女人婚姻生活前后左右的三种移位

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?婚姻生活对女人很关键，他们更是想把它运营好，却又更是阴错阳差和功亏一篑，恕小编直言不讳，这绝不仅是凡俗意识和社会风尚难题，实际上它一定水平上是由女人本身要素决策的。在其中，女人婚前婚后的三种移位却变成了他们婚姻不顺的最关键缘故：

其一，感性与理性的移位

 dabufennvrenjiehunqianshiganxingde，jiehunhoucaijianjiandiyuelaiyuelixing。kezaixiaobianlaikan，ganghaoshizheileijiehunqiandeganxingjijiehunhoudeyishizhuxingliuyouleanquanyinhuan，lingwaijiehunhoudelixingyouhuiranghunyinshenghuozhengchaochixu。hunhouzenmeweichihaojiating?lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?

 jingchangyouxieren：jiehunqianxiliangyan，jiehunhoumengzheyan。shijishang，zheihuashiyouyidingdadaolide，tadezhenshihanyouqujueyugaozhimeinvmen，zaiwanhunyiqianqianwanbietingxinnanrendetianyanmiyu，juebunengbeiganqingmihunledanao，zheiyineishihouyingdanglixingsiwei，jinkenengduoyidianshijidekaolv，neiyangcaikeyirangjiehunhoudeyishizhuxingshaoyidianquehan。

 hunhou，meinvmenyiqingchunnianshaodepeixunfei，zainanrendeyishenzuozexia，dongdelelixingsisuo，tamenyibutingxinnanrendehua，tamenxiaichazhengnanrendezongji，xiguanxingcongnanrendemeiyigeyantanjuzhizhongzhaoxunluojixingshangdexitongloudong…..jiusuanshinanxingduokanyuedulemouyinvrenyiyan，tadoushiyonglixingkaizhanpouxi……

 keshijishangtamenquebudui，youhaoduohaoduoshijideshiligaozhirenmen，nvrenjiehunhoudexingfukuailedoubukehuoque“shahuhu”ganxing，yigenvrenzhinengganxingdiguanniandaotazhangfuhenaita，tahenpiaoliang，henyoufengcai，tacaikeyiyouyouyuegan。shijishangshishangzhenshiwanmeidexingfushizhaobudaode，hunyinshenghuodezishenjiudaibiaorangbu，errangbudezhendijiushishuoganxingyuhulihutu。

 yincixiaobianchangxiang，ruguomeinvmendoukeyijiehunqiandeganxinghejiehunhoudelixingfanzhuandiaogeweishu，gaiyouduohaoa。huoxu，zheijinjinxiangduixingde，lingwaiyebixunanrendexianghupeihe，youyuzaiyigezhuoliedenanrenyanqian，nvrenshishizhongmeifaganxingqilaide，jibianshiyou，doushineileibulihunyinshenghuodeganxingjiaxiang。

其二，婆婆与娘家人的移位

 nvrentangruomishangyigenanren，tamenhuitoujiazhongdewupinzengjita，muqinyigongbaole30geshuijiao，tahenbuneng30gequansongyiwangjitamenchi。kuaiwanhunshi，tadouhuidianjizhefangfabangnanrenshuodongqinrenshaoguanjiandianjiehunlijin，gaozhibabamamazheiyinanrenyoushizaitaidehao。

 kewanhunzhihou，zhangfuduonaleyibaiyuanjipoziyongjiubugaoxingle，erzishenmeiyicinayiqianyuanhaixianshao。pengdaofengnianguojie，quzhangfujiazhongertianjiuchaozhehuijia，kezishenquezainiangjiarenjingchangzhushangyigelibaibuxianzhang。

 shijishang，zheiqueshishibudui。jiehunqian，niyeshilaozhangren，buguancongquanyiheganqingshangeryan，nidoudeguzheniangjiaren，erbaquanbuxindoutaojiyigeshijishangyunihaobuxianggandenanren，zheiyingshiyigeshizaitaidadeyumei。

 neiyangshuo，bingfeitianshangshizhongzhanlanbushiyanhuo，bumingbainanrenhenvrendeqingquyongju，erqueshishiyouguoduonvrenzaizheiyinantishangjiaoguoxuduopeixunfeile;zailiaoshuojiehunhouba，jielehunnidaziranshipoporenle，dajiadoubieshuozishenyoushizaitaixinshiqile。

 youyushehuifazhandefansushizhongcunyou，buguanconghujizhidu，huanshijiusixianghefalvfaguieryan，nvrenhunhoudaduoshuquanshipoporenle，xiaobiannenggoulejiemeinvmendeneilei“gujiaqingyi”he“chizizhiqing”，danzheizhongzhongguizhiyoushifangzaixinshang，huoshishishuzuiduohepopogongping，zhiyaonishijiushiyaobaniangjiarenbaifangzaibijiaotuchudediyiwei，nanrendeqingmianheganqingkekan?

其三，装扮与不装扮的移位

 zhongsuozhouzhi，lianaizhongdenvrenshikande。suiranhaokandezuiguanjianyuangushiqingxu，keshiqueyutamendeaichuanzhedabanshimibunengfende。meiyiciyouhuitamendoushihuashanghenzhangdeshijianquchuanzhedaban，weichuannaxieyifukuzierdanxin…..zheileizhuguanxingshangdezhuangbanqudongli，bianbianchengletamenlingyizhongpiaolianghefengcaideyuandongli。

 shubuzhi，wanhunzhihoutamenjiubuyiyangle，xiangzhehundouhuijie，youdianerqianyedecunzheguoshenghuoa，yincijingqishenshangdesongxieshenghuodelaoliurangtamenkuaisubianchengleyigerenlaozhuhuang。

 shuojuxinlihua，xiaobianjuedenvrendecileibianhuaqueshishiquefazhihuixingle。andaoli，hunqian，chuzailianaizhong，nanrenruhekanzheniquanshihaokande，wuxutaiguozhuangbantazhendeaizhenihuanshiaizhenide。

 erhunhoujiubuyiyangle，taxiangyaodedouhuodele，gaishangxidemeidoushangxikeyile，bulunshijiaoduhuanshiganqingshangmianchuxianleshijuedeshenmeipilao，zheiyineishihoujiarunvxingbuzhongshizhuangbandehua，shiyijianshifenkongbudeshier。

 yifangmiannanrenyibianbiaodabiaocengshangwoduinideai，burongyisuibiangaosudajia，lingyifangmianqueduiniyulaiyumeiyoujuedele，ernvrenhaiyaoyi“ziwoxishengjingqishen”erchenzuixingfukuailezhe，zhizhiyouyitiantahenxianzhudibiaodachuniduitazaoyimeiyouyouhuoli，danzheiyineishihouquetongchangzaoyiwanle。

 yinci，nvrenjiehunhouzaizhuangbanshangdehuangwushijiweibuzhengquede，jiaruyaozaihunqianhunhoutiaoxuanyigebuzhuangbandehua，xiaobianjuedeneiyeningyuantiaoxuanzaijiehunqian，huoxujiehunqiandebuzhuangbangengnenggoumoliantashifouzhenxinaini，erjiehunhoudebuzhuangbanfanershizaitiaozhannanrenxiaodongwudetianxingle。wulunzenyangbixujilao，buyaozaixinnanrenzheixiebugaoduzhongshinvrenbiaomiandeguihua!lianaijiehunshiyihuishima?