibeinanrenbeipandeneishihou，zhongduodenvxingyiban quanshichuyuyizhongtongchuzhizhongeryiweidequchizehebaoyuan。huoxu，bierenbeipandejuedehennanshou，xuanxieyeba，naonuyeba，douguishuyuyiqiezhengchangcengmian，danshiquefeichangshaoyounvrenqusikaoyixiazishen。

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